Ndikufuna kukhala: ndizotheka kuti ubongo ubweretse

Ndiye chinsinsi chake ndi chiyani? Izi za Sova.todiyay idauza mbuye wa ntchito yopanda pake Natalia Makarenko.

Kulunzanitsa koposa zonse?

Mphamvu ya malingaliro ndi mphamvu yayikulu padziko lapansi. Zomwe muli nazo tsopano, ndidawonekera koyamba m'mutu mwanu. Ngati musinthana chiwembucho, ndiye kuti mugule mkate, muyenera kuganizira za kuti mulibe mkate ndipo ndikofunikira kugula.

Ndipo tsopano pangani ngati wotchinga, mpaka pamoyo uliwonse. Zomwe tachita koyamba zidachokera mu lingaliro la lingaliro, ndiye kuti lidakhala chikhumbo, ndiye cholinga chake, ndipo ngakhale ndiyeko.

Mphamvu yakuganiza ndiye mphamvu yayikulu kwambiri padziko lapansi!

Komabe, pali kugwira. Zilakolako zanu zonse zenizeni, ndipo mantha, nkhawa, zoletsa, kukayikira sizikudziwa bwino. Ndipo mwa Iye, chowonadi cha ching'ono, chomwe chimatha kukhala ndi moyo wabwino pa 80, ngati sichoncho.

Mwa njira, anthu ambiri amafunsa kuti kusiyana pakati pa chikumbumtima ndi chosazindikira. Osati ndi chilichonse. Chikumbumtima ndi mawu olakwika, adapezeka kuti a Freudy. Iye, wophunzira wake ndi womutsutsa Yungu, ndipo kenako ofufuza ena onse a izi, adasamutsira dzina loti lizindikire. Chifukwa adazindikira kuti zitha kuchita ndikuchepetsa popanda chifukwa.

Zomwe sizikudziwa

Izi sizikutanthauza, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti dera la psyche silinayendetsedwe chifukwa cha chikumbumtima, momwe njira zimasinthira kuti miyoyo yathu imachitika. Pali zambiri zokhudza inu (ngakhale zomwe mukuganiza, simungakumbukire pazifukwa zomveka, mwachitsanzo, mwezi woyamba wa moyo), zomwe zimachitika, zochita za anthu, zomwe zimachitika, zochita za anthu. Mapulogalamu onsewa ndi ogwiritsa ntchito omwe adapanga kale ndipo tsopano akuphatikizidwa mwa iwo okha mu zochitika zomwezi.

Mwina mumadziona nokha. Pano mukukhala pakati pa anzathu, aliyense amaseka, kumwa vinyo ndi nthabwala. Ndipo modzidzimutsa, zinachitika mwadzidzidzi, ndipo tsopano zikuwoneka kwa inu kuti aliyense akusekani, aliyense amayesetsa kukupwetekani kapena kukukhumudwitsani. Ichi ndi pulogalamu yamagetsi, simunasankhe kukhumudwitsidwa, adakuchitirani chilichonse.

Mapulogalamu osazindikira amakonzedwa kuti akupatseni chisangalalo komanso chabwino!

Ingoganizirani kuti munthuyo amadziunjikira ma okhatawete 2,700, omwe amaphatikizidwa muzochitika zosiyanasiyana. Ena mwa iwo ndi othandiza komanso ochezeka: Mwachitsanzo, kuthekera koyenda kapena kuyendetsa galimoto sikusokoneza chilichonse. Ena amayambitsa mavuto. Mwamuna, mantha, osatetezeka, ulesi, kuzengeleza. Ndi ulemu wonsewu ndi kumabweretsa moyo wanu. Zikumveka.

Koma pali nkhani yabwino. Choyamba, mapulogalamu onsewa amakonzedwa kuti akupatseni chisangalalo komanso chabwino. Ndi ena okhawo omwe amamvetsetsa kuti yatembenuka. Kachiwiri, pulogalamu iliyonse imatha kuchotsedwa malinga ndi tanthauzo lenileni loti amvetsetse zonse, monganso, ndikuyamba kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu zofunika.

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Ndipo ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ndi zonsezi? Kodi chiphunzitso chambiri ndi chiyani? Ndipo chifukwa chakuti zonsezi ndi chinsinsi chokwaniritsa cholinga chilichonse.

Koma chifukwa cha izi muyenera kumvetsetsa ndikuzindikira zinthu ziwiri. Choyamba: Chilichonse chomwe chimachitika m'moyo wanga, ine ndekha (chabwino, osati nokha, zokhazokha, zoyeserera zokha zimachita izi). Nkhaniyi ili ndi mawu abwino Eric Brn: "Kodi cholinga chake ndi chiyani." Ndiye kuti, mavuto anu onse, zovuta zomwe zimakhala ndi mapulani, zopinga zimachitika chifukwa cha zomwe mwazindikira. Inde, inunso mulimbitsa mphamvu, zomwe simukuzindikira, pangani zenizeni zanu.

Mphamvu yamaganizidwe omwe mumaganiza kuti ndi zenizeni.

Chachiwiri: Ngati zolinga zanga zonse ndi zolingalira zanga zili mwamuyaya, muyenera kuphunzira kukambirana naye. Pakuti izi pali zida zosavuta zomwe aliyense angathe kudziwa.

Chinthu chachikulu chomwe muyenera kudziwa ndi: osazindikira akulankhula mu chilankhulo komanso kuganiza. Zithunzi zongoyerekeza. Kuti zojambula kwambiri ndizothandiza kwambiri ngati mungachite molondola. Koma ndi gawo laling'ono chabe la zida, zomwe zimatheka kuti mawu enieni akwaniritse bwino.

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Pofuna kuti musakhale opanda nkhawa, tikukulimbikitsani kuti muchite pompano, osachoka pazenera, masewera olimbitsa thupi osavuta ndikuwunikira zotsatira zake.

• Kumbukirani china chake chomwe chimakuwopseza, kusokoneza kapena kumapangitsa nkhawa. Muzimva komwe kuli kolakwika kwa thupi lanu. Mwachitsanzo, mukuopa china chake, ndipo muli pachifuwa, kutembenukira m'mimba, mawondo akunjenjemera.
• Ngati pali china chake (ekalo, chomata, chopindika), kodi zingakhale kukula motani? Mpira wakuda m'mimba? Skizky "Lizun" pachifuwa? Stone, Concete Block, Mtambo waimvi? Kodi mungafotokoze bwanji zamkati tsopano?
• Ingoganizirani kuti muli ndi manja amatsenga ndipo mutha kutenga izi. Ganizirani zomwe muli nazo, kenako tayerekezerani kuti pafupi ndi inu pali "matsenga" zinyalala, momwe zonse zimasungunuka kwamuyaya. Ponyani pezani pamenepo.

Dzifunseni kuti: "Kodi ndingafune chiyani?" Ndi kugwira lingaliro loyamba. Mwachitsanzo: chikondi, chodekha, chisangalalo ... Ingoganizirani kuti mkhalidwe womwe mukufuna tsopano adzawonekera tsopano m'manja mwa mpira wopepuka. Kuika komwe mantha anu kapena nkhawa amakhala. Khalani ndi vuto lanu.

Ndiuzeni zomwe zinachitika, m'mawu. Tili ndi chidwi!