The artist and author of the comic about parents in Instagram Nastasya published a comic, refuting the myth that women in the maternity decide are stupid and degraded.
"No special sacred knowledge is issued, everyone needs to be recognized. In addition to the assimilation of new information, empathy, intuition develops. And all this on the background of the lack of sleep, "the artist wrote. According to her, motherhood provokes a rapid growth of neural connections, and the problem of the decree is not in the absence of development, but in its depreciation to others and the masses themselves.
The post gathered more than eight thousand likes. In the comments of Moms, they told what they had taught their decree and motherhood.
I have a sister and mom sometimes shocked that I can issue about children's sleep, for example. "Wow, and I did not know" - the usual reaction.
tatiana_lebed6849.
I took the male with uninteresting people to the decree, "turned" on anyone's not necessary theme - I am very ashamed of such a hurt, in the root of the wrong opinion!
It turned out that these are tremendous work, requiring the mobilization of all resources: emotional, intellectual, physical, and all this in a compressed period of time and right in the moment. The load is huge on your abilities. But I miss my work and I miss myself immensely.
Ekaalekss.
I feel that I am scratching unreal compared to work. As it is now fashionable to speak Soft Skills, flexible skills: emotional intelligence, stress resistance, negotiation skills, the ability to advertise the desired child.
Mum.comics.
Of course, during the decree, I learned a lot of things, especially in the field of medicine, which is now thinking about changing the profession towards medicine.
i_live_in_dreams_of_happiness
I had the right to spend time on unnecessary people, empty talk, nerves on toxic people, work on enthusiasm, not for money ... and much, much more. It was the child who gave impetus to development and growth. Prior to this, life was some kind of game where it was possible to play as if there were even a million attempt to replay.
COLD_NAIVE
So develop, as in the decree, I have never had. Even the receipt of the first diploma died when I passed the session, and then defended with the baby in my arms. And learn in the decree before this did not plan at all, but everything changed the IMG.
Psy_Deti_GO.
For the first trimester, I learned much more interesting and useful information than 4 years of study on Istfak.
Anastasia.islamova.
I understood one to leave for the decree: to be the most recent workaholic, walking around for work until the night and gaining projects on the ears, I was much easier for me! And physically and emotionally. And financially. You work well - you relax well, look good, grow up the ChSV, you think that "I will never degrade in the decree." Haha!
There is no degradation, there is a pumping that coaching and mitapam did not dream! So work will not run away anywhere, and the professional will catch up and know the knowledge. At the same time, how to pump stress resistance, time management and discipline.
kategamba
Personally, in my decree, I pump myself as a person, because my eldest son is absolutely not like me, very active, noisy and dubbed, it's hard for me with him, I began to break off on him. And now, every day, he teaches me to be patient, send his emotions to the right direction, not pay attention to public opinion and be able to defend its borders. And still live in the moment, "hear" yourself.
OKS_AVDeeva.
Mom is not spherical in vacuo, as a rule, also a wife (and optionally and daughter or daughter, if the parents live), there is family management, and the psychology of communication, management of efficiency, conflicts (resolution of conflicts, in the sense), where I really develop in the decree, this is even fixed on the legislative level: child care leave.
elena_stovbur.
I swore on the unloved job, but the motherhood really develops and teaches a lot. Just our society is not very tolerant for children and young mothers: you are not sleeping, almost do not eat, do not rest - and you tell you that you are dull! Any man, without having through three nights in a row, will be stiring stronger.
Lyubastyan.
Yes, we, unfortunately, the motherhood is depreciated. And after three years of decree with an allergic and eternally snotty child, I can work as a paradise in a rural clinic and a psychologist in kindergarten on Polish.
Blackmahaon.
Yes, by the way, the psychology began to read, I analyze myself, looking for a way out of conflicts with a child, is not always perfect, but already something. I do not consider it to degrade, on the contrary, the skills acquired.
svetlana_mocnaya.
For 4 years of decree, I learned Stoyly !!! Not a single teacher of Moscow State University will give so much. Colossal rearrangement of the brain, values. Return to your desires. With its ambitions. It was worth going beyond from 9 to 18.
Mary_Vverh.
Research confirms serious structural changes in the brain from both parents. For women, metamorphosis starts at the stage of pregnancy: Amigdala is played important role here, the brain area responsible for emotional reactions.
So the brain of a pregnant woman is preparing to interpret the behavior of the baby to provide him with the best care. The cerebral bark is also activated responsible for multitasking. The brain Pope also changes, however, after childbirth. We told more about this here.
Scientists have conducted a number of studies and proved that the brain of women is increasing in terms due to the birth and care of the child. Interestingly, the stronger the attachment of mom to the child, the stronger changes in the structure of the brain. Link to five relevant research with our annotations are looking here.
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