Izibalo zithi izingane ezingaphezu kwezinkulungwane eziyi-130 ezamukelwa e-United States, lapho abazali benqaba khona. Imvamisa izingane ngeke zazi ukuthi uJesu ungumama nobaba wabo ngokwezempi. Ezifundeni eziningi, umthetho unikeza ukuthi abazali abashiya ingane abayilahlisi ukuthi yimuphi umndeni aphila naye, futhi owamthatha. Kepha esifundazweni sasePennsylvania, umthetho uvumela izingane ukuthola imininingwane ngabazali bazo bangempela, okwabenza ukukhanya.
Sizoyixoxa le ndaba, njengaseminyakeni engu-35 ubudala, umama owenqabile indodana, wahlangana nengane yakhe.
Isinqumo esingelona lula somama oneminyaka engu-15 ubudala
Amafayili wamantombazane aseMelika afundwe ngokukhulelwa kwakhe lapho eneminyaka engu-15 kuphela ubudala. Wayenezindawo ezimbalwa ezivela esimweni esivelele: ukukhulisa ingane noma ukunika abazali abatholile. U-Stacy wacabanga isikhathi eside, kepha wayesephetha lapho ingane izoba ngcono komunye umndeni, lapho ayengathanda khona futhi afundise abantu abafuna ukuba ngabazali ngomusa. Intombazane yaqonda ukuthi wayengeke akwazi ukukhulisa, ngoba yena uqobo wayeseyingane. Umfana wayenenhlanhla ngempela, ngoba wakhulela emndenini lapho kwethulwa khona uthando nokunakekelwa.
Indodana ifuna umama wemvelo
Indodana kaStacy Fakes ibiza uStephen Stroj. Wakhula nomuntu ofanele, waya ukuyokhonza eMbuthweni waseMelika, uhlala ePennsylvania, edolobheni lasePittsburgh. Abasekeli bemukela abazali abakaze bazifihlile ukuthi uStefanu akuyona indodana yawo yendabuko. Umfana kusukela ebuntwaneni kwabonakaliswa, ukuthi ubani umama wakhe wangempela, kungani amphonsa, futhi ebusheni uStephen waqala ukucabanga ukuthi uluhlobo luni lomama olungaluthola.
Ngo-2017, isimo seThennsylvania sabuyekezwa ngokuqondene nokwamukelwa, okwakwazi ukuthola imininingwane ngabazali babo bemvelo nokwenqaba.Lapho uStefanu ethola ukuthi angathola imininingwane efiselekayo, washeshe walibona igama lowesifazane owamenza ekukhanyeni. Ngaleso sikhathi, ama-stacy fake ahlala e-Ohio. UStefanu wasithola isikhwama sikamama enkundleni yokuxhumana nabantu, wabe esembhalela umyalezo. Wayengabaza, ukuthi ngabe lona wesifazane watholakala, ngakho-ke wabuza ukuthi angayiniki ingane eminyakeni engama-35 edlule ukuze athole omunye umndeni. U-Stacy uphendule ngokuqinile, bese uStefanu wathi, mhlawumbe wayengumfana, okwasekuqaleni kwawo mfazi wabeletha, wabe esenika omunye umndeni.
Umhlangano olindelwe isikhathi eside kwendodana noMama
Ngokumangazayo, indodana noMama ongakaze ukhulume, wathola izintshisakalo eziningi ezifanayo. Isibonelo, bobabili banamagatsha enhlangano esekela amaVeterans aseMelika. U-Stacy noStephen babezobamba iqhaza ePittsburgh Marathon. Indoda yanquma ukuhlela ukumangala kukaStathon eMarathon, lapho izintatheli kanye nabahleli bomcimbi baheha ngabo. Ngaphambi komjaho, uStephen wanikeza inothi le-stacy, lapho kwalotshelwa khona ukuthi, Zingaki izinsuku ayengakaze ziyibone indodana yakhe kusukela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa. Ngenkathi lona wesifazane ephethe i-bewindle efunda ikhadi leposi, iNdodana yafika ngemuva. UTactac waphenduka washeshe waba nomuzwa wokuthi indoda enesitabane, ebukekayo, eyami phambi kwakhe - indodana yayo yendabuko. Ngokokuqala ngqa, uStacy wakwazi ukwanga indodana endala.
Kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi imicimbi yathuthuka?
UStefanu wahlangana namadodakazi kaStacy, owajabula ngokuthi anomfowethu womdabu. Umndeni wabuthana eMarathon futhi awukwazanga ukwahlukanisa, ngoba kwakudingeka ukusho komunye nomunye kangaka. Lapho-ke uStacy nezingane ayehleli endaweni yokudlela isikhathi eside, lapho babengakwazi ukukhuluma khona. Owesifazane onendodana namadodakazi namadodakazi asanda kutholwa wahle wahlela iholide elihlanganyelwe olwandle.
Umhlangano othinta inhliziyo wendodana yabantu abadala futhi umama wezinto eziphilayo wanyakazisa umphakathi waseMelika. Babekhuluma ngale ndaba kusuka kwizikrini ze-TV, zabhala kwi-Intanethi. UStacy unxuse abazali ukuthi ngabe yisiphi isizathu sathatha isinqumo esinzima sokuthumela ingane ukuba basebenzise abantu abanye abantu. Ngemuva kweminyaka, banethuba lokufunda ukuthi indodana noma indodakazi yabo ihlala kanjani. Into esemqoka ukungalahli ithemba ngomhlangano olindelwe isikhathi eside.