Ngaba uyayifuna i-Gadgets emntwaneni, kwaye ungathintela njani ukuxhomekeka kubo

Ilizwe lanamhlanje kunzima ukucinga ngaphandle

. Ifowuni iyekile ukuba yindlela yonxibelelwano kuphela, kwaye ngoku ukusuka kwizikrini zee-smartphones esizifundileyo, funda, nxibelelana. Ugqirha wezengqondo uthi abakwishumi elinesihlanu abakwishumi elinesihlanu abaneminyaka eli-10 ukuya kweli-16 baxhomekeke kwiifowuni eziphathwayo. Abamele ubomi babo ngaphandle kwegajethi, bachitha ixesha elininzi kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo kunye nemidlalo yeselula. Umsebenzi wabazali kukuthintela uphuhliso

Ngapha koko, ifowuni ayifanele ithathe indawo umntwana ubomi bokwenyani.

Ngubani otyholayo

Abazali bakhokelela kumntwana okwishumi elivisayo kwi-psychologist yengqondo ngezikhalazo malunga nento ayihlala kuyo kwifowuni imini yonke. Ugqirha wengqondo uvela ngokukhawuleza umbuzo: "Ngubani ofundise umntwana kwifowuni ephathekayo?". Ewe kunjalo, indima enkulu idlalwa luluntu lwale mihla, apho phantse wonke umntu, nokuba uneminyaka, nokuba yifowuni. Kodwa abazali ngokwabo babekak 'ityala ngomntwana wabo basusela kubudala bokufumana igajethi, eyona misebenzi ibaluleke kakhulu kunokuba iyimfuneko. Ngokutsho kwezengqondo, kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba abazali banikezwe unyana okanye intombi yentombi.

1. Umntwana kufuneka abe nokungcangcazela into ngelixa abantu abadala ababandakanyekayo kwimicimbi yabo. Vumela umntwana abonakalise ikhathuni, kwaye umama uya kususwa ngelo xesha, uya kulungiselela isidlo sasemini okanye iginye nomhlobo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba unikezela ngohlobo oluthile lomdlalo, ngokuqinisekileyo, luya kufuna inxaxheba kubazali, kwaye ngelo xesha kufuneka benze into ebaluleke ngakumbi.
2. Umama ufuna ukubila intombi yentombazana, kodwa umntwana akafuni kuhlala kwindawo enye. Intombazana inikwa ifowuni ephathekayo, ujonga i-cartoon, kwaye umama unokwenza i-hairstyle entle. Okanye umntwana upholile ngokungafuni ukuthatha iyeza elingenayo. Abazali bathembisa ukuba emva kokuba i-crumb izakusela isiraphu ekwenzeni ukukhohlela, uya kufumana ithuba lokubukela ikhathuni okanye umdlalo kwithebhulethi.

Kutheni le nto i-sedgeger ebizayo?

Abazali banqwenelela abantwana okona kulungileyo, ke oko ayothusi ukuba bathenge iifowuni ezibizayo ukuze bangaziveli kwindimbane endandifunda nabo. Umntu omdala ubonakala ngathi i-iPhone ye-iPhone yemodeli iya kunceda ukusondela kunyana okanye intombi kunye nabanye abanesikolo.

I-ESSSSA, umama oneminyaka eli-12 ubudala uKarins:

"Intombi ethile yesikolo inobuhlobo nentombazana enabazali bakhusele abantu. Ngokwemvelo, uKarina ufuna ukufana nayo. Ubuza izinto ezifanayo, umzekelo. Kutsha nje kuvela esikolweni. Kumbuzo wethu, okwenzekileyo, wathi uNiki wayenefowuni entsha, kwaye uhamba negajethi endala, awayeyifumana ilifa kutata. Sajonga amaxabiso emodeli oyifunayo kwaye wothuswa. Kodwa kusenziwa ngokufakelwa, ukuze iKarina ayiziva imbi kunentombi. Ngoku kufuneka ihlawule isiqingatha somvuzo kwimali mboleko. "

Iingcali zezengqondo zosapho zichasa ezo zinto zivela kubazali. Ukuba umhlobo ka Nyana uyatshaya okanye usela utywala, ngaba baya kuyithenga icuba lecuba kunye ne-whisky? Kwaye intombi iya kumbuza nini ukuba ithenge imoto ithandekayo, kuba umhlobo wakhe wanika imoto epholileyo yangaphandle? Uya kuthengisa igumbi okanye impahla yokuhlawula imali, ukuba intombi yayingafani nomhlobo otyebileyo?

Yintoni ukuxhomekeka okuyingozi kwiigajethi?

Ukwamkelwa kwangethuba kwiifowuni eziphathwayo kunokukhokelela kwiziphumo ezibi:

• ukungakwazi ukugxininisa ingqalelo;
• indawo engafikelelekiyo yokucinga kunye ne-fantasy;
• ukunqongophala kwezakhono zentlalo;
• ingxaki kunxibelelwano;
• ukuqhuma kweemvakalelo;
• iingxaki nge-psyche;
• umbono owonwabisayo.

Uninzi lwabazali bakholelwa ukuba kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, abantwana kufuneka bagcinwe bephethe iinyawo ngenkqubela phambili yetekhnoloji. Nangona kunjalo, ingqondo yabantwana ifuna ukukhula ukuba iikhathuni kunye nemidlalo evela kwizikrini zeefowuni eziphathwayo azinakunika. Ebudeni bamandulo, ukucinga okusengqiqweni, ingqalelo, umbono, imemori, izixhobo zokuthetha ziyakhula ngokuzinzileyo. Escreen, inyawo ivutha ngesantya esiphezulu, kwaye ingqondo ayinalo ixesha lokuqonda ulwazi olunikiweyo.

Umntwana akufuneki acinge kwaye ahlalutye, kuba yonke into inikezelwa kwifom egqityiweyo. Ngeminyaka emi-6 ukuya kwengama-7, umntwana uya kusasazeka, kuya kuba nzima kuye ukugxila kwinto enye. Konke ngenxa yokuba igajethi yenzekile ukwenzakala kokuphuhliswa nokucinga.

Ungayithintela njani

Ungathintela njani inkohliso yabantwana kwiiGadgets:

1. Thatha ixesha lemisebenzi edibeneyo. Abazali kufuneka bahlawule ixesha elingakumbi labantwana: Dlala imidlalo ebangela umdla, dlala imidlalo, hamba ngomoya omtsha, ubeke iindawo ezinomdla, njl. Ewe kunjalo, kulula ukunika ithebhulethi ezandleni, kodwa ukwenza imisebenzi yethu. Kodwa, mhlawumbi kufanelekile ukubambelela okanye ubukele uthotho lokuchitha ixesha lakho lokukhululeka nabantwana? Hlalutya ulwalamano lwakho nabantwana. Mhlawumbi abaswele uthando, bakhathalele, bathobele ingqalelo kuMama noPopu? Nxiba, ukuvala, ukondla, uthenga iithoyi kwaye iincwadi ziimfuno ezisisiseko, kodwa emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umntwana ufuna unxibelelwano oluphila kunye nabantu obathandayo. Ukuba ungawuhoyi umnqweno wonyana okanye intombi yokuchitha ixesha kunye, kungekudala uya kuva: "Andiyi kuhamba nawe kwakhulu wam, ndiza kudlala ngcono kwikhompyuter." Igunya labazali linyamalale, kwaye indawo yabo ihlalwa kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo kunye nemidlalo yenyani.
2. Nika umntwana ukuba athathe indawo yegajethi ngento emnandi ngakumbi. Xa unyana okanye intombi ihleli kuloo fowuni, abazali bahlala bethatha igajethi. Kodwa kukho into ekufuneka inikezelwe ngembuyekezo, kuba akunakwenzeka ukuba uvelise umntwana olonwabo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unyana okanye intombi iklasi ukuba ezifana: ngumzekelo, ukuzoba, imidlalo esebenzayo, nokufotwa, ukuthunga okanye ukunitha, ukuqubha, skating. Abazali kufuneka batyhalele umntwana ukuba azibandakanye kwishishini elichulumancisayo. Unokuqhagamshela iqhinga kwaye ucebisa ukuba ujonge kwi-Intanethi, indlela yokwenza oonodoli okanye ukusika ngaphandle kwenkuni. Kule meko, igajethi iya kuxhamla kuphela.
3. Thetha ngakumbi kwisangqa sosapho. Umzekelo, faka iifowuni eziphathwayo kwaye ucime ilaptop njengomgaqo wesidlo sangokuhlwa. Amalungu osapho aya kuba nako ukuqhelekanga isidlo sangokuhlwa kwaye abelane ngayo into eyenzekayo. Unxibelelwano oluhlala ngakumbi phakathi kwakho, uMntwana omncinci ufuna ukufaka uthungelwano lwentlalo kunye neengxoxo.
4. Yiba ngumzekelo wabantwana. Ukuba abazali abayinxalenye yemihla ngemihla ngefowuni, akufuneki ukuba umamele ukuba abantwana baya kwenza okufanayo. Abantu abadala kufuneka bafumane izinto zokuzonwabisa, iiklasi ezinomdla kungekuphela ngamalungu osapho aseJunior, kodwa nabo kunye nabo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abantu abaninzi banesiphene kwigajethi. Kodwa, ngaphandle kwe-Intanethi, zininzi ezinye izifundo ezinomdla: Funda iincwadi zokufunda, ukunqunyulwa, ukuqhwaba, ezemidlalo, ukutyelela i-Theatre, kunye ne-T.
5. Fundisa abantwana belungisa. Cacisa abantwana ukuba kufuneka unamathele kwiikhathuni ezichongiweyo. Ukuba isithembiso sinike isithembiso ukuze sibone i-cartoon enye kuphela, kufuneka uwenze. Kwakhona, kumzekelo wakho, bonisa indlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukuzalisekisa izithembiso. Ukuba uthembise unyana okanye iintombi zokwakha inqaba yase-cubes, musa ukwenzela izizathu (kuya kufuneka upheke isidlo sangokuhlwa, funda iindaba, uxoke kwisofa.

Abantu banamhlanje abameli ngobomi babo ngaphandle kwegajethi, kodwa kumandla ethu ukunciphisa umda wokuhlala kwabantwana phambi kwabahloni beekhompyuter, iitafile kunye neefowuni eziphathwayo. Yibani kufutshane, nkxaso, nxibelelana, fumana imisebenzi enomdla ukuze umntwana akanasidingo kangangeeyure zokujonga iikhathuni okanye anxibelelane neenethiwekhi zentlalo.