Imfundo yanamhlanje eyahlukileyo ihluke kakhulu kwiminyaka engama-50 eyadlulayo, kwaye akukho nto malunga namaxesha angaphambili kwaye akukho nto bayithethayo. Umahluko kukuba amantombazana angaphambili akhuliswa njengabafazi kunye noomama, kunye namakhwenkwe - abakhuseli, abakhuseli, abakhuseli.
Yintoni ingxaki
Kwaye ngoku akukho mahluko ekukhuliseni amakhwenkwe namantombazana. Abantwana besini bobabini bayafunda ngokufanayo, babuze ngokulinganayo kwaye ngenxa yoko, abantu abaneempawu ezifanayo nokufuduswa kwexabiso le-staitys ngenxa yoko.
Yonke le nto namhlanje inikwa ukuya kunye namakhwenkwe, kunye namantombazana. Kwaye inyani yile yokuba ezona njongo ziphambili zemfundo zanamhlanje ziyinjongo, ukuzimisela, umsebenzi, amandla, amandla okufumana, ukuze azikhusele ukhuphiswano, yiba yinkokeli. Oku, kunjalo, iimpawu eziyimfuneko kakhulu ezibonisa enye imfuneko ebalulekileyo kubomi bexesha elizayo ikwayindoda, kwaye umfazi uza kusebenza nge-foating olinganayo, kodwa nokunyamekela usapho - ubomi, abantwana.
Nazi iingxaki zomfazi ziqala, kuzo zonke ezi zinto, kuseza kulala, zibele, zinikele ixesha lokwalela emntwaneni. Ngeli xesha, le ndoda ikhululekile kwaye iqhubela phambili ekufezekiseni iinjongo zayo. Kwaye kumfazi, ingxaki iyakhuliswa sisibakala sokuba akukho mntu wawufundisayo ukuba ngunina, ihosteles, mfazi.
Yiyo loo nto ingxabano, kunye neengxaki ezinjengenzanga ukuzala, chitha ixesha ngobomi nakwixabiso losapho kwingozi yomsebenzi. Okanye umfazi uba yinto elungileyo kwaye uyathandabuza imisebenzi yesetyhini. Kwelinye icala, kwatshintsha amadoda: I-goght yanyamalala, i-PATADS, ekhusela abafazi njengeQabane elibuthathaka. Yonke into ayimfuneko- basalingana.
Ukuba oku akwenzi, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ukukhuliswa kwamantombazana namakhwenkwe kufuneka kusondela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Ungawakhulisa njani amakhwenkwe
Kumadoda azayo, olona phawu luphambili luxanduva. Kuya kufuneka azi ukuba amalungu osapho lwakhe aya kuxhomekeka ekuziphatheni kwakhe okanye akunjalo. Inkwenkwe ukusukela ebuntwaneni kufuneka ibe nesangqa semiyalelo ehambelana nobudala kunye namathuba akhe. Kwaye kufuneka ufundise unyana wakho ukuba uza kuzifeze ngaphandle kwezikhumbuzo ezongeziweyo. Umntwana kufuneka azive eluncedo, onentsingiselo kwaye, kunjalo, ukuze afumane enkosi.
Qiniseka ukuba wenze ithuba lokwenza ithuba lokwenza imicimbi yodwa, kwaye kungekuphela kwezemidlalo kunye nokuzonwabisa, njengokuloba, kodwa nakwimicimbi yasekhaya. Ukuba awufundi unyana wakho ukuba ufumane amanqaku amanqaku, kuya kufuneka wenze umfazi wakhe, oya kuthi akanagalelo kulonwabo lwentsapho.
Ungaziphakamisa njani amantombazana
Ngamantombazana alula kancinci. Kuya kufuneka bathandwa nje ukuba bazincome ngakumbi, hayi ngento ethenjisiweyo. Kwaye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukungabulali uhlobo lweempawu ezibekiweyo kunye neminqweno: Uncedo, Phatha, luzise uvuyo. Kodwa ufanele abone umzekelo ovela kubafazi abadala kusapho-indlela yokuba yinkosikazi elungileyo yothando umama.
Ayifanele inyuse kwintombazana "yenkwenkwe", imkhuthaza ukuba anqwenele into, athabathelise ukuthintelwa kwaye agxeke ukuba kukho into engasebenzi.
Lo ngowona msebenzi ubalulekileyo wabazali, kwaye yonke enye into iya kwenza isikolo noluntu.
Funda ibali lomzali elinomdla: Ndiphoswe kumnyhadala omncinci kwi-minibus, uphendule kakhulu