Kwiyegurira Imana ni imico y'ingenzi y'umuntu ukuze, mu gihe bahingwa numuntu ubizi, kandi ntabwo biva nubwo ubwoba "bugomba gufatwa" mu foto yabakinnyi. Ibi ni ukuri no ku muntu, no ku mugore, nubwo akaba ari agace gahoraho abatuye isi mubimenyetso byimibonano mpuzabitsina.
Kuki abagabo bahora basaba kubagore biyeguriye?
Umugabo agomba kumenya neza ko abana bavukiye muri uyu mugore harimo urubyaro rwe, umurongo wa genetitique. Ntamuntu numwe wifuza gushora imari muri Bajsturkov, Bastardov nabandi "batemewe".
By the way, abagore ni bamwe. Abana bavutse ku mugaragaro (umugabo yari afite nyirabuja, akaba yariteze ibyago kugira ngo atwite), ntashobora na rimwe kumenyekana no kwemerwa n'umugore wemewe (niba gusa afite ibyiringiro kandi adafite ibyiringiro).
Umugabo akeneye kumenya ko adahari (ingendo, ingabo, ziguma ahantu hafunzwe, kuvura igihe kirekire) umugore azareba kutavomera neza. Umugore, "yakoreshejwe" nabandi mugihe cyo kubura umugabo, umuntu usanzwe atera kumvira no kwangwa. Nibyo, no guhabwa "cucto" - Iherezo ridahagaze.
Nibyiza kumenya ko umugore ukunda umugabo yiteguye kuri we. Ubwa mbere, abagore bitanze kubutware umutware wibintu ni ngombwa kuri bo. Yego, mbega ukuntu! Nukuri, igihe kigeze kibaho (ariko kubijyanye hepfo).
Umugore witanze arahurira cyane intege nke z'umugabo. Arumvira kandi arateganya. "Umurimo we wizerwa wumugabo we" (amasomo menshi yabagore ba kijyambere muri uyu dotsos) yemeza ubuzima butuje, bwapimwe. N'ubundi kandi, ibyo byose bizababarira kandi biracyari muri roho ndashimira umugabo we wahisemo ari uwo mwashakanye kandi akomeza kubana na we munsi yinzu. Ntabwo nakabya. Job mugihe hamwe nabagore bo mu cyaro, imyaka 40 nayirenga. Ibi bireba.
Niba umubyeyi wumuntu ariyerera, umugore wo murugo ufite ubwoba, noneho guhitamo uwo mwashakanye bizaba ibintu bitemewe mubintu rusange rusange. Kandi utuje cyane, n'ababyeyi bageze mu zabukuru - ihumure.
Nigute ubwitange buhinduka umutwaro uremereye?
Ibintu byose birarambiwe. Cyane cyane bitari ngombwa, byashyizweho. Ingaruka z '"amaso ya delimi". Kugeza ubu, umuvandimwe ukiri muto uhangayikishijwe n'umugabo utarambarara mu nzu, akayitera, akatera iryoshye. "Umukobwa wanjye, ntugahangayike, uteka / gukaraba / gukaraba hasi. Nishimye ".
Noneho uyu "mukobwa" abuze kandi atutera ntizimenya uburakari. "Nibyo, ushobora kwica angahe? Kuki adashishikajwe niki kinfata? Umugabane utagira ingano mu kanwa cyangwa umurongo wa pantaro ihendutse - byose aribyo atuyeho? "
Yego Byose. Ariko nyuma ya byose, wahisemo ibi kandi muburyo bwose byateye inkunga mubikorwa byubuzima. Ukuntu abagabo ubwabo bavuga mu bihe bigoye: "Hari ikintu yazamutse rwose." Birababaje.
Ubudahemuka bwabagore nkabo bufatwa nkikintu runaka, nta nyungu zidasanzwe cyangwa gukurikiza amategeko yimbere, ariko gusa - ireme risanzwe ryumugore wubatse.
Niba ibintu bidashoboka rwose bivuka, hamwe nubwenge bwo murugo burambiranye numugabo we bituma "asubiza, ntagaragara muburyo bwabo bwo gusenya (ashingiye ku rujijo rw'umugabo we, kugira ngo" ye ". Inkoko yo murugo "Undi arashimishije kandi" yatinyutse ate ??? ").
Nta ishyari cyangwa umugabane we ari muto. Ishyari - iyo agaciro ari, batinya gutsindwa, kubabara. Kandi hano - kurakara, kurakara, icyifuzo cyo "gusubiza" ifti yo mu gikoni ". Igihe umwe mu bakiriya yavuze ku nama avuga ko imashini yanjye yo gukaraba yahunga - imashini nshya yahunze - imashini nshya, ihenze, ireze, iremezwa na njye nk'umugereka wo mu rugo ruhenze ibikoresho. "
Ni mu buhe buryo ubudahemuka bushingiye ku mico ifite agaciro gakomeye?
Sinshaka kwandika ijambo "kwitanga", kuko Iryamye gato hamwe nishusho yumugore watsinze, wiganje, wishimye. Babona ko Pets kuba amatungo, rimwe na rimwe umugaragu ukora munzu imyaka mirongo. Ariko ntabwo ari wenyine. Ubudahemuka Bwumvikana neza.
Noneho:
1. Ubudahemuka ntabwo bukoreshwa ubwabwo, nkicyemezo cyatanzwe hamwe nicyemezo cyubukwe. Uku ni uguhitamo umugore utagira ingaruka kubitekerezo byabandi cyangwa imyumvire yagutse. Inkomoko yubudahemuka nkubwo ni imyumvire yo kwihesha agaciro, kubaha ubwacyo ndetse nuwo watoranijwe. Ibiti kuri "Kukharkoy jassos" ahantu inyuma ya konde. Umuryango wanjye. Umugabo wanjye. Isuku no gukorera mu mucyo mu bashakanye.
2. Nta cyemeza ko umugore azaguma hafi. Nta "akomeza" ku mugabo we, ntarahira urukundo rw'iteka, nta kintu na kimwe. Muburyo bumwe muburyo buturuka butazwi, butateganijwe, kuba amayobera bumva. Ibuka "Umunyamahanga" na A. Blok? Kandi, ntabwo soma na gato ... neza, birasobanutse. Abagore biganje barasoma. Iyi ni umucuramu, igihe cyose.
3. Ubudahemuka bwumugore burimo ubudahemuka bwuzuye bwumugabo. Nta byerekeye "abagore benshi", "imbaraga z'itegeko nshinga zishingiye ku gitsina", sinibuka uko byagenze. " Ku mugore nyawe, ubuhemu bwumugabo we bungana no guhemukira. Hamwe no guhagarika byikora.
4. Kuzengurutse umugore mwiza, ufite ubwenge, mwiza uhora wuzuye abagabo. Ntabwo izaba impumuro kandi igabanuka niba umuntu amuhamagaye kubyina, tanga indabyo zijyanye nikiruhuko cyumwuga, kora ishimwe. Ntabura abafana. Yishimira ibitekerezo byabo, irana igaburira amarangamutima, bitanga umunsi mukuru ukikije umuntu we. Nubudahemuka bwumugore nkuyu ushimwa cyane.
Kandi kimwe cyihishe gito: kwitegereza ubudahemuka kumugabo we, ibuka ubudahemuka kuri njye. Ntuzigere uhemukira, ntuteshuke umuntu wawe mu maso ye, wishyire imbere yanjye mu buzima bwe.
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