Umama ongayedwa noma umama omkhulu - ngeshwa, into evamile futhi ejwayelekile. Isizathu salokhu kudivosa njalo, emva kwalokho, njengomthetho, ingane isaqhubeka nokuhlala nomama. Futhi uma ubaba womdabu ekhumbula ingane okungenani kanye ezinyangeni eziyisithupha, futhi lokho kuhle.
Ukuthi ngabe bekuseSoviet Times, nini ukuba ngumama ongayedwa kwakubhekwa njengehlazo elikhulu. Konke ngoba ezweni kwakukhona nehlelo lomndeni, futhi isehlukaniso ngisho nangezizathu eziphumelela kakhulu zalahlwa yi-Society.
Kwadlalwa indima enkulu ngombono owatshela ingane ngalezozinsuku - ingane idinga ubaba. Mayelana nalokhu kubandlululo, abesifazane babezama ukugcina umshado ngemuva kwesehlukaniso sokushada futhi.
Manje konke kulula kakhulu - akukho ukulahlwa! Ngaphezu kwalokho, inani labomama abangabodwa unyaka nonyaka likhula ngokushesha okukhulu.
Umlando uMikhaila
Uma sikhuluma ngobaba oyedwa, khona-ke ezweni lethu kuvame ngempela, ikakhulukazi uma kukhulu. Njengoba nje baba nguMikhail oneminyaka engama-36 ngokuzumayo eminyakeni emi-5 eyedlule.
Njengomthetho, abafelokazi basemadolweni basesimweni esinjalo, kepha uMikhail unecala elihluke ngokuphelele. Emndenini wakhe kwakukhona isimo se-salal sakudala nesihle - unkosikazi ngemuva kweminyaka engu-13 umshado wawumthanda omunye umuntu futhi washiya umndeni.
Kepha njengoba eshiye - indlela yakhe yokuziphatha engenangqondo ayifani nowesifazane onezingane. Washiya zonke izingane emyeni wakhe wangaphambilini owayeyisikhombisa!
UMikhail wayejwayelene nomkakhe uKsenia kusukela kubafundi. Badlale umshado lapho eneminyaka engu-22, futhi wayeneminyaka engama-23.
Abalingani abahlelanga ukuba ngumndeni omkhulu. Masinyane nje ngemuva kokuzalwa kwamazibulo eKsenia kwakuzokwenza umsebenzi. Kodwa-ke, konke bekuhlukile: Ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane yokuqala, kwaqhamuka owesibili ngonyaka, emva kweminye iminyaka emi-2, eyesithathu njalonjalo. Kakade eminyakeni engama-35, iKsenia yayingunina wezingane eziyi-7.
Akasebenzi, ngakho-ke zonke izibopho zezezimali zabelwa emahlombe omyeni wakhe. Umndeni omkhulu waphila ngesizotha, kepha akazange asize. Futhi kungazelelwe eminyakeni yakhe engama-35, iKsenia yaqokwa uMikhail Ultimatum ukuthi wayefuna ukudivosa. Iqiniso ngukuthi wahlangana nomngane wesikhathi eside owayazi kusukela ebhentshini lesikole. Ngaphezu kwalokho, usevele wakwazi ukuba nenoveli eyimfihlo ngemuva kwakhe.
UKsenia wayefisa ukuqala impilo entsha ngokuphelele ngaphandle kokukhathazeka nokuhlupheka, eshiya zonke izingane kuyise.
Kwakungasho ukuthi umama waphonsa izingane zakhe kuze kube phakade. Ukusuka nje ekukhathaleni okuqoqiwe empilweni yansuku zonke, ngangifuna ukuphila impilo yamahhala, ngenkathi ngivakashela izingane ngezikhathi ezithile, kodwa ngingahlali nabo ndawonye.
Ngenxa yalokho, uMikhail waba ngubaba ongayedwa, futhi wajwayela kakhulu. Uvumile ukuthi ekuqaleni kwakunzima kakhulu, kepha hhayi ohlelweni lwezinto ezibonakalayo. Yize kunjalo, ijwayele ukusindisa yena nezingane. Kwakunzima ngokwengeziwe ekuziphatheni, hhayi kakhulu kangangokuba izingane zingaki.
Uma izingane ezindala kunazo zonke, ngesikhathi sesehlukaniso, zazineminyaka eyi-1, 12 no-10 ubudala, bekungadingeki zichaze, ngoba zazikuqonda konke, bekunzima kakhulu ukuchaza. Yize kunjalo, indlela ingane enikeza ngayo ukuqonda ukuthi umama akasaziphileli naye, kodwa ngezikhathi ezithile eza ukumvakashela.
Naphezu kokuhlangenwe nakho okuqinile kwezingane, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, impilo ithuthukile. Manje uMikhail useneminyaka engama-41 ubudala. Uveza ukuthi eminyakeni emihlanu edlule ekwazile ukuthethelela umkakhe, yize ekuqaleni kwakumthukuthelele kakhulu.
Ukuphela kwento ekhathaze yona ukuthi akasenalo ingxenye yesibili. Ngokushesha nje lapho abesifazane bethola ukuthi unezingane eziyi-7, ecashile ukuxhumana. Ngokungafani neMikhail, iKsenia yahlala kahle - yashada kakhulu futhi yazala izingane ezi-2. Ukuba seminyakeni engu-40, ungonina wezingane eziyi-9.
Ngokumangazayo, zonke izingane ezivela emshadweni wokuqala nazo zathethelela umama onomoya, ziyaxhumana naye ngokuphelele, yize zihlala nobaba.
UMichael naye akaphazamisi ukuxhumana kweKsenia nezingane, phela, kungunina, yize ayeshiya umndeni ngokwakha okusha.
Phambilini, satshela enye indaba yokuthi kungani ugogo ebheka ingane ukuba ibe ngeyakhe. Umlando womama osemncane. Enye indaba iyathakazelisa. "Lala ingane noma cha" - indaba kanina, wonke umuntu owalahla, futhi wayengeke akwazi ukwehluka. Kepha indaba yowesifazane owashiya lo mndeni washiya indodakazi nobaba ngokuxilongwa ngaphandle kokungaphuthi, nakanjani ngeke ishiye noma ngubani ongenandaba.