-Umzalisile unyana wam, nomntakwethu, abazali bam, abazali bam abangakumbi, utsho ibhinqa eliselula. -Ndinganazo iimvakalelo zoMama, kodwa ndiyamthanda wonke umphefumlo.
Xa uMarina wafumana iminyaka engama-20 ubudala, wacaca kuye ukuba uyatshata kwaye atshatise kwaye amke ekunyamekeni kwabazali, okanye inyathelo ngalinye liya kuqhubeka lilawulwa.
Ubomi ngokwesicwangciso
Bona: Itshintshe njani isikolo kwiminyaka yakutshanje: Ukuthelekisa ukuba kwenzeka njani ngaphambili, kwaye ngoku ngoku
Intombazana ekuphela kwentombi kuMama noTata, umntu esimthandayo, evutha, wayehlala kwishedyuli enikiweyo. Wayethetha namacebiso ngaphezulu konyaka, wayesiya esikolweni kwiminyaka emi-5, esele efunda kwiYunivesithi ngaxeshanye, ekwazini ezimbini, kwaye kwiminyaka emine kakhulu esebenza kwindawo ethembisayo.
"Ukutshata akufuneki kungabikho kwiminyaka engama-25 ubudala, ukuze ube nexesha lokuzala enye, kodwa kubengcono kubazali babini ukuya kuma-30," bazanywa.
Umfana wakhe unesibini kwintsapho evunyiweyo. Kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba yena ngokwakhe wayenentlekele ngokupheleleyo kummangalelwa emkhundleni wabo. UMarina akazange adilize umoya wothando, kodwa wonwabile ukuba akukho mbambano kulo mbandela.
Abazali bakhe balungelelanisa umtshato oqaqambileyo. Babengazenzi mali kulo nyaka. Uye wanikela uhambo oluya kuhambo lomtshato, unike izitshixo kwindlu entsha kwaye wathembisa ukuba uza kuzisa imoto kwisikhumbuzo sokuqala.
Indlu kumgangatho omnye
Iphupha laseMarino ekugqibeleni limka kude nabo bonke abantu ababathandayo, kodwa ukukhathalela kakhulu oomama nootata abazange bazaliseke. Emtshatweni, wathi kuyise:
-Kwathi sigqibe kwelokuba sitshintshe iimeko zezindlu kwaye satshintsha indlu yabamelwane kunye neyakho! Siza kuphila kumgangatho omnye!
Ishumi lalivuyela ngokunyaniseka, wayewuthanda umkhwekazi kunye novavanyo. Kwaye uMarina, nangona wayeziva ngathi ayichanekanga, kodwa ayizange iqonde.
Ulutsha lunike iinyanga ezimbalwa ukuze ziqhele imeko entsha. Yandula ke intombazana yayinemvakalelo epheleleyo yokuba babengaphili kumgangatho ofanayo nabazali babo, kodwa kwigumbi elinye.
Umama wayelungiselela kuzo zonke iikhefu, izidlo kunye nezidlo zatyezeka, inyanzelisa ukuba usapho lonke luye kwitafile ngeempelaveki. Ukuze ushiye kwenye indawo, yayiyimfuneko yokoqobo.
I-Standa ichuliwe. Wayenayo enye intsapho yakwaDerehouse kwaye wayehlala ephupha ngomanyano nononophelo. Wakhawuleza wakhangela iikhilogramu ezilishumi zokulinganisa ngokukhawuleza.
Ndiyazibuza: UYulia unesiqalo, ukhona nonyana owazala umama osaleleyo uMyisi ovela kubo bonke
UMarina wenza umsebenzi wakhe wazama ukuya ekhaya. Wayeyithanda kakhulu ikhaya lakhe, kodwa walandelwa lumbono wokuba ilawulwa ngezenzo nganye.
Lixesha lokuzala umntwana
Ukusondela kwakukho isikhumbuzo somtshato, kokuqhubeka kwabazali abaqhubekayo kumzukulwana. Ukunika iMoto yakho yeKhedi yeholide, bathi bakhekukhethe ngokukodwa ukuba usapho olukhulu luya kulunga.
UMarina akakabeki ukuba abantwana. Akunjalo, wayefuna abantwana, kwaye akazange achaze nemfuneko yokuzala 30. Kodwa le yindlela ubuzwe obungafuni ukuba. Kodwa ukuntswana kwandlama kunye nabo. Umnyaka waphila-lixesha lokwandisa usapho. Ngapha koko, ootatomkhulu noomakhulu bayakulungele ukunceda kuyo yonke into.
Xa wakhulelwa uMarina, wagqiba kwelokuba eli lithuba labo lokwahlula usapho lwakhe. Wade wathabatha amaxesha asitshatileyo ngokutyela kwenye indawo, apho kwakukho i-kighgarten kunye nesikolo kumntwana ozayo.
-Ihornes! - Ikhreyithi iphendule kolu lusapho lonke. -Uza kuzala kwaye utshintshe ingqondo yakho.
"Sonke Sele sithengwe"
Isisu seRos, uMarina wayekholiswa ngumntwana. Kwisidlo sakusasa sakwisidlo sakusasa, wathi ufuna ukuya kwivenkile yabantwana, jonga uluhlu, jonga umngxunya kunye ne-crib. Abazali bagcwala kakhulu.
"Besifuna ukumangaliswa," utshilo umama. Kodwa ke uqokelele, siya kuxelela. Sele sitshintshiwe!
Uthathe i-marina ngesandla sakhe wathabatha kwelinye igumbi. Kwakukho i-cot eqokelelweyo, ukupakisha kunye nenqwelo-mafutha kwaye ibeke iiphakheji nezinto neethoyi. Yonke into kwiithoni eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kunye ne-Blue.
- Kuthekani ukuba iyintombazana? -buza i-marina.
- Ewe, wena, kanye le nkwenkwe! - wancuma utata wakhe. - Kungenjalo, ayinakho.
Ngalo mhla waziva ukuba abazali bakhe banamalungelo amaninzi kunaye, unina wakhe.
Iphi i-subtrol yoomama
Phambi komhla wokuzalwa, yonke into ihamba kakuhle. UMarina waba mbi emsebenzini, wasiwa esibhedlele. Ukuba awuzicingeli ekuchongeni, ungatsho ngokufutshane- ngenxa yemeko yempilo, kuya kufuneka kulungelelwaniso lwempilo, kwakufuneka kuphathelwe i-anesthesia jikelele. UMarina walala, kwaye xa ndivuke, ndafunda ukuba unaye unyana.
Wajonga usana kwaye akazange azive iimvakalelo ezikhethekileyo. Ewe, mntwana, kakuhle, mhle, kodwa iphi intetho yoomama?
Kodwa abazali bakhe babenenzondelelo bebetha isitshixo. Umama uphelelwe nge-chlorine omazinye amazwe. Utata wathenga enye izinto zosana. Shwaan wavuya kunye nabo.
Bona: "Ewe, yithabathela ezandleni zakho, uyanithetha ntoni ?!" - Kutheni akunakwenzeka ukufundisa umntwana ukuba anikele
-Umbiza njani kwi-rypa? -Ucela umama kaMarina.
"Andazi ..." watsho umama omncinci.
Kubonakala ngathi ukukhulelwa kwakhe kufana negama elithi maxim, kunye nencancisa-sergey.
- Ndikunike notata. Njengoko unqwena.
Abazali bathetha noTatan banyula igama noAndrei. Ke inkwenkwe irekhodiwe.
Indiza ekufuneka isebenze
UMarina wamkhathalela ekhaya, wazama ukumisela ukuncancisa. Kodwa ayikaze ivule uthando lukamama.
Emva kweeveki ezimbalwa emva kokuzalwa, wayesele elahlekile. Akukho manyathelo ancedileyo ukuyibuyisela. Ewe, uMarina akazange afune. Ngosuku lokuqala, kumxube womntwana wondliwe kwibhotile kuwo onke amalungu osapho.
Wabukela ubuso babazali bakhe, xa bebambe umzukulwana. Ayikwenzekanga kuye.
U-Andryhasha wayesele enenyanga apho uMarina wabiza umsebenzi kwaye wabuza ukuba angaya iiyure ezimbalwa ukuqeqesha umqeshwa omtsha.
-Iyinto ethathelwe indawo ngam? Wayesoyika. - Kuthekani ukuba emva kommiselo, andikwazi ukuya kwisikhundla sam?
UMarina waphakamisa lo mbuzo kwiBhunga leNtsapho.
"Ndingumhlala-phantsi," utshilo utata wakhe. -Ndingenza umzukulwana.
"Ngokuqinisekileyo," umama wakhe waxhaswa. -Khetho olunjalo. Ndinepenshini encinci, ndizakubeka kumntwana wakho. Kwaye uyahamba, sebenza. Sukutya. Ngokumka sikwazi ukuphatha, sukuba nexhala.
"Unyana wam akazi ukuba ndingunina"
Kwiintsuku ezayo, uMarina wabuyela emsebenzini wakhe. I-cot kunye nezinye izinto zika-Andryshi zafudukela kwigumbi labazali ukuze anele.
Ndiyazibuza: iindlela zokuphumla umama kwaye kwangaxeshanye thatha umntwana oneminyaka emi-2-4
Usebenze kakhulu kwaye ethanda ukuba wambona umntwana wakhe ngeempelaveki. Wayelungile kotatomkhulu wakhe. U-Asryha waphakamisa kwaye akrelekrele.
Udlule phantse ngonyaka, uMarina waqinisa isikhundla sakhe emsebenzini. Okwesihlandlo sokuqala uthathe iholide. Ekuseni, ephethe umyeni e-ofisini, eza kubazali. Kwisitulo sabantwana, umntwana ovuthayo wayehleli kwaye encokola.
- Umama! - wancuma ngokucacileyo.
- Wowu! -umfazi wavuya. -Uye wafunda!
"Asikokuthi," uMatat'''omkhulu wamxelela. "Uyabiza ixesha elide ngumama noTata." Kodwa unelizwi. I-Aryosh, ngubani ongubani?
- Maine! -iyinkwenkwe.
-Sithetha njani inyathelo njani?
- Töp!
-Ndibona, owaziyo wonke umntu! -UJernin utyhepho wavuya.
"Unyana wam akazi ukuba ndingunina," ingcinga yonobuqhophololo yaqaqamba entlokweni yakhe.
Ngokuhlwa, uMarina waxelela abazali bakhe ukuba uza kumthatha umntwana ukuba alale kuye. Bangaphaya kodwa emva koko bavumile. Kodwa uAndrius akazange athande le mbono. Wakhala, wadanduluka, ade wafikelela kwi-hifteria efihlakeleyo.
Phakathi kobusuku, uMarina wamnikela utatomkhulu wakhe notatomkhulu, ababengakuqondi kwaza kwenzeka.
Kwizandla ezikhuselekileyoKusasa wahamba ukuya kwimarike yeefama, uthenge iziqhamo, imifuno, amajikijolo. Weza ekhaya eneengxowa ezinkulu, ngesiqingatha sendlu yakhe.
"Enkosi, kodwa i-Aryohushi ingalunganga kwezi nkqonkqozo," umama wamcacisela.
- Kutheni ungandixelelanga ngayo? - UMarina wamangaliswa.
Ewe, ngandlel 'ithile andizange ndihambe. Kwaye kutheni ixoxa ngolondolozo lweentsapho?
- Ke, ngumntwana wam lowo.
- Ewe, uyazi ukuba usezandleni zonqulo.
Lo nguMarina nenyaniso ezaziyo. Ngabazali bakhe uMarryha wayengcono kunaye. Bamthanda. Kwaye yena ... akazange ayithathele ingqalelo into yokuba ngoku wayengumntwana.
Umama uye waba yinto engathethekiyo
UMarina akaqondi ukuba ungayiqondi kakuhle into kanye ekutyhafeni ukuze afune uncedo kwi-psychologist. Kwiminyaka elandelayo, watshintsha iingcali ezininzi. Bonke benjengoko, obizwa ngokuba sisikhundla sayo. Wacetyiswa ukuba athathe umntwana, umyeni wakhe kwaye ahambe, kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Ibhinqa eliselula elifanayo lazi ukuba lingayi kuba sisigqibo esifanelekileyo. Ufike ekhaya apho ayonwabanga, kungenjalo ngeminyaka yosana oluphuhlileyo, ejikelezwe luthando. Ndabona amehlo abazali bakhe etshisa. Ngokungathi baphinde bamoyike. UMarina wayeqonda ukuba ngekhe akwazi ukwahlulahlula abantu abanjalo bayathandana.Unyana wakhe waba mkhuluwa. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, kubomi beli ntsapho, ngokuchanekileyo kusahluko kweziganeko. Kwaye mhlawumbi yonke into inokutshintshwa.