Phambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo sokufunda umntwana ukuba alale ngokwakho, kufuneka uyazi ukuba umntwana ulungele. Ngeendlela ezininzi, ukulungela kubemi abazimeleyo kuxhomekeke kwimeko yeemvakalelo yomntwana. Baphambukele abantwana ngokulula kwaye baphumelele ngokukhawuleza le nkqubo. Kodwa abantwana abane-hyperactive banokufuna ixesha elide, nto leyo enokwahluka kwiiveki ezininzi ukuya kwiinyanga ezininzi.
Kuyintoni iminyaka enqwenelekayo ukufundisa umntwana ukuba alale wedwa
Kucetyiswa ukuba ufunde abantwana ukuba balale ngokwabo ukusukela ngokuzalwa okanye ukusuka kwienyanga ezinesiqingatha. Kwiminyaka enye enesiqingatha, abantwana bakhawuleza baqhele ukulala ngokuzimeleyo kwaye balele kakhulu kwixesha elizayo.
Nangona kunjalo, uthando lwabazali kunye nomnqweno wokunika isisa esongezelelekileyo ngaphambi kwexesha lokulala nosana lakhe linokuba nenkonzo embi. Ukuba umntwana kwasekuqaleni walala wedwa, kodwa ngenxa yesizathu sokuba abazali balale kunye nabo okanye balale naye, ngelixa umntwana engazange abulale abantu kwaye, ubukhulu becala, ayizukulala ngokwayo.
Iindlela zokufundisa umntwana ukuba alale wedwa
Umntwana ufanele abe nendawo yayo ethe cwaka. Inokuba ligumbi elahlukileyo okanye indawo ebiyelweyo kwigumbi eliqhelekileyo.
Umntwana kufuneka azive ekhuselekileYizenzele imvakalelo yokuthuthuzela kunye nokuzola.
Abantwana abangenamsebenzi abangenasiphelo. Kwaye ukuze umntwana alale ngokuzola kwaye angangoyiki amabala phantsi kwebhedi, kuqinisekisa ubukho bezinto eziqhelekileyo egumbini. Into yokudlala oyithandayo, umntwana afuna ukulala. Ungabeka ukukhanya ebusuku yabantwana okanye i-aquarium ukwenza ukukhanya okuthambileyo, ukuba umntwana ulele kakhulu ebumnyameni. Cebisa ukushiya umnyango wegumbi labantwana, ukuze umntwana weva amazwi abazali kwaye azolile.
Nika ukuqikelelwa komntwana ngaphambi kokulala.Amalungiselelo aqhelekileyo acocekileyo ngaphambi kokuba ibhedi asebenze njengeziindlela. Umntwana uyakuphela ukuba adibane nexesha lokulala ukuba udla ngokuthatha ishawa okanye uhlambe phambi kwexesha lokulala, phulaphula i-fale engalalanga. Zonke iintshukumo kufuneka zizole, ukuze zingabi nakubangele indlela yenkqubo yovuyo, ke imidlalo ingcono ukuyivala ngosuku olulandelayo.
Uninzi lwabantwana lunokoyika ukulala ngokwabo. Thembisa ukuba kwimizuzu emihlanu okanye elishumi baya kujonga egumbini lakhe. Musa ukonyusa ithuba eliqinisekileyo ngethemba lokuba umntwana walala kwaye engazi ngenkohliso. Umntwana ekuqaleni unokulinda inkangeleko yakho kwaye angalali. Ukuba uthobela intente ethenjisiweyo kwaye uyijonge ngendlela enesiphelo, iya kuthoba kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe iwele.
Ukuthatha umntwana ukuba alele ngokuzimeleyo ngokuzimeleyo, kunokuthatha ixesha. Sukungxama kwaye ungatyhafi ukuba awusebenzi ngokukhawuleza. Bonke abantwana baqhele ngokwahlukileyo. Nika umntu oza kutoda kwimo yezulu. Kwaye ukuba sele uqalile ukufundisa umntwana ukuba alale ngokwakho, kufuneka uqhubeke. Ukuba uya kulala naye kwakhona okanye ufunde iintsomi ebhedini ukuze ulale, iyakunyusa kuphela ixesha lokulutha.
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