Ngifuna ukuba: Kungenzeka ukuthi uhlele ubuchopho ngesicelo sakho

Ngakho-ke imfihlo? Le sova.Today itshele i-Master of Mactional ngokungazi lutho uNatalia Makarenko.

Ukuvumelanisa konke?

Amandla okucabanga anamandla amakhulu kakhulu emhlabeni. Konke onakho manje, kwavela okokuqala ekhanda lakho. Uma wenza lula uhlelo luhlukaniswe, ukuze uthenge isinkwa, okokuqala kufanele ucabange ngeqiniso lokuthi akukho sinkwa ekhaya futhi kufanelekile ukusithenga.

Futhi manje kwenze kube njenge-tracker, kunoma yimuphi umkhamu wempilo. Konke okufezile kwakho kwavela okokuqala ngesimo somqondo, khona-ke kwaba yisifiso, khona-ke inhloso, futhi ngaleso sikhathi eyakhiwe ngezenzo.

Amandla okucabanga anamandla amakhulu kakhulu emhlabeni!

Kodwa-ke, kukhona ukubamba. Zonke izifiso zakho zeqiniso, futhi nokwesaba, ukukhathazeka, imikhawulo, ukungabaza akukho nhlobo. Futhi kuye, iqiniso lokuqonda, elilawula impilo yakho inzalo ku-80, uma kungenjalo.

By the way, abantu abaningi babuza ukuthi umehluko phakathi kokuqonda okungaqondakali nokungazi. Hhayi nganoma yini. I-subconsciou yigama elingapheli, kwavela lapho imali efulakela. Yena, umfundi wakhe kanye ne-analist jung, khona-ke bonke abanye abacwaningi bale nto bathuthela enanini elinenhlonipho - abangazi. Ngoba babona ukuthi kungakwenza futhi kubiza okungazi lutho.

Yini ukungazi

Lokhu kungazi lutho, okusho ukuthi isifunda se-psyche asilawulwa yindlela, lapho ukusabela nezinqubo eziphatha khona izimpilo zethu zenzeka. Kunemininingwane yonke ngawe (ngisho nalokho, njengoba ucabanga, awukwazi ukukhumbula ngezizathu zempilo, ngokwesibonelo, inyanga yokuqala yokuphila), konke ukusabela, amaphethini wokuziphatha, ukuphendula okuzenzakalelayo, ukuphendula okuzenzakalelayo. Zonke lezi yizinhlelo ze-automaton ezike zakhiwa futhi manje zifakiwe ngokwazo kunoma yisiphi isimo esifanayo.

Cishe uzizwe kuwe. Lapha uhleli enkampanini yabangane, wonke umuntu uyahleka, uphuze iwayini nehlaya. Futhi kungazelelwe, ukusabela kwaya egameni elithile, manje kubonakala sengathi kuwe ukuthi wonke umuntu uyakuhleka, wonke umuntu ulwela ukukulimaza noma ukukoca. Lolu uhlelo-automatism, awukhethanga ukucasulwa, wenze konke kuwe.

Izinhlelo ezingazi lutho zilungiselelwe ukukunikeza injabulo nenhlala-kahle!

Cabanga kuphela lo muntu oqongelela ama-automatons angama-2,700, afakiwe ezimweni ezihlukile. Ezinye zazo zilusizo ne-eco-friendly: ngokwesibonelo, amandla okuhamba noma ukushayela imoto ungaphazamisi noma yini. Abanye badala izinkinga. Ukuthuka okufanayo, ukwesaba, ukungavikeleki, ubuvila, ukubekezela. Futhi yonke le Horde futhi ilawula impilo yakho. Kuzwakala kunenhliziyo.

Kepha kunezindaba ezinhle. Okokuqala, zonke lezi zinhlelo zilungiselelwe ukukunikeza injabulo nenhlala-kahle. Abanye kuphela abaqondayo baphendukele kakhulu. Okwesibili, noma yiluphi uhlelo lungasuswa ngomqondo ongokoqobo ukuze uphinde uthole ukuze uqonde konke, ngoba kufanele, futhi waqala ukufeza izinhloso zakho eziziyo.

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Futhi kufanele ngenzeni ngakho konke lokhu? Uyini umbono ogcwele kangaka? Futhi iqiniso lokuthi konke lokhu kuyisihluthulelo sokufeza noma iyiphi inhloso.

Kepha lokhu kudingeka uqonde futhi uqaphele izinto ezimbili. Okokuqala: Konke okwenzeka empilweni yami, mina uqobo (kahle, kulungile, hhayi ngokwakho, ama-automatons amaningi enza ngokungazi). Leli cala linesilinganiso esimangalisayo u-Eric Bern: "Kwenzekani, ke umgomo." Okungukuthi, zonke izinkathazo zakho, ubunzima obunezinhlelo eziphukile, izithiyo zingumphumela wezakho. Yebo, unamandla okucabanga, ongawazi ngisho nangokoqobo.

Amandla okucabanga ukuthi wenza okungokoqobo kwakho.

Okwesibili: Uma zonke izinhloso zami zangempela namabhulokhi elele engazi lutho, kufanele ufunde ukuxoxisana naye. Kulokhu kunamathuluzi alula ngamunye angakwazi kahle.

Into esemqoka okudingeka uyazi ukuthi: ukungazi lutho kukhuluma ngolimi lwabalingiswa nokucabanga. Izithombe zokucabanga. Ukuthi ukubuka okubonakalayo kakhulu kusebenza kakhulu uma ukwenze kahle. Kepha kuyingxenye encane yamathuluzi, okungenzeka ngayo ngomqondo wangempela wegama ukuze uhlele ngempumelelo ephelele.

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Ukuze ungafakwa ngaphakathi, siphakamisa ukuthi wenze njengamanje, ngaphandle kokusuka esikrinini, ukuzivocavoca okulula nokuhlola umphumela.

• Khumbula okuthile okukwethusayo, okuphazamisayo noma okukhathazayo. Zizwe lapho isimo sakho esingesihle sisemzimbeni. Isibonelo, wesaba okuthile, futhi usesesifubeni, ujika isisu, amadolo athuthumela.
• Uma ngabe kukhona okuthile (i-Ekalo, okuphathwe, okusontekile), yimuphi umbala, usayizi, ukungaguquguquki bekungaba? Ibhola emnyama esiswini? Sklizky "Lizun" esifubeni? Itshe, i-Concrete block, ifu elimpunga? Ungakuchaza kanjani okungaphakathi manje?
• Cabanga nje ukuthi unezandla zomlingo futhi ungakhipha lokhu. Cabanga ngalokho okutholile, bese ucabanga ukuthi eduze kwakho kukhona "umlingo" kadoti, lapho konke kuncibilika kuze kube phakade. Phonsa ukuthola kwakho lapho.

Zibuze: "Yini engingayithanda esikhundleni salokho?" Futhi ubambe umbono wokuqala. Isibonelo: Uthando, ukuzola, injabulo ... zicabanga ukuthi umbuso owuthandayo manje uzovela ezandleni zakho ngesimo sebhola elikhanyayo elikhanyayo. Ukuyibeka lapho ukwesaba noma ukukhathazeka kwakho kuphila khona. Faka isimo sakho.

Ake ungitshele okwenzekile, kumazwana. Sinentshisekelo!