Imibuliso! Nxibelelana, ALEXANDERIAMilovich. Ndiyingcali yengqondo, ndikwiprojekthi yeforamu yendoda ekuphuhlisweni, ukubuyiselwa kobudlelwane bosapho, kunye nokubuya kwamantombazana / abafazi.
Ngokwesiqhelo ekuqaleni kolwalamano, indoda ihlala ikwisikhundla esomeleleyo (i-spresin. Umfazi wolula kuye, woyika ukuphulukana naye. Kodwa nje ukuba indoda ithe thanda, iqala ukuba ngcono kwiqabane, uphulukana nesikhundla sakhe esomeleleyo, uqalisa ukuxhomekeka emntwini kwaye ngokuzenzekelayo uba buthathaka.
Imali eseleyo kubudlelwane ngokwayo ikhokelela kutshintsho olukhulu ngakumbi kwibhalansi yokubaluleka. Indoda iqala ukuzama ukubuyisela umfazi oxabisekileyo waqonda ngequbuliso. Wenza isenzo esikhulu ukubuyela kwindawo yokuthuthuzela elahlekileyo. Ukwenza oku, wenza iimpazamo ezininzi: Iyenza i-hysterics, yenza inani elikhulu leenjongo ezivela ngezantsi, lihlazisiwe licela ithuba. Kodwa imizamo yakhe yokubuyela kwibhinqa elilahla umfazi wakhe lijika kuphela ukusilela kuphela ...
Indoda ayiqondi ukuba zonke ezi njongo aziyi kumnceda ukuba abuyele kwintanda yakhe, ngokuchaseneyo, ayinike kude kube ngoku.
Ukutshintsha kwe-Isporion yentsingiselo (buyela kwisikhundla seNkokeli)Ukwenza ukungabinambonakalo ngokubaluleka kokubaluleke kwaye uzibuyise kwisikhundla seNkokeli-umntu kufuneka enze into kwaye asebenze ngokuchaseneyo. Oko kukuthi, ukuyeka uhlobo olwahlukileyo lokuthotywa kunye "neenjongo ezingezantsi". Kwikhefu lolwalamano kunye nokufumana ibhinqa elingumfazi kwaye liqale ukunyanga ngokuchanekileyo njengoko likhona (nokuba kubanda). Ukuba iqabane liqala ukude, kuya kufuneka uqale ukufuduka. Kwaye ngoku kufanelekile ukungahoyi kwaye wenze i-vacuum "yolwazi" - iya kwenza ukuba umfazi acinge ngendoda, ixhala, elinesithukuthezi.
Le ndlela inokukukhuthaza ukuba iphikise indoda. Ngokuqinisekileyo indoda ayifanele igcinwe kwi-pings yokuqala, olu luhlobo lokujonga "leash". Kuyimfuneko ukuba uhlale ungafikeleleki kwaye ulinde amanyathelo amakhulu. Ukuze kufezekiswe i-campbak, kwaye olu luhlobo kwaye lukhona lutshintsho ekuchitheni ukubaluleka. Ukuba umfazi uqobo ufakwe ekubuyiseleni ubudlelwane, ke uyayixabisa indoda, ngenxa yoko ukwisikhundla esomeleleyo. Ikunye apho kufanele ukuba ibe khona.
Inqaku elibaluleke kakhulu ...Kukho amatyala xa indoda ikwisikhundla esibuthathaka, ngoncedo lwenani elikhulu lokufika ukusuka ngezantsi, lakwazi ukubuyisela umfazi. Kufuneka iqondwe ukuba olo ubudlelwane bube nobomi obuninzi. Ibhinqa aliyi kubona umntu njengeyona nto iphambili, uya kuba ekhokelela kwaye akayi kuyikhathalela le ndoda, ayiyi kuqwalaselwa lumbono wakhe, akayi kumthobela. Uza kuba kanye kanye njengoko eqhubeka nokumnika naluphi na uhlobo 'lweNishbizwaki "ngoncedo awayenalo ukuba liyibuyisele ngokukhawuleza ukuba le ndoda iyema ukuba ilahlekile - uya kumshiya ngokulula. Ulwalamano olunjalo luphila ubuninzi beenyanga ezili-1-3.
Masibe nesishwankathelo:Ukuxhaphaza ukubaluleka kwento inokwenzeka nakwesiphi na isibini. Kukho nesibini esitshatileyo ngale modeli kwaye siqhubeke nokuqhuba ubudlelwane, kuphela kubudlelwane babo ngoku umfazi ulawulwa, hayi indoda (i-matricty). Kodwa ukuba awuyilungelanga imodeli yeshishini enjalo, okanye ungafuni ukuba uphoswe, emva koko unciphise ukubaluleka komfazi kwaye uqalise ukufuduka, ngokwesiphumo, kuya kubuyiselwa. Kwaye ulandele ibhalansi yonke kubudlelwane, ungayinciphisi kwaye ungayondisi.
_________________________________________________________________ Funa uncedo, iingcebiso, sebenza ngokuziphuhliswa, ufuna ukukhupha iziyobisi. Piss me: I-Wapp, Meding Ram.rs8888REx
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