Kule veki eNew York Times, inqaku lapapashwa malunga nokuba i-fetunues iqukumbela intsebenziswano neefemu, ezivakalisa ukukhulelwa kwazo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo.
"Kule mihla, umxholo wesiqulatho uqala kwangoko emva kokukhulelwa," i-subtitle yesi sicatshulwa isanda ngolu hlobo.
Siyaqonda ukuba le nto ibonisa ukuba yeyiphi ingxaki kwaye kutheni urhwebo lokukhulelwa kubalulekile kumntu oqhelekileyo, kwaye hayi kwiinkwenkwezi zeHollywood.
Eminye iminyaka engamashumi asixhenxe eyadlulayo, yonke into yahlukile ngokupheleleyo.Ngo-1948, yadi yasebukhosini yabhengeza kwangoko ukuba emva koko uElizabhete wayengekanyuki itrone engayi kuthatha inxaxheba kwiziganeko zehlabathi ngaphambi kokuphela konyaka. Isibakala sokuba ukhulelwe, kwakungekho lizwi kwintengiso. Namhlanje, izibhengezo zongezwa kwiintsapho zodumo zikhangeleka zithengisiwe kakhulu kwaye zihlala zihamba kunye nokumakisha # intengiso.
Elona qabane lifanelekileyo kwisibhengezo esinjalo, ewe, baya kuba ngabavelisi iimvavanyo zokukhulelwa. Enye yeenkokheli zehlabathi kule ndawo, icocekile, isebenza ngenkuthalo neenkwenkwezi ukusukela ngo-2013. Kwakhona, izivumelwano zentengiso zihlala zigqitywa ngabavelisi beempahla kubafazi abakhulelweyo kunye nomongikazi.
Isibhengezo esiqaqambileyo, phantse njengakwindlela yokusebenza, kuhlobo lwe-American Orrest Orress Odrina Patrij ngo-2015. "Yayiyindlela elula yokwazisa wonke umntu ukuba ndikhulelwe, ndithetha ngefoto ngentlama ngesandla. Nangona kunjalo, oku kungenziwa kwi-Twitter kudidekile abantu abaninzi - ayinguye wonke umntu owaqondwayo kwangoko ukuba isithuba sisibhengezo sentengiso okanye somntu.
Ngexesha leendaba ezingezizo asisaqinisekanga. Isibakala sokuba umntu okulungele ukwabelana ngalo mzuzu usondeleyo noluntu ngokubanzi ngexesha elifanelekileyo lokukhulelwa - nayo.
I-Iskra Lawrence, imodeli yaseBritane enababhalisi abane kwi-Instagram, ixelele umphathi wakhe, onokuthi ukuthanda ukwenza isibhengezo malunga nokukhulelwa kwakhe sinenzuzo. Ekupheleni kuka-2019, wagqiba kwesonjululwe ngemvumelwano ngomenzi wovavanyo lokukhulelwa, ukuthumela intengiso kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo kunye ne-20000 yeedola - uninzi lwentlawulo - uninzi lwentlawulo lubangelwa kukungachumi. Esi sithuba saba nephulo le-pr-bomb kunye nengcaciso.
"Luhlobo olufanele lube ngabantwana babo"
NgokukaRené Kramer, amalungelo onjingalwazi kwiDyunivesithi yaseDrake kunye noMbhali wencwadi "iinkwenkwezi ezikhulelwe", la machiza akhulelweyo ", la maProjekthi yeQabane ayayixhasa umbono wokuba i-moade isebenze.
Oomama abadumileyo baba "neesampuli, njengoko abantu abaqhelekileyo kufuneka baphile." Xa sibona umntu osaziwayo ophethe uhlobo oluthile lovavanyo lokukhulelwa okanye ukhusela kubantu abaqhelekileyo ukuba "lo mbhalo kufuneka ube ngabantwana babo, nokuba akukho sizathu."
U-Ellis Caremore, wamema iNjingalwazi kwiYunivesithi yaseAston eBirmingham kunye noMbhali wencwadi ethi "UKardashian Inkcubeko:" Njengoo-Kardashian Inkcubeko: "Njengoko abantu abadumileyo besithi:
"Kusengqiqweni ukulindela ukuba iinkwenkwezi ziguqule ubomi zibe yimali ngaphambi kokuba zibe ngubomi."Nabadumileyo, nto leyo ekuqaleni ibambe ukukhulelwa kwabo emfihlakalweni kwaye, kubonakala ngathi, kungathanda ukugcina ulwalamano lwale nkqubo, yiza nesicwangciso sokubhengezwa.
Nge-26 ka-Agasti, u-Unicef wabhengeza ukuzalwa komntwana u-Katy Perry kunye noLlando Broom kwi-Instagram. U-Perry ngokwakhe wabhengeza ukukhulelwa kwakhe ngaphambi koko ngoncedo lwevidiyo yomculo. Emva koko i-PERRY iphinda ibeka ikhonkco le-UNICEF kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo kwaye iposti yayo yayizondla ngaphezulu kwezigidi ezingama-5.5.
Kwaye nangona abantu abalula abanayo abaphulaphuli abaninzi ababhalisileyo, uninzi lwethu, luya kubandakanyeka kwiindlela ezifanayo. Sikwabonisa nokukhulelwa kwabo kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo. Nangona akukho namnye kuthi owafumana ezinzuzo ezifanayo njengawosulelo.
Kukho enye inkalo. Ngokukhawuleza saqalisa ukuba nesabelo kulo lonke ixesha lokukhulelwa siluphumelela ukukhulelwa, kwaye sijamelene nantoni na ekubulaweni kwabantwana - konke oku kusinceda sikhuselekile kwizimvo zothando eluntwini.
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