Hayi i-taboo: indlela yokuthetha nabantwana malunga nokuya esikhathini

"Ezi ntsuku" ziphela

Ngenyanga-le yinkqubo yendalo ngokupheleleyo yento yabasetyhini, ethi, nangona kunjalo, ithathelwe ingqalelo ixesha elide into emdaka, ihlaziywa kwaye ithathelwe ingqalelo (kwaye kwenye indawo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku). Eyokuqala kwi-SpecialSmatiswetion yokuya esikhathini ithathe indawo enkulu, kodwa kubonakala ngathi inyathelo eliphambili liseza - ukwenza imeko ye-phenomenon kwiintsapho eziqhelekileyo.

Kuluntu lwanamhlanje, kwanabafazi abaninzi (ukuba bangathethi madoda!) Kunzima ukuthetha ukuya esikhathini kwaye sisebenzisa indlela yococeko ngokungathi sisixhobo sokubulala. Nangona kunjalo, kungekudala, nawuphi na umzali kuya kufuneka athethe nomntwana kwaye kule, ngokungathi lihlazo, kwaye eneneni sisihloko esiqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo.

Ndilungiselele ukuba ndimxelele indlela yokuba ndimxelele umntwana wakho malunga nokuya esikhathini, ukuze anikele ingqalelo kuyo, nendlela yokulungiselela.

Thetha malunga nokuya esikhathini ngumntwana ngaphandle komgangatho wakhe

Imbono eqhelekileyo kukuba ukuya esikhathini 'izinto zabasetyhini ", lixesha lokuthumela umhlaba. Ukuthatha i-taboo kule nkqubo yendalo kwaye kuyilophele emehlweni oluntu, kubalulekile ukuba kungekuphela nje amantombazana ayazi malunga nokuya esikhathini, kodwa nawo amakhwenkwe. Kwaye, ukuba bafunda ngakulo nangabahlobo abafunda nabo eklasini kwaye hayi kwizifundo zebhayoloji, kodwa kubazali abakwaziyo kwaye bezolile lonke ulwazi oluyimfuneko.

Jonga ulwazi lwakho

Ngaphambi kokuba ube nencoko nomntwana wakho malunga nokuya esikhathini, qiniseka ukuba uyawuqonda umbuzo. Ukukhumbula zonke iinkcukacha ze-anatomical, kunjalo, akunyanzelekanga, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ngokucacileyo okwenzekayo emzimbeni, kwaye yintoni eqhelekileyo.

Kubalulekile nokufunda isimo sakho sengqondo ngenyanga. Mhlawumbi, ngenxa yamava obuqu okanye ukukhulisa, uqhele ukuqaphela inyanga nenyanga njengento engathandekiyo, imbi kwaye ibuhlungu, kodwa ayifanelanga ukuthetha ngolwimi olulula nolona nkqu nolwimi olungathathi cala.

Ngendlela, ooyihlo baya kuchukumisa kwakhona - le ntombazana iya kuziva ukuzithemba ngakumbi kwaye inyamezele ukuba iza kwaziwa ukuba bobabini abazali bakhe bajongiwe ngalo mbandela kwaye banokuphendula imibuzo yakhe ngaphandle kwesithintelo.

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Qala kwangaphambili

Amaxesha amantombazana aqala kwiminyaka eli-12 ubudala, kodwa kwezinye iimeko banokuqala ngaphambi - umzekelo kwiminyaka eyi-8-9.

Akufanelanga ulindile "umzuzu" ofanelekileyo wokuxela malunga nokuya esikhathini - usenokuba njalo, uyiphose.

Qala ngokuthetha ngequbuliso komntu, malunga nokuba zivela phi abantwana, kwaye kunokuba amakhwenkwe ayahluka kumantombazana esele iqale ukuqondeka kakuhle. Kungekudala uqala ukuthetha ukuya esikhathini kunye nomntwana, ithuba eliphakamileyo lokuba iya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo into yokufikisa kuye.

Sukuzibekela umda kwincoko enye

Iingxoxo ngomntwana malunga nomzimba wakhe kunye nomzimba kufuneka zibe yinto eqhelekileyo ekhayeni lakho-hayi umcimbi wexesha elinye, onokuthi ucam umcimbi, njengomntwana uya kubhekisa kwimicimbi "enomtsalane". Qala incoko ebudeni kwaye uqhubeke njengoko umntwana ekhula-kuya kukunceda ukuba wenze isigqibo esiqhelekileyo nasiphi na isihloko kusapho lwakho kwaye uya kunceda ekumiseleni unxibelelwano ngezihloko ezinzima.

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Thatha amagama afanelekileyo

Rhoqo, amantombazana afunda ukuya esikhathini kwiincwadana ezinemifanekiso okanye iincwadi zezifundo zebhayoloji. Kuluncedo ukwazi i-phology, kodwa, ngelishwa, umfanekiso oqingqiweyo wamalungu angaphakathi akancedisi ukuqonda ngcono ukuba le nkqubo ingaqondakaliyo inokwenzeka.

Ke ngoko, zama ukungatshintsheli kwi-latin kunye nemigaqo ye-anatomical, kodwa ukuze nixele ezifumanekayo, eziqondakaleyo, kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka imizekelo. Ukwala ukusetyenziswa kwe-esshesms efana ne "Aunt kwi-higeuli" okanye "ifihlakalo" yomfazi. " "Inyanga" kunye "ukuya" ngamazwi aqhelekileyo, kwaye akukho nto iphosakeleyo ukuba ayisebenzise kwintetho yabo.

Sixelele malunga neengxowa mali ezikhoyo

Ukuthetha nentombi malunga nokuya esikhathini, mxelele ngazo zonke iimveliso ze-hygiene: ngokulala (ukulahla kunye nezicubu), i-tishu), i-swabs, amaqhekeza esiya esikhathini kunye namagwala esiya esikhathini kunye namagwala esiya esikhathini kunye namagwala angabhalwanga. Isoyikisa malunga nendlela yokusebenzisa nganye kwezi ngxowa kwenye.

Kukwaluncedo oluneenkcukacha ngeendlela zokulwa iintlungu zokuya esikhathini - amalungiselelo amayeza, izithende, ukuphumelela imithambo kunye nokuphumla.

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Chitha amava

Ukuphelisa uloyiko malunga nokuya esikhathini ngokungaqondakaliyo, kubalulekile ukubanika intombazana ithuba lokuba 'liziqhelanise "ukuqala kwabo. Nikeza intombi yakho ukuba ikhuphe kwaye iglule irhasi, ibonisa indlela isitya sokuya esikhathini, mayingalawuleki kwaye ichukumise i-tampon.

Amantombazana amaninzi angakhange aqalise ngenyanga ukuba angakhathazeka ukuba 'abuyele "kunye nokugoba iimpahla. Imizekelo ebonakalayo iya kukunceda ukuba ususe le alarm. Phantsi i-tampn kwiglasi ngamanzi, galela ulwelo kwi-garket-ngokubanzi, dlala intengiso. Isifundo esibonakalayo esiya kumnceda le ntombazana ifumane ukuzithemba kwaye ikhuphe uloyiko lokuya esikhathini.

Gcina izixhobo ze-hygiene ekufikeleleni ezivulekileyo

Emva kweenkcukacha ngokweenkcukacha ngendlela yokuzisebenzisa, qiniseka ukuba intombi yakho iyazi apho ifumana khona zonke iimveliso zococeko ezifanelekileyo kwakamsinya nje. Musa ukuzifihla kwibhokisi eyimfihlo okanye i-resopes ende-i-gasket kunye neetampon kufuneka zifumaneke kwaye zibonakale njenge-shampoo okanye i-shampton winds.

Yenza yonke inkqubo

Nokuba intombi yakho inobunzima obukhulu malunga nokuya esikhathini, xa kuqala baqala kuye, kunokwenzeka ukuba udidekile. Ukucutha inqanaba loxinzelelo, utsho kwangaphambili into eya kwenziwa yintombi yakho ukuba iqala ekhaya, esikolweni okanye esitratweni. Mcele ukuba athwale iimveliso ze-hygiene kunye neesisu ezihlanjeni, sixelele apho unokufumana khona i-garket ukuba uqalile inyanga nenyanga, kwaye ayinanto kuye.

Ukuthetha ngesigameko kunye noNyana, nikela ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kwiziphi iimvakalelo ezinokufumana amajoni aqalileyo amaxesha.

Xoxa ukuba ingenza njani ukuba ihlangane nemeko efanayo esikolweni, okanye ubuncinci ukungayixhasi imeko.

Iincwadi zonxibelelwano zoncedo

Ngelishwa, ngesiRashiya, hayi uninzi lweencwadi ezifumanekayo kunye nenqanaba elifanelekileyo malunga nokuya esikhathini zapapashwa, kodwa kusekho ezinye- umzekelo, i-adventure yakho. Ungayikhangela ngentombi yam okanye umnike incwadi yokufunda ngokuzimeleyo.

Khuphela usetyenziso

Emva kokuba intombi yakho inexesha lenyanga, umnike ukuba akhethe kwaye akhuphele isicelo esifanelekileyo sokugcina umkhondo womjikelo. Kuya kunceda ukulandelela i-frequency yokuya esikhathini (ekuqaleni kwabo banokungabi nako kakhulu) kunye nobunzulu babo ukuze banxibelelane kwangexesha, ukuba kukho into engahambanga kakuhle.

Nika ingqalelo uncedo kuncedo

Ngaphandle kwento yokuba ukuvuthwa ngokwesondo kwenza ukuba abantu abakwishumi elivisayo baziva bodwa kwaye bangaqondakali, kubalulekile ukukhumbuza intombi yakho ukuba ibe ngamava apho bonke abafazi badlula khona. Kwaye umsebenzi wabasetyhini jikelele apha kukuxhasana kwaye uncede amaxesha xa kukho into ngaphandle kolawulo. Yabelana ngerhasi, unike isweyithi yakho ukuze umntu endifunda naye awuvalele esinqeni aze afihle inkohliso kwibhulukhwe, evakalisa uvelwano.

Ubomi bonke, sijamelene neemeko ezahlukeneyo, kwaye kuhle ukwazi ukuba kwimeko apho unokufumana inkxaso okanye ube yinkxaso ngequbuliso ngequbuliso.

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