Apha umntwana uphulukene nobudala xa, ukulungele "ukubamba njengesiponji" ...
Apha umntwana ophumeleleyo kwinqanaba lokuba, ukulungele "ukubamba njengesiponji." Kwaye, ewe, ndifuna ukuzalisa esi sipholo, kwaye emva kwentathu, kudala!
Kodwa apho uza kuqhuba khona, apho ukhokela khona i-chado yakho oyithandayo, ukuze ingaphoswa mzuzu. Ngequbuliso, ukuba awunalo ixesha, umhlaba uza kuqalisa i-Olimpiki entsha okanye i-Opera Star (kukho indoda elungileyo)!
Ngaba uyakhawuleza ukhawuleze? Andinaxesha? Kwaye ungayibona njani imiceli mngeni kunye neetalente kunyaka weminyaka emithathu? .
Ngaphambi kokubaleka "kuphuhliso", ukuvuthela amakhandlela kwikhekhe, kuyakufanelekile ukuphelisa, ukuphumla nokucinga ukuba uneminyaka emi-3. Zithini izinto zakhe? Oochwephesha bezengqondo kunye nabafundisi besikolo baphambi kwesikolo bagxininisa ukuba kwiminyaka emithathu:
-Ingqondo sele iphuhlisiwe ukuze ilungelelanise umsebenzi womzimba, kodwa okwangoku ayikwazi ukulungelelanisa umsebenzi odibeneyo wezandla kunye namehlo, umzekelo, ayisebenzi. Ukuqeqesha umntwana, njengenkawu, Ewe kunjalo, unako, kodwa siyaphuhliswa). Kuluncedo kakhulu kuphuhliso lobuchule-funda ukuba zigcina ngokufanelekileyo izixhobo zokubhala nokuzoba.
Abanye abantwana abaneminyaka emithathu ubudala bafanele bakwazi ukunxiba ngokuzimeleyo kwaye bahlelele. Kwaye amandla okuchaza amaqhosha, qinisa i-zipper-uqeqesho lomsebenzi kunye namehlo.
-Inene, iimbaleki ezininzi ziqala indlela yazo yobungcali kweli xesha. Umzimba uyabhetyebhetye, kubamba iintshukumo ezintsha, kunye nokusebenza kakhulu njengomntwana. Nangona kunjalo, igama eliphambili apha lifana. Imidlalo yobungcali iqala kamva, kumntu oneminyaka emithathu, uthando malunga nomsebenzi othile kunye noqeqesho oluqhelekileyo luveliswa. Kwaye oochwephesha bengqondo bacebisa kwicandelo lobuchule, oochwephesha bengqondo bacetyiswa kwiminyaka emi-5-6. Ukuqhela ukuya esikolweni esikolweni. Nangona kunjalo, kwiminyaka emithathu, umntwana sele efundile ukuphatha umzimba wakhe esibhakabhakeni. Iikhosi, uqeqesho ziya kukunceda oku. Kodwa kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba umntwana akakakwazi ukuphindaphinda abantu abadala.
Iminyaka emithathu yeminyaka iyalungiswa kwisiphumo. Kubalulekile ukuba abeke usukelo (umzekelo, "ndiza kwenza umatshini") kwaye ndibone imveliso yokugqibela imisebenzi yakho, iinzame. Mbonise umama. Gquma indumiso. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umntwana wakho sele ekwazi ukufumana imvakalelo enjalo njengeqhayiya ngokufezekisiweyo. Ezemidlalo, uqeqesho lomdaniso luluncedo kuphuhliso lomzimba, kodwa umphumo awubonakali umntwana. Ukhuphiswano, izinto zokubonisa, iikonsathi ziyinto exabisekileyo. Ke ngoko, kulungile ukuba neeklasi zokuyila kwi-arsenal, apho emsebenzini omnye unokufumana umfanekiso, i-Applique, imilo ye-Winged. Kubalulekile ukuba ungamdumisi umntwana kwaye ungenise ikhaya lobugcisa. Ukuba umntwana uya kubona ukuba umsebenzi awususi kwibhokisi enkenekelo, kwaye uxhonywe kwisherikhi, uya kuba nenkuthazo eyongezelelweyo kwiiklasi - ngale ndlela umama notata notata notata notata notata notata.
: Xa umsebenzi ukuqokelela ngokwaneleyo, unokucwangcisa umboniso. Ukulungiselela ukuziphatha, kunjalo, kunye nomntwana. Khetha isihloko, uhombiso, bambelela imifanekiso clothespins phezu kwentambo, yenza Ukuboniswa yezandla (iibhokisi zekhadibhodi zifanelekile), pick up zomculo. Kwaye bize utatomkhulu, abahlobo, abamelwane. Ngowuphi umdla, umntwana uza kuphendula ekubuzweni kwaye axelele ukuba, ngubani na endiwenzileyo. Inkanuko + impumelelo. Nantsi ifomula yomntwana owonwabileyo kunye noxolo lomzali.
-Ingxaki yeminyaka emithathu ubudala ibangelwa kukuphuhliswa kwenkululeko kunye neSebe ukusuka kumama. Ke ngoko, umntwana unemfuneko yokwandisa indalo. Udinga bobabini oontanga ukuba baxelisa kwaye abanye abantu abadala abaye baba ngumcebisi. Kubaluleke kakhulu kwiintsapho ezinomntwana omnye (kwaye kuphela kwiSithili soMbuso Sobumba, ngokweRosstat, iintsapho zikhulisa umntwana omnye - i-71.3%). Ukongeza kwimfuno yomntwana kunxibelelwano, izakhono zokusebenzisana ziyaphuhliswa, iimpawu zobunkokeli ziyatyhilwa. Umoya wokhuphiswano uphuhlisa.
-Iimvakalelo, hayi ingqondo, khokela umntwana kwiminyaka emithathu ubudala.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uqonde ukuba umntwana uya kulinda ujonge phambili kwindawo yokuhlala?
Umntwana, okokuqala, uya kutitshala.
-Bantwana Funda kumdlalo. Kwiminyaka emithathu ubudala, imidlalo yokudlala yenze indima yenkqubo ilawulwa. Apho umntwana efunda ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kwiimeko.
-Umntwana usalawula inkuthazo yangaphandle. Ke ngoko, ukunyanzela nokubhenela kumandla omyolelo akunamsebenzi. Kodwa indawo entle emnandi apho umntwana ulungile khona, umdla unomdla. Intsebenziswano iya kunika isiphumo sexesha elide kunokunyanzelwa.
: I-jimung intle ngokuluncedo, unokubulala iihempeliwe ezininzi ngaxeshanye (ingqalelo, ngexesha lokubhalwa kwenqaku, akukho dini). Printa i-glider entle yeveki. Xhoma kwifriji kwinqanaba lenqanaba lamehlo. Okokuqala sifunda iintsuku zeveki, ntsasa nganye ishukumisa imagnethi (khumbula into exhonywe kwifriji) yosuku olutsha, ukuba umntwana uyazi iintsuku zeveki (ukuba ungazifunda ngolwimi lwasemzini). Emva koko faka ii-mugs zomntwana ngeentsuku zeveki. Umntwana, ukuvuka ngokuhambisa imaziphane yenye imini, uyakwazi ukuba ulindele ntoni. Ezinye ii-mugs kunye neentsuku uya kulinda ikakhulu. Ke sikwafunda neziseko zokucwangcisa.
Ngokwahlukeneyo, ndingathanda ukukhankanya iilwimi zasemzini. Iingcali zanamhlanje azibizi ukuba zifunde iilwimi zasemzini, ngelixa umntwana akafundanga ukuthetha kakuhle ulwimi lwakhe lwenkobe ade afunde imizobo yolwimi yakhe ukuze ingabi naluvelwano lomnye. Ngokwedatha yakutshanje, nakwiintsapho ezibini, ukuxuba okunjalo kwenzeka. Hayi, akukho mntu nxamnye nolwimi kukufunda amagama athile, amabinzana asisiseko, imisebenzi yokudlala. Kodwa isifundo esinzulu solwimi kungcono ukuhlehlisa ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka emi-5-6-7, kuxhomekeke kumntwana.
Iindlela eziphambili zokuchonga ukutyekela kunye neemfuno okwangoku ziqwalaselwayo kunye nokuva. Ukuba umntwana ufikelela kwinto ethile kwaye uhleli ixesha elide, kufanelekile ukuzama ukuyinika isangqa esifanelekileyo. Kuba kuyimfuneko ukuze uqaphele ngakumbi. Ukuba akukho zinto zibalulekileyo, ungazama izangqa ezahlukeneyo. Kwiminyaka emithathu, umntwana usenokunika ingxelo. Ewe, ngubani ongumzali okanye umzali, uyawazi umntwana wawo ngcono, kodwa abazali banokugwetywa. Umsebenzi katitshala awuyompumelelo yomntwana kuphela. I-Pedagogue njengekhonkco-kufuneka incede abazali baqonde ngcono umntwana wabo.
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