Kuleli sonto eNew York Times, kwanyatheliswa indatshana yokuthi osaziwayo benza kanjani ukubambisana namafemu, kumemezela ukukhulelwa kwabo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.
"Kulezi zinsuku, okuqukethwe kokuqukethwe kuqala ngokushesha ngemuva kokukhulelwa," isihlokwana salo mbhalo sizwakala kanjena.
Siyaqonda ukuthi yimiphi inkinga ekhombisa nokuthi kungani ukuthengiswa kokukhulelwa kubalulekile ekufeni okujwayelekile, hhayi nje ku-Hollywood Stars.
Eminye iminyaka engamashumi ayisikhombisa edlule, konke kwahluka ngokuphelele.Ngo-1948, igceke lasebukhosini lamemezelwa kakhulu lapho u-Elizabethe wayengakakhuphukeli isihlalo sobukhosi ngeke ahlanganyele ezenzakalweni zezwe ngaphambi kokuphela konyaka. Iqiniso lokuthi ukhulelwe, kwakungekho nezwi esikhangiso. Namuhla, izimemezelo zokungezelelwa kwemindeni yosaziwayo zibukeka zithunyelwe kakhulu futhi zivame ukuhambisana nokukhangisa # kokukhangisa.
Umlingani ofaneleke kakhulu wesimemezelo esinjalo, yiqiniso, uzoba abakhiqizi bezivivinyo zokukhulelwa. Omunye wabaholi bomhlaba kule ndawo, clearblue, usebenza ngenkuthalo nezinkanyezi kusukela ngo-2013. Futhi, izinkontileka zokukhangisa zivame ukuphethwa njengabakhiqizi bezingubo zabesifazane abakhulelwe kanye nabahlengikazi.
Isimemezelo esikhanyayo, cishe njengokuthi kusuka kwindlela, kuhlobo olunjalo lwenziwe umlingisi waseMelika u-Odrina Patrish ngonyaka ka-2015. "Kwakuyindlela elula kakhulu yokwazisa wonke umuntu ukuthi ngikhulelwe," kusho uPatridge, ephawula ngesithombe ngenhlama esandleni sakhe. Noma kunjalo, lokhu kufakwa ku-Twitter kudidekile abantu abaningi - akuwona wonke umuntu oqonda ngokushesha ukuthi ngabe okuthunyelwe kwakuyisimemezelo sokuphromotha noma somuntu siqu.
Esikhathini sezindaba ezingamanga ngeke sisaqiniseke. Iqiniso lokuthi othile ulungele ukuxoxa nomzuzu osondelene nomphakathi jikelele ngesikhathi sokuqala kokukhulelwa - futhi.
I-Iskra Lawrence, imodeli yaseBrithani enababhalisile abayizigidi ezine ku-Instagram, batshela umphathi wakhe, ongathanda ukwenza isimemezelo sokukhulelwa kwakhe inzuzo. Ekupheleni kuka-2019, waphetha inkontileka enomenzi wokuhlolwa kokukhulelwa kokuqala, athumele isikhangiso ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi futhi anikele ngamadola angama-20000 - Imali ekhokhelwa yimalini - Ababhalisile ababili abahlushwa ukuzala. Okuthunyelwe kwaba ngasikhathi sinye ngasikhathi sinye umkhankaso we-Pr-Bomb kanye nolwazi.
"Yilolo hlobo okufanele lube ezinganeni zabo"
Ngokusho kukaRené Kramer, amalungelo oprofesa e-University of Drake nomlobi wencwadi ethi "Ukukhulelwa Izinkanyezi", la maphrojekthi wozakwethu wemikhiqizo akweseka umbono wokuthi umagazini uwumkhuba wokusetshenziswa.
Omama abadumile baba "amasampula, njengoba abantu abajwayelekile kufanele baphile." Lapho sibona osaziwayo ephethe uhlobo oluthile lokuhlolwa kokukhulelwa noma ama-diapers, kusikhumbuza kubantu abajwayelekile ukuthi "lo mkhiqizo kumele ube ezinganeni zabo, noma ngabe akunasizathu."
U-Ellis Cashmore, umeme uprofesa wezenhlalo e-Onn University eBirmingham kanye noMlobi wencwadi ethi "UKardashian Isiko: Njengoba osaziwayo bashintsha impilo ngekhulu lama-21," kuphawula ukuthi osaziwayo bashintsha impilo ngekhulu lama-21:
"Kunengqondo ukulindela ukuthi izinkanyezi zivulele impilo ibe yimali ngaphambi kokuba zibe impilo."Futhi ngisho nosaziwayo, ekuqaleni ubamba ukukhulelwa kwabo ngasese futhi, kubonakala sengathi, ungathanda ukugcina ukusondelana kwale nqubo, woza necebo lesimemezelo.
Ngo-Agasti 26, i-UNICEF yamemezela ukuzalwa kwengane katy Perry no-Orlando Bloom ku-Instagram. UPerry ngokwakhe wamemezela ukukhulelwa kwakhe ngaphambi kwalokho ngosizo lwevidiyo yomculo. Ngemuva kwalokho u-Perry uphinde wabeka isixhumanisi se-UNICEF ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi futhi okuthunyelwe kwalo kwasuswa kubantu abayizigidi eziyi-5.5.
Futhi yize abantu abayizifo ezilula abanazo izithameli ezikhulu ezibhalisile, eziningi zethu, zizobandakanyeka ezindleleni ezifanayo. Siphinde sizikhonze nokukhulelwa kwabo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Yize kungekho noyedwa kithi owathola kule nzuzo efanayo nanjengesaziwayo.
Kunesinye isici. Siqala ukuhlanganyela obala lapho sibonisa khona isimo semizwa esidlula ngayo ukukhulelwa, kubunzima kulokho okuzalwa lapho kuzalwa izingane - konke lokhu kusisiza ngeveli yothando emphakathini.
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