Ubume beminqweno yesini: indlela abaxhomekeke ngayo kwiminyaka, isini kunye nomlinganiswa

Ukwabelana ngesondo ngamadoda nabafazi

Kuyavela ukuba iingcinga zabantu nabafazi zifana kakhulu. Ngokutsho kophando lwezengqondo, abafazi bahlala bezimele banamandla kwaye banomdla kwisondo. Ukongeza, ngumfazi ohlala ecinga ngesondo kunye namava e-BDSM.

Ngendlela, amadoda kulindeleke ukuba aphuphe ngeqela lesondo, ebizwa ngokuba yi-Itiama kwaoko labafazi ababini. Oku kunjalo, ngendlela, i-shittomaty fantasy.

Isondo kubantu abancinci nabaqolileyo

Kuyavela ukuba amakhoboka esini aqhagamshelwe kunye nobudala bamaqabane. Hayi, abantu, ukuwela iminyaka ethile, musa ukuyeka ukucinga ngesondo. Kunye nexesha lokuyeka ukuya esikhathini kunye nencoma aluchaphazeli kakhulu umnqweno. I-libido ayicinyiwe kubudala, oku kungenxa yezinye izinto (iingxaki zengqondo). Ngokunjalo nemibono yabantu abadala-kakuhle, nabantu abadala kakhulu. Njengommiselo, baphupha ngezihloko ezinqatshelwe kwaye nesondo kunye namaqabane amaninzi ngaxeshanye. Ngelixa abantu beminyaka yobudala, amaphupha ahlala enxulumana nezifundo ze-BDSM.

I-Pexels / iNatalia Khomenko yesondo ngokubhekisele nakubantu abanolwazi

Ubushushu budlala indima yokugqibela kwimibono yesini. Ukuba ucinga ukuba i-Extrovers i-hights intaba kunye nemibono, sikhawuleze ukukuphoxa! Ezi zintshukumo.

Kulula ukuyichaza. Kuba ama-inttros anzima ngakumbi kunamaphepha-mva, enxibelelana nabanye abantu, kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba azalwe iindlela zokuqala zentetho yesini. I-Onvertings kubalulekile ukuba unxibelelane nabantu, ukuze iziyobisi zabo zihlala zilula. Bacinga malunga nobudlelwane bePolygamy.

Ungayenza njani into yokuphila ebomini

Iikhrayitheriya eziphambili zokumiliselwa zikuvuleleni, zinyanisekile omnye komnye kunye nemvume yelinye iqabane.

Musa ukukhawuleza

Ukuba wena kunye nesithandwa sakho uthathe isigqibo sokuvula imiphumo emitsha yesondo, musa ukubaza ngaphandle kwentloko yakho. Le yindlela yokuphuma kwindawo yokuthuthuzela, ngokukhawuleza ubeka emngciphekweni ngonaphakade ukubetha ukuzingela ebhedini. Ukuqala, qhelisela iminqweno yakho.

Ipegels / snapwire.

Qala ngeencoko ezinomdla

Sinda njani ukuba umthandi uza kuthatha njani amaphupha akho? Nika imfazwe-qala ngeencoko ezimdaka. Umzekelo, kwimbalelwano eshushu, bhala into ongathanda ukuyenza kunye neqabane, ukuba ubunokunxiba - ngokubanzi, yichaze zonke iinkcukacha ze-fantasy yakho. Ngoku lindela impendulo, iya kukuxelela ukuba ifanelekile ukuba ihambelane nolu lwazwi okanye ishiye yonke into njengoko injalo.

Ukhuseleko oluphambili

Kwaye oku akukhuseleki kuphela, ukuba kuziwa kwi-BDSM. Oku ngokuyintloko kukuthuthuzela. Kubalulekile ukubeka esweni impendulo yeqabane ukuba uyeke ngexesha. Ukuze ube lula, yinyuke ngegama lesini esimiselweyo oya kuyenza ngokukhawuleza.