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"Masiku ano, zomwe zili zomwe zili zimayambira atangotenga nthawi yayitali," mawu a palembayi akumveka ngati awa.
Tikumvetsetsa kuti mavuto omwe akuwonetsa komanso chifukwa chomwe malonda amakono ndiofunikira kwa anthu wamba, osati kwa nyenyezi za Hollywood zokha.
Zaka makumi asanu ndi awiri zapitazo, chilichonse chinali chosiyana kwathunthu.Mu 1948, bwalo lachifumu linalengezedwa kuti ndiye Elizabeti sanakwerebe mpando wachifumuwo sizitenga nawo mbali m'tsogolo isanathe. Zowona kuti ali ndi pakati, kunalibe mawu mu malonda. Masiku ano, zolengeza za mabanja otchuka zimawoneka zoperekedwa kwambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri zimayenderana ndi chizindikiro # chotsatsa.
Mnzanu woyenera kulengeza, inde, adzapanga mayeso apakati. M'modzi mwa atsogoleri adziko lapansi m'derali, zowonekera, zikugwira ntchito ndi nyenyezi kuyambira 2013. Komanso mapangano otsatsa nthawi zambiri amapezedwa ndi zopanga zopangira amayi ndi unamwino.
Chilengezo chowala, pafupifupi monga njira, m'mitundu yotereyi idapangitsa American Addrina Odrina mu 2015. "Linali njira yosavuta yodziwitsira aliyense kuti ndili ndi pakati," anatero pa Pareridge, kuyankha chithunzi ndi mtanda mdzanja lake. Komabe, kulowa uku kwa Twitter kunasokoneza anthu ambiri - sikuti aliyense aliyense sazindikira ngati malowo anali kulengeza kapena kulengeza.
M'nthawi yabodza yabodza sitingakhalenso otsimikiza. Chowonadi chakuti winawake ndi wokonzeka kugawana nawo mopaka pakati pa anthu wamba pa nthawi yoyambirira ya mimba - naponso.
Lawre Lawrence, mtundu waku Britain wokhala ndi olembetsa olembetsa mamiliyoni anayi ku Instagram, adauza manejala wake, omwe angafune kulengeza za mimba yopindulitsa. Kumapeto kwa chaka cha 2019, adamaliza chibwenzi choyambirira cholemba, kutumiza malonda pamaneti a pa Intaneti ndikupereka madola 20000 - ndalama zambiri - ziwiri - zomwe alembetsa awiri omwe akuvutika ndi kusabereka. Positi idakhala nthawi yomweyo bomba la PR-Bolamu ndi chidziwitso.
"Ndi mtundu uwu womwe uyenera kukhala mwa ana awo"
Malinga ndi René Kramer, Ufulu wa Pulofesa ku University of Drake ndi wolemba buku la "nyenyezi zapakati", zomwe zimapangitsa mtunduwo.
Amayi otchuka amakhala "zitsanzo, monga anthu wamba azikhala ndi moyo." Tikaona munthu wotchuka atakhala ndi mayeso a pakati kapena ma diape, amatikumbutsa anthu wamba kuti "mtundu uwu uyenera kukhala mwa ana awo, ngakhale chifukwa cha izi, palibe chifukwa."
Ellis Cashmore, adapempha Pulofesa wa Sociogy ku AdAston University ku Birmingham ndi Wolemba Kandashian motere, "izi zinkasintha:"
"Ndizomveka kuyembekezera kuti nyenyezi zisinthe ndalama zisanakhale moyo."Ngakhale anthu otchuka, omwe poyamba ali ndi pakati mobisa ndipo, zikuwoneka kuti, ndikufuna kusunga chikondi cha izi, bwerani ndi njira yolengeza.
Pa Ogasiti 26, UNICOF idalengeza kubadwa kwa mwana katy perry ndi orlao pachimake ku Instagram. Mwiniwake adalengeza kuti ali ndi pakati izi mothandizidwa ndi kanema wa nyimbo. Kenako perry anaika ulalo wosagwirizana ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndipo positi yake idaseweredwa anthu oposa 5.5 miliyoni.
Ndipo ngakhale kuti mamembala osavuta omwe alibe omvera kwambiri, ambiri a ife, nawonso, adzatenga nawo mbali zofanana. Timawonetsanso kuti ndi pakati pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Ngakhale kuti palibe wa ife amene amalandila kuchokera ku izi monga otchuka.
Pali chinthu chinanso. Tinayambanso kuchita nawo momwe tingachitire kuti ana azikhala ndi pakati atabereka atakhala ndi mavuto, zonsezi zimatithandiza ndi chophimba chochokera m'malingaliro okhudzana ndi mayiyo pagulu.
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