Uphuhliso lomntu ayisiyomveliso yanamhlanje. Kwanakwelona xesha libalulekileyo lembali yembali (ephakathi ubudala, i-stalin ye-stalin, njl njl), inxenye yabantu azange zaneliseke ziinja ezamkelayo kwaye zinyanzelekile ukuba zingene kwi-conner yokuba yiyo, bazi ngokwabo kunye nemida yabo.
Uninzi lwabantu banamhlanje luyayiqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba kuyafuneka ukuziphuhliswa. Nangona kunjalo, inxalenye encinci yendawo yokuhlala emingqiqo yokuvumelana ifikelela.
Imiqobo ephambili yophuhliso lomntu:1. Iphakathi ekoyisiweyo ebingabi negalelo ekumiselweni kobuntu obuzimeleyo (i-Patraigical Godral Bazali enengxabano, i-supercontlle, i-rigid meko; "Ufunda ukungakwazi, ukunqongophala kwe-hyperseors, i-neurotic" ukubaleka kwenkululeko "kunokusekwa, ufakelo lobukho bolo lokoyika.
2. Ukuqhubeka komhlathi 1 -Ukuba umntu okhulelweyo ungaphaya kwendlela evunyelweyo ", ukoyika amanani anamandla kubazali abaphezulu (nokuba akukho kungabikho mthethweni khona), Ayindim, ndifuna ukondla imigangatho, imigudi iyahlamba umyeni wakho. Indoda le ibuhlungu kukuhamba, ukwakhiwa kobuntu bakhe kumiselwa yimicimbi engaqhelekanga, akanazo izicwangciso, amathemba, umdla (ngaphandle koluvo malunga ne-recipes). Kucacile ukuba umntu onjalo ulawulwa ngokupheleleyo ngaphandle.
3. I-veritius elonakalisayo ebutsha. Nokuba ukushiya intsapho eyonwabileyo, echumileyo, ukuya kumphambukeli ongumphambukeli, uphulukana namandla angaphakathi, ukuphefumlelwa, ukonakalisa. Ubuninzi bemizekelo ebubomi bamantombazana aseRussia abaye bazibophelela ngomtshato onamaSilamsi abavela kwiRiphabliki yaseMazantsi. Kufana nokubeka isonka esimnandi esitshatileyo ecaleni kwembumbulu. Kwenzekani? Cacisa kwaye kunjalo.
Nabantu ngendlela efanayo. Ukuba kukho abanye balahlekelwe ziicalucango, ezilahlekelwe ebuntwaneni, kuyathandabuza kakhulu ukuba uza kuphakamisa intloko yakho. Kwaye akukho nkxaso. Oku kubandakanya amatyala okuvalelwa xa evalelwe xa evalelwe xa enomtsalane, ongenangqondo efaka indawo yokufikelela ngobudenge, ukungakhathali, ukungaphindezelwa kobomi. Ihlala iphukile.
4. Uloyiko lokungalungisi. Uloyiko lonovelwano, olungaziwayo. "Ndinga?" Ndihlambe? Kwaye ukuba akunjalo? .. "" Inqanaba ngalinye lophuhliso kunye nokukhula komntu linyathelo lokungaziwa. Kwaye ke ukoyikisa kwam, ndicinezela i-pumomotion yengozi, ihlazo elihlekisayo: "Okanye mhlawumbi? Kwaye ke yonke into ayilunganga. "
5. Akukho uqeqesho lwangaphakathi. I-Inbullgence. Ilele.
6. UKHUSELEKO LOKUZIPHATHA NGOKUGQIBELELEYO SESIQENDULO SOKUGQIBELA. Ichazwe ngu-Ablkhanova-Slavskaya. Ubunzima bokuqala okanye ukuxhathisa kuka-Predium ohlehliweyo umntu ubuyile, "kubomi bokugqibela", ongenanto, onesidima, kodwa ungakhange afumane inzondelelo kunye nenkanuko enkulu.
7. Iingxabano kwaye ziqokelelwe kuyo yonke iminyaka emininzi yokuthuka ebantwini. Ukuphosa i-gyry, kutsala, kwi-Swamp ye-swamp "yokuhlafuna kwengqondo." Akukho mandla asimahla sophuhliso.
8. Ubukho benkqubo yokhuselo lwangaphakathi, ukusebenza kwendlela ebonisa ukubonakala kwempilo-ntle kunye nokuziqhelanisa nomntu kwinto ejikelezileyo.
9. Ukunqongophala kweenjongo ezikhuthazayo kunye nokunqongophala kwesigqibo sokuhambisa amaphupha ukuya kwinjongo. Kukho iphupha, kodwa umntu akanako ukuba naye: akukho zizakhono zokutsala isicwangciso, ukujikeleza kwindlela eya kwiinjongo njalo njalo.
10. Iyathobela into efikelelweyo.
Ukoyisa izithintelo- Yenza ukufaneleka kwenxalenye kunye nesazisi esangoku, iphelelwe lixesha kwaye ayilungelanga ubomi bexesha elizayo.
- Vavanya ubuthathaka bakho (banokutsala phantsi kwaye banyanzele ukuba basebenze ngokhuseleko).
- Yamkela ixabiso lakho ("mna ndingoyena ubaluleke kakhulu," "Akukho mntu uya kundikhathalela ngcono kunam").
- Ukuziphatha kwendalo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba izame ukwakha umgca wobomi bakhe ukuze umnqweno wakho wokugqibelela awuyi kuba engqondweni, akazange aphulaphule izilangazelelo zabanye, akazange abonakalise ububi nomona. Ngakumbi ekuqaleni. Sukubhengeza izicwangciso zakho.
- Nxibelelana nabo bangenani inyathelo elinye kuphuhliso olungaphezulu kwakho. Oku kukhuthaza, kukhokelela ekuhlaleni ngokomoya, kukho umntu ocela iBhunga.
- Ngenkalipho ithatha uxanduva ngezigqibo nonyulo. Oku kuthetha ukuba - ukuba ngumnini wobomi bakhe.
- Thatha inyani yokuba abanye babahlobo bakho kunye nezihlobo ziyapheliswa. Bakunye nawe - hayi endleleni. Ixhoba elihle.
- Zilungiselele inyani yokuba kuya kubakho "ukubuya kwexesha elidlulileyo", ukuphelelwa lithemba kunye nentlungu. Ngamaxesha anje, babuya engqondweni kangangexesha elifanelekileyo xa yonke into engaphakathi ivuya novuyo. Nxibelelana nenkxaso yabantu abalumkileyo. Yakha isiqu sakho kwaye uthathe iqhina (yakho). Ngamanye amaxesha iluncedo.
Izithintelo kwindlela yokuzikhusela - inxenye yentshukumo eya phambili. Ifilosofi ithatha imfuneko yokuba soyise kwaye ibe ngcono, yomelele, inomdla ngakumbi.
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