Lapha ingane ithole leyo minyaka lapho, isilungele 'ukumunca njengesiponji' ...
Lapha ingane izuze leyonyaka lapho, isilungele 'ukumunca njengesiponji.' Futhi-ke, ngifuna ukugcwalisa lesi siponji, bese kuthi ngemuva kwemithathu, sekwephuze kakhulu!
Kepha kufanele ugijime kuphi, lapho uhola khona i-CHADO oyithandayo, ukuze ungaphuthelwa umzuzu. Kungazelelwe, uma ungenaso isikhathi, umhlaba uzokwethula iqhawe elisha le-Olimpiki noma inkanyezi ye-Opera (kunendoda enhle)!
Ngabe udinga ukushesha? Anginaso yini isikhathi? Futhi kanjani ukubona izinselelo namathalente enganeni yeminyaka emithathu? (Isiphangi: Uma umgomo wakho oyinhloko ukukhulisa ubuntu obuvumelanayo, hhayi umjaho wezindondo, into esemqoka ukuthi yonke into isethandweni).
Ngaphambi kokugijima "ekuthuthukiseni", kuvunguza amakhandlela kwikhekhe, kufanelekile ukuqeda amandla, ukuphumula nokucabanga ukuthi kuneminyaka engu-3 ubudala. Yini izici zakhe? Othisha bezengqondo nothisha bangaphambi kwesikole bakugcizelela ukuthi eminyakeni emithathu:
-. Ubuchopho isivele athuthukile ngempela ukuze aqondise umsebenzi yomzimba, kodwa basalokhu bengakakwazi ngokunembile iqondise umsebenzi ahlangene izandla namehlo (Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, kuyize bafunde bhala Ukuqeqesha Ingane, sengathi inkawu, Vele, unga, kepha siyakhula). Kuwusizo kakhulu ekuthuthukisweni kwaleli khono - Funda ukuthi ungagcina kanjani kahle izesekeli zokubhala nokudweba.
Ezinye izingane ezineminyaka engu-ntathu kufanele zikwazi ukugqoka ngokuzimela nangokuzikhandla. Kanye nekhono lokukhulula izinkinobho, qinisa i-zipper - ukuqeqeshwa komsebenzi wezandla namehlo.
- Impela, abasubathi abaningi baqala indlela yabo yobungcweti kule minyaka. Umzimba uvumelana nezimo, ubamba ukunyakaza okusha, futhi ukusebenzisa kakhulu njengengane. Noma kunjalo, igama elingukhiye lapha lifana. Umdlalo oqeqeshiwe uqala ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, eneminyaka emithathu, uthando lomsebenzi othile nokuqeqeshwa okujwayelekile kukhiqizwa. Futhi izazi zokusebenza kwezengqondo zikweluleke engxenyeni yobungcweti, odokotela bezengqondo belulekwa eminyakeni engu-5-6. Ukujwayela esikoleni ukuya esikoleni. Kodwa-ke, eminyakeni emithathu, ingane isivele ifunda ukuphatha umzimba wayo emkhathini. Izifundo, ukuqeqeshwa kuzokusiza lokhu. Kepha udinga ukuqonda ukuthi ingane ayikakwazi ukuphinda ngokuphelele kubantu abadala.
- Okhulile oneminyaka emithathu kulungiselelwe umphumela. Kubalulekile ukuthi abeke umgomo (ngokwesibonelo, "Ngizokwenza umshini") futhi ngibone umkhiqizo wokugcina wemisebenzi yakho, imizamo. Khombisa mama. Thola ukudunyiswa. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ingane yakho isivele isikwazi ukuzwa umuzwa onjalo njengokuziqhenya ngempumelelo yayo. Ezemidlalo, ukuqeqeshwa komdanso kuyasiza ekukhuleni ngokomzimba, kepha umphumela awubonakali enganeni. Imincintiswano, imisebenzi yokubonisa, amakhonsathi ayimiphumela emincane. Ngakho-ke, kuhle ukuba namakilasi okudala e-Arsenal, lapho emsebenzini owodwa ungathola isithombe, i-applique, ukwakheka okunamaphiko. Kubalulekile hhayi nje ukudumisa ingane futhi ulethe ikhaya lobuciko. Uma ingane izobona ukuthi umsebenzi awusongeli ebhokisini elikude, futhi ulenga esiqandisini, ume eshalofini bese uyoba nesisusa esengeziwe samakilasi - yile ndlela eyengeziwe yokuthi umama nobaba babonga ngayo umsebenzi wakhe.
: Lapho umsebenzi uqongelela ngokwanele, ungahlela umbukiso. Ukulungiselela ukuziphatha, kunjalo, nengane. Khetha isihloko, umhlobiso, ukulengiswa kwezithombe ze-dretsins entanjeni, wenze umbukiso wobuciko (amabhokisi amakhadibhodi afanele), athathe ukuhambisana nomculo. Futhi shayela ogogo nomkhulu, abangane, omakhelwane. Lapho umdlandla, ingane izophendula khona okukhulunywa ngayo futhi isho ukuthi lapho, engiyenzile nobani. Isifiso + impumelelo. Nayi ifomula yengane ejabule nokuzola komzali.
- Inhlekelele yale minyaka eneminyaka emithathu ingezona lapho kuthuthukiswa inkululeko noMnyango kusuka kumama. Ngakho-ke, ingane inesidingo sokwandisa imvelo. Udinga bobabili ontanga abalingisa nabanye abantu abadala ababa ngumeluleki. Kubaluleke kakhulu emindenini enomntwana oyedwa (futhi kuphela esifundeni saseFederal Central, ngokusho kukaRosstat, imindeni ekhulisa ingane eyodwa - 71.3%). Ngaphezu kwesidingo sengane ekuxhumaneni, amakhono okubambisana athuthukiswa, kuvezwa izimfanelo zobuholi. Umoya wokuncintisana uyathuthuka.
- Imizwa, hhayi ingqondo, uhole ingane eneminyaka emithathu ubudala.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ekuqondeni ukuthi ingane izolinda yini ngokubheka phambili emsebenzini?
Ingane, okokuqala, iya kuthisha.
- Izingane zifunda kulo mdlalo. Esikhathini seminyaka emithathu, imidlalo yokudlala indima yecebo iyabuswa. Lapho ingane ifunda imiphumela ehlukahlukene evela ezimweni.
- Ingane isaphatha isisusa sangaphandle. Ngakho-ke, ukuphoqa nokukhanga amandla emandleni entando ayinamsebenzi. Kepha indawo enhle enhle lapho ingane ilungile khona, okuthokozisayo kuyathandeka. Ukubambisana kuzonikeza umphumela wesikhathi eside kunokuphoqelelwa.
: Ukubeka ukubukeka okumnandi okuwusizo, ungabulala ama-harenes amaningana ngasikhathi sinye (ukunakwa, ngesikhathi sokubhala i-athikili, akukho har ehlushwa). Phrinta i-glider yesonto enhle. Silengisa esiqandisini esingeni lesinga leso. Okokuqala sifunda izinsuku zeviki, njalo ekuseni zihambisa uMagnet (khumbula ukuthi yini elenga esiqandisini) Ngosuku olusha, ukutadisha izinsuku zeviki (uma ingane yazi izinsuku zesonto ngesiRussia, ungazitadisha ngolimi lwangaphandle). Ngemuva kwalokho faka ama-mugs wengane ngezinsuku zeviki. Ingane, evuka ngokuhambisa uzibuthe ngolunye usuku, iyokwazi okumlindile. Amanye ama-mugs nezinsuku azolinda ikakhulukazi. Ngakho-ke futhi sifunda izisekelo zokuhlela.
Ngokwehlukana, ngithanda ukusho izilimi zakwamanye amazwe. Izilimi zanamuhla azikweluleki ukutadisha izilimi zakwamanye amazwe, ngenkathi ingane ingafundi ukukhuluma kahle ngolimi lwayo lwendabuko aze afunde imiklamo yenkulumo yolimi lwayo ukuze angazididali ngemiklamo yomunye. Ngokusho kwemininingwane yakamuva, ngisho nasemindenini enezilimi ezimbili, ukuxuba okunjalo kuvame ukwenzeka. Cha, akekho noyedwa ophikisana nokuthandana nolimi ukutadisha amagama ngamanye, amabinzana ayisisekelo, imisebenzi yokudlala. Kepha ukutadisha okujulile kolimi kungcono ukuhlehlisa iminyaka engama-5-6-7, kuya ngengane.
Izindlela eziphambili zokuhlonza ukuthambekela nezidingo kulo nyaka ziyabukwa nokuzwa. Uma ingane ifinyelela okuthile okuthile futhi ihleli isikhathi eside, kufanelekile ukuzama ukuyinika umbuthano ofanele. Ngoba kuyadingeka ukuze uphinde ubheke. Uma kungekho izinto zokuzilibazisa ezikhethekile, ungazama imibuthano ehlukene. Eminyakeni emithathu, ingane isivele inikeze impendulo. Vele, ubani, onjengamzali, uyayazi kangcono ingane yayo, kodwa abazali bangahlulelwa. Umsebenzi womfundisi akuyona kuphela intuthuko yengane. I-Pedagogue njengesixhumanisi - kufanele isize abazali baqonde kangcono ingane yabo.
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