I-Cinderellasters ayisibali ngobomi obumnandi, kodwa yingxaki yokwenyani enokuyonakalisa ikamva.
Yintoni iCinderella?
Le meko apho ibhinqa ekubulaleni kwabantu abangenako ikwayekela kwiintsomi zabantwana malunga neenkosana ezintle kwaye zilinde uMsindisi wazo. Uqinisekile ukuba ngenye imini kukho umntu ofezekileyo oya kumthatha kwihashe elimhlophe ebomini.I-PSCHOLOGENIRGEAGE YOKUQALA, ethi yazisa le gama kwaye yabhala ngaye incwadi ethi "Cindererlla", ikholelwa ukuba ingxaki yengxaki ngumnqweno wamantombazana ukutshintsha uxanduva kubomi babo, engahlali enyanisweni Umhlaba.
Yintoni eyingozi le nto?
• Intombazana ityhalela phantse bonke abafana ngenxa yokuba abayingqinelani imbono enayo entlokweni yakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha ihlala ixesha lokuphila. Kwenzeka ntoni ngokuchaseneyo: Intombazana inyula nawuphi na umntu oqhelekileyo okanye ongalunganga, osilungele ukutshata kwangoko ukuze angahlali wedwa.
• ICinderella ithanda ukutshintsha abanye uxanduva kwabanye, ngenxa yoko akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe netyala ngayo yonke ingxaki, kodwa lilizwe elinzima.
• Ukujikajika kwentombazana kumntu ongenasiphelo othatha nayiphi na ingxaki ngendlela ofuna ukuya kuyo ukuze ufumane ulonwabo. Akakwazi ukuphika nabani na kwaye enze nawuphi na umsebenzi ongcolileyo, kuba uyakholelwa ukuba umonde uya kubenza ubomi obonwabisayo kwixesha elizayo.
Iphucuka njani iCinderella?
Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo:• Ubuntwana. Abanye abazali baqhutywa ziintombi kuphela kwaye kuphela kweenkosana ezizodwa ezizezona kuphela abantu abafanelekileyo. Ngokuyinxenye oku kuyaqondakala, kuba abazali babo bakhethekileyo, kodwa akufanelekanga ukukhulisa umntwana kwimeko enjalo.
Ngamanye amaxesha ubunzima buye baphuhliswa ngenxa yenye indlela yokukhuliswa. Xa amantombazana esithi kufuneka uhlala usebenze, ugqwetha kwaye uhlupheke, ukuze ufumane ulonwabo.
Ukoyikwa kwempumelelo. Abanye basoyika ukuzimela kwaye bathathe ubomi ezandleni zabo, ngoko baqala ukufuna usindiso komnye umntu oza kuthatha indawo abazali abanenkathalo.
Ukoyika isizungu. Le nto ilandela eyangaphambili: Lo mfazi usoyika ukuba lilolo, ke ujonge enye "inkosana".
Iimpawu zeCinderella
• Iimfuneko eziphezulu
Ukunqongophala kombono wakho
• I-Naiverty
Ukuqonda
Ungayisoyisa njani iCinderella?
Amantombazana anesidingo esinzima sokufunda ukuthi "hayi,", "soyika ukuchaza usindiso, ukuze sikwazi ukuhlala ngemini yokwenyani, ukuze sikwazi ukufezekisa.