No matter how sad women are aware of this, but for a man, life in marriage with an unloved, more comfortable, calmer and easier. Let's find out why they choose a suitable and comfortable girl in his wives, and not the one from which you want to sing and dance, from which completely blows his head and he is ready to get a star from the sky and perform feats for it.
Whim and desire
All the whims of the unloved little touch it. If she asked the cold orange juice in the heat, and it is not necessary to run to the store, it is possible to pour mineral water with a calm consideration. Why bother, reflecting on what your woman wants. After all, he still wants you still a red handbag or blue. It does not matter how that you wanted to go to the cafe, where sushi are served, and he took you to another place.
Offense
Unloved husband will not be upset because of your resentment on him. Therefore, always after a quarrel, you go to put up my first. After all, the reconciliation is not the one who is to blame, and the one who is more painful whose feelings are more, who are afraid of losing their beloved. And he only strengthens his place of the Supreme Commander in your marriage.
Failures and sorrows
Your failures, sadness and awkwardness will not call him sympathy. This is your life, and what happens in it is not interesting. Of course, if you ask for help, he will certainly help, but without much enthusiasm. He will not be upset by the fact that you poured the driving exams, or did not get an increase at work. So even better, you will spend more time to pay homemade.Jealousy
The unloved woman does not need to jealous and spend their mental strength on experiences. After all, he is not afraid to lose her. You can observe with a cold head for her behavior, checking its morality. Suddenly, she behaved her wrong, oh, as you can disperse in the statements at her address. How much to get pleasure and different concerns for yourself when she will try to sway his guilt.
Romance
He does not need to break his head to fly home, and if late to look for an excuse. Without a reason to give flowers and gifts. Yes, and about you can buy the first bouquet, because it's still one hundred percent, does not even remember that you love violets. No need to devote poems and bother with romance. Want romance - do it yourself. And he will be pressing on your evening, and then calmly falls off with a full stomach.Sexual relations
He is fine with you, he is surrounded by love and care. It is interesting to communicate with you and you are not conflict, but no quarrel - there is no negative. In bed, everything is ordinary and calmly. No stress and excitement, suddenly, something wrong or you did not like. It does not matter that it is not often not very scary, because anyway there is no dizzying attraction. And he is waiting for only his dose of physical pleasure exclusively.
In custody
Looking at her loving eyes a man wants to shout: "Well, that you really go, do not waste your life and love for me. I'm not an egoist, not angry, perhaps I am your best friend - I just do not love you! I'm not the one who you need! " But in the eyes of a woman there is no fright and disappointment, she does not hear his cry, and just believes him and loves.
P.S. Love yourself and do not become comfortable. Do not waste life for one-way relationship, it ends too quickly.
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