Igihe cyose nkiri umwana, twumvise interuro imwe nka "kurota ntabwo ari bibi", "urashaka byinshi - uzabona bike" nibindi. Ariko bisa, bidahuye no guha abana b'abana bababuza mugihe kizaza. Turagusaba rero gusimbuza interuro isanzwe, nta gisubizo cyubushobozi kandi kikabisobanurira umwana kugirango byubuzima bwe atagomba guhura ningaruka zo kubuza.
Impamvu Ababyeyi Basubiza Ubu buryo
Inyandikorugero igisubizo cyumvikana aho bikabije kandi akenshi, muburyo runaka bworoshye. Mubisanzwe, imvugo nkiyi iraguruka, umunwa wabo mugihe imigezi yibyifuzo byumwana birenganye ubushobozi bwabo. Nibyo, igisubizo gityaye biterwa no kudashobora guhaza ibyifuzo byumwana no guhisha ibyiyumvo byumuntu "umubyeyi mubi", umwana yumva "inzozi ntabwo ari bibi."
Ahari iyi moderi yimyitwarire yemejwe mubuzima bwabo bwite mugihe ababyeyi babo nabo banze kubaza.
Indi mpamvu yo kunanirwa bisanzwe ni bwo gutinya icyo gihe niba genda ku mwana, icyo gihe ibyo umwana abivuga. Muyandi magambo, ababyeyi batinya cyane kumena umwana wabo ko biteguye gukonjesha inzozi zabana kubisubizo no muburyo bukabije.
Niba uvuze muri make, hanyuma inyuma yibisubizo nkibi ni igitambo cyababyeyi, bakoraga uburyo bwo kurinda. Ariko mumagambo yavuzwe haruguru, ntabwo yitabiriye gusa umwana ibinyoma gusa, ahubwo yanashyizemo imibuto kandi asimbuza ibitekerezo.
Soma kandi: "Sinzira umwana cyangwa ntabwo" - inkuru ya nyina, abantu bose bamaganwe, kandi ntiyashoboraga
Ushaka ntabwo ari bibi
Inzozi n'ibyifuzo birasanzwe rwose, cyane cyane mumwana utumva amagambo nkaya nkubukungu. Ariko kumva interuro nk'iyi umwana atekereza ko mu "nshaka" ikintu kibi cyihishe. Igihe kirenze, arashobora gukora icyaha mbere yicyifuzo icyo ari cyo cyose, kimwe no kwishyiriraho bigoretse bijyanye n'inzozi, kandi ikeneye.
Umwana uhora yumva amafoto nkaya ari intege nke cyane, kuko mubyukuri igabanijwe nikintu cyimbitse. Cyane cyane niba ibyifuzo bye cyangwa inzozi ze zireba ibintu gusa, ahubwo bifasha, kwitondera cyangwa kuganira. Igihe kirenze, ntabwo twakiriye igisubizo, umwana atangira guhisha ibyifuzo bye.
Uratekereza gusa umwana udasaba ikintu. Bigoye? Neza! Muri iki cyiciro, umwana arashobora kuba hafi ubwayo kubera kumva yicyaha, ashobora kugwa mu bwihebe.
Ababyeyi bakeneye gutekereza kubitekerezo byabo
Emera, igihe kirageze cyo gutekereza gukuraho interuro nkizo. Niba "baze hejuru" kubera kumva ko ariho icyaha, ntugerageze kuba umubyeyi mwiza, ntabwo uri gutya.
Abo babyeyi batinya kumena umwana wabo, birakwiye kwibuka ko umwana akeneye uwitabira akumva ibyo basabye. Ariko icyarimwe, bakeneye umuntu mukuru numuntu mukuru uzashobora kwirukana, ahubwo ashyira ibyo ashyira imbere, azasobanura kubyerekeye ibyifuzo no kumera kwabo, kandi bazabona ubundi buryo.
Byongeye kandi, ntabwo ari ngombwa gusohoza ibyo umwana yakoze cyane.Ahari akeneye ibiganiro muburyo azumva ko iki cyifuzo aricyo kandi atari kumugirira akamaro.
Reba kandi: kandi mugusubiza, guceceka ... kuki kwirengagiza ari igihano kibabaza cyane kumwana
UBURYO BWO GUSUBIZA "OYA"
Ibuka formula imwe yoroshye, ibikurikira ushobora kwanga witonze, ariko icyarimwe, udakomeretsa imitekerereze yumwana. Niba muri ubu wa kabiri wowe kubwimpamvu runaka ntishobora guhaza ibikenewe byumwana, hanyuma ushyireho imipaka gusa kubikorwa byo gukora. Urugero rusa nkiyi: "Ndabona ko wakunze iki gikinisho rwose, ariko kumwanya ntabwo niteguye kwishyura ibyo mbabaye cyane."
Urashobora gusaba koza amagambo kugirango ukemure ikibazo hamwe (guhimba uburyo bwo guhuriza hamwe amafaranga) cyangwa gutanga ubundi buryo, jya gutemberana numuriro kandi bitetse ibirayi.
Kubera iyo mpamvu, ntabwo wanze umwana, kandi ugizwe nigitekerezo cyiza ko ibyifuzo bye byo kumva, kandi ibyifuzo byashyizwe mubikorwa byashyizwe ahagaragara mbere cyangwa ukundi.