Indoda ayikulungele ubudlelwane obukhulu

Udibana nomntu othile kwaye apha ngequbuliso ufumanise ukuba lo mfo akakulungele ukuba nolwalamano olubi. Kodwa uyayibona indlela aziphethe ngayo engahambelani namazwi akhe. Kwaye iphazamisa kuphela ukuqonda ukuba uthetha.

Yintoni enokubangelwa kukuba lo mfo akakulungele ukuba nolwalamano olubi

Izibophelelo ezinxulumene noko zibandezeleka

Into eqhelekileyo eqhelekileyo. Umfo uyaqonda ukuba uvumile ukungena kubudlelwane obukhulu, ucinga ukuba uxanduva. Mhlawumbi ukholelwa ukuba ungumntu owomeleleyo nonenxaxheba, oya kuba nzima ngakuye womelele kwaye ube nesibindi. Ulungile ukuba nawe, kodwa hayi kulwalamano olunzulu.

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Kusenokwenzeka ukuba icwangcisa ukukhetha umntu afuna ukuba nolwalamano olunzulu. Uninzi olunokwenzeka, uyakuthanda, kodwa aluqinisekanga ukuba uyamthanda kakhulu ukuba uzinikele ngokupheleleyo kuwe kuphela.

Ixesha elingalunganga

Ngamnye unexesha elinzima ebomini. Unokuba nobunzima emsebenzini, kwintsapho okanye enye into. Kwaye mhlawumbi, kungekudala, uza kuba nezicwangciso zokuhamba okanye ngoku kuhambo olude lweshishini. Okanye sele enobunye ubudlelwane. Kubi kangangokuba lo mntu wayifihla kuwe. Ukuba kukho isizathu, kungcono ukuyibiza, ubuncinci ngenxa yakho.

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Apha umntu akakulungele ubuhlobo obukhulu, kuba unomdla ngakumbi ukudibana nabaliqela. Kwaye kwangaxeshanye akadingi ukuba athwale naluphi na uxanduva oluza kuba kwisibini esingapheliyo.

Ungenzani

Unokhetho oluninzi apha.

• Shiya yonke into kwaye ilindelwe. Okanye mhlawumbi uya kufana nolwalamano, apho wena, khona yena, ukhululekile. Ke unayo iinketho zokufumana enye indoda, ngaphandle kokuba yedwa.
• Ngethemba, ixesha elide, ufuna ukuba nawe. Kodwa iminyaka ingayiphumelela iminyaka, kwaye usenokuba kwimeko "yolwalamano apho singekho kunye."
• Thatha isigqibo esizimeleyo. Ukuba uphawula ukuba lo mfo akathathi uthatha isigqibo sokwenza ubudlelwane bunzulu, ke ngale ndlela kufanelekile. Abanye abantu banamandla okwenza izigqibo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha badinga ukuyinika ngesandla.
• Yekela.

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Igalelo kubudlelwane

Kuya kufuneka ube yinyani. Ayizukukunceda ungaweli kumgibe, apho ubeka kulwalamano, uqinisekisa ukuba kutheni kufanele ukuba abe kunye nani. Awudingi ukungqina. Isigqibo sakho sokuba sebudlelwaneni kufuneka sifumaneke kwaye loo nto ifanele ibe ngumnqweno wobudlelwane. Ukuba uyabona ukuba lo mfo akakulungele ukuba nolwalamano olubi, kodwa kwangaxeshanye uziphatha nawe ukuze sele azimisele, ngoko ke ulumke. Ngapha koko, awazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ulele emva kokuziphatha okungaqhelekanga. Kodwa ilahleko yakho ingaphezulu kokuba ukulungele ukunika. Kwaye ngakumbi, zikhathalele iimvakalelo ezinokwanda kuphela.

Ukupapashwa komthombo weSiza seSiza Amelia.