Mayi wopanda mayi kapena mayi wamkulu - mwatsoka, pafupipafupi komanso odziwika. Chifukwa chothana ndi izi pafupipafupi, pambuyo pake, monga lamulo, mwanayo amakhalabe ndi amayi. Ndipo ngati adedeti abambo amakumbukira mwana kamodzi kamodzi pa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi iliyonse, ndipo ndibwino.
Kaya zinali mu nthawi za ku Soviet, mukakhala mayi wopanda mayi amawoneka ngati manyazi kwambiri. Zonse chifukwa chakuti dzikolo panali kupembedza mpingo, ndipo kusudzulana ngakhale zifukwa zopambana kwambiri kunatsutsidwa ndi anthu ambiri.
Ntchito yayikulu idaseweredwa ndi malingaliro omwe adauza mwana m'masiku amenewo - mwana amafuna abambo. Pokhudzana ndi tsankho, azimayi anali kuyesera kuti ukwati utatha kusudzulana kuti akwatiwe.
Tsopano chilichonse sichachilendo kwambiri - palibe kutsutsidwa! Kuphatikiza apo, kuchuluka kwa azimayi osakwatiwa chaka ndi chaka kukukula mwachangu.
Mbiri Mikhaila
Ngati timalankhula za abambo osakwatira, ndiye kuti m'dziko lathu ndi lovuta, makamaka ngati ndi lalikulu. Awaiwo adakhala zaka 36 modzidzimutsa zaka 5 zapitazo.
Monga lamulo, abambo - amasiye akuchita zinthu zotere, koma Mikhail ali ndi vuto losiyana kwathunthu. M'banja lake panali zovuta zapamwamba komanso zokongola - mkazi atakwatirana zaka 13 amakonda wina ndikusiyira banjali.
Koma m'mene adachoka - mawonekedwe a NonyPica ake sakwanira mkazi yemwe ali ndi ana. Anasiya ana onse kukhala mwamuna wakale yemwe anali ndi zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri!
Mikhayial anali wodziwa bwino mkazi wake kseuni kuyambira nthawi yophunzira. Adasewera ukwati pamene Iye anali 22, ndipo Iye anali 23.
Okwatirana sanakonzekere kukhala banja lalikulu. Atabadwa woyamba kubadwa Ksenia adzapita kukagwira ntchito. Komabe, chilichonse chinali chosiyana: mwana woyamba kubadwa, wachiwiri anaonekera mchaka, zaka zina ziwiri, lachitatu ndi zina zotero. Pofika zaka 35, Kseania anali mayi wa ana 7.
Sanagwire ntchito, motero mphamvu zonse zachuma zidaperekedwa kwa mapewa a mwamuna wake. Banja lalikulu linkakhala modzichepetsa, koma sizinathandize. Ndipo kenako mwadzidzidzi zaka 35, Kseania osankhidwa Mikhal woubatum kuti akufuna kusudzulana. Chowonadi ndi chakuti adakumana ndi bwenzi lalitali lomwe limadziwa kuyambira pa benchi kusukulu. Kuphatikiza apo, wakwanitsa kale kukhala ndi kabuku kankhosa kwake.
Kseania akufuna kuti ayambe moyo watsopano popanda nkhawa komanso kusiya ana onse pa Atate wake.
Sizinatanthauze kuti mayiyoyo adataya ana ake kwamuyaya. Kungochokera kutopa kokwanira m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, ndinkafuna kukakhala ndi moyo waulere, ndikamacheza ndi ana, koma osakhala pamodzi.
Zotsatira zake, Mikhail idakhala bambo wopanda mayi, komanso wodziwa bwino. Anavomereza kuti poyamba zinali zovuta kwambiri, koma osati m'dongosolo. Kupatula apo, wazolowera kupulumutsa iye ndi ana. Zinali zovuta kwambiri pamakhalidwe, osatinso ana ambiri.
Ngati ana okalamba, omwe, pa nthawi ya chisudzulo, anali ndi zaka 1, 12 mpaka 10, sanafunikire kufotokoza, chifukwa iwo eni amamvetsetsa zonse, zinali zovuta kufotokoza. Kupatula apo, momwe mwana amamvetsetsa kuti amayi sakhalanso ndi iye, koma nthawi zina amabwera kudzamuchezera.
Ngakhale zokumana nazo zamphamvu za ana, panthawi, moyo wasintha. Tsopano Mikhail ali kale ndi zaka 41. Amanena kuti pazaka 5 zapitazi adatha kukhululukira mkazi wake, ngakhale atayamba kukwiya kwambiri.
Chokhacho chomwe chimapangitsa iye ndikuti sakhalabe ndi theka lachiwiri. Amayi atangodziwa kuti ali ndi ana 7, kulumikizana nthawi yomweyo. Mosiyana ndi Mikhail, Ksenia adangokhala mwangwiro - adakwatirana kwambiri ndipo adabereka ana 2. Kukhala ndi zaka 40, ali mayi a ana 9.
Modabwitsa, ana onse kuyambira paukwati woyamba amakhululuka amayiwo, amalankhulana bwinobwino, ngakhale amakhala ndi bambo.
Kenako Michael, sanasokoneze kulankhulana kwa Ksenia ndi ana, pambuyo pa zonse, ndi amayi awo, ngakhale kuti adasiya banja kuti atulutse banja kuti akupanga chatsopano.
M'mbuyomu, tidanenanso nkhani ina ya chifukwa chake agogo omwe amawaona kuti mwanayo akhale wake. Mbiri ya mayi wachichepere. Nkhani ina ndi yosangalatsa. "Gona mwana kapena ayi" - nkhani ya mayiyo, amene aliyense amamudzudzula, ndipo sakanatha. Koma nkhani ya mkazi yemwe adasiya banja lake ndikusiya mwana wamkazi ndi bambo wokhala ndi vuto lochimwira, mosakayikira sichingasiye aliyense wopanda chidwi.