Bazali boyikeka. Kwaye abazali beembaleki basaba mandundu. Yima, yayiyihleya!
Kutshanje, uAlina wandicenga ukuba ndimthathele ingqalelo. Kwaye kwandinika umbono omninzi. Okuninzi kwe. Njengesiqhelo, ngakumbi ngawe kune-alina. Siya kwiqela le-novice kabini ngeveki. Kum, akukho simo semidlalo. Ndifunde ukutsiba esele ndikhule kwaye andikathandi ngokupheleleyo. Ke ngoko, ndiyavuya kuba uAlina uya kufunda ngaphambili, emva kwawo kwamkhokelela.
Baninzi abantwana eklasini, umqeqeshi ulungile, abazali bahleli kwi-podium - bekhona. Kwaye ngentombi yam omncinci u-Ubhalana nawo abekhona. Kwaye yile nto sicinga ukuba (nge-Uyana, ewe, akunakwenzeka ukuba sithi, kodwa ngesizathu esithile ndiqinisekile ukuba uza kundibamba):
Bazali boyikeka. Kwaye abazali beembaleki basaba mandundu. Yima, yayiyihleya! Nangona, njengakwesinye ihlaya, kukho ubuhle kuyo.
Ngesizathu esithile, kuyinto ebuhlungu kukujonga nje ukuba balusizi ngabazali bam abanee-Balas ezinkulu kubantwana (eli lilitye kwigadi yemifuno yabadlali abali-hockey), kubazali abakhokela abantwana kwiiklasi, behleli kubo kwaye inamava, ngaphezulu komntwana. Ukunika ingcebiso ngokuthatha abantwana abaneminyaka emithathu ubudala ngenxa yokubanjwa, ukuqhubeka nokufota, kwaye baxoxa, njengoko abantwana babo bengasebenzi. Kubuhlungu ukukubukela konke.
Kuba kunzima. Kunzima ukuphila ubomi bakho xa abangama-24/7 basebenzela ubomi babantu. Kwaye ndifuna ukwenza bonke aba bantu babantu babantu. Phila ubomi bomntwana. Kulula, uxanduva oluncinci, unokuhlala usekwisikhundla esifanelekileyo sombukeli kwaye ungazami entsha kwaye imbi.
Ungazazi yonke loo nto ithiyori kwaye uchaze wonke umntu, onjalo, kwangaxeshanye awayibeki. Ungazimela kunye nexhala ngomntwana wakho kwaye ucebise, kwaye uyayigcuma, nokuba akayiva. Kutheni, ngandlela? I-rink inkulu, abantwana bekwelinye icala lezima - kutheni sicebisa ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye siphumelele umntwana?
Ndiyijonge yonke into endiyiqondayo - ukuba uqhuba i-roller roller emihlanu iveki, ibeka isiketi, emva koko ndichukumisa kakhulu i-hockey, ndiye ndayisusa yonke into, emva koko uhambe Ikhaya, ke iyinyani ibuthatha bonke ubomi bam. Kwaye uyafuna / awufuni uqala ukuvula umntwana ngakumbi. Kuba wenza okungakumbi ukuze konke. Yongeza kule ntlawulo yenye intlawulo yezi klasi kwaye iyavela ukuba bonke ubomi bubekwa kuyo.
Kwaye kunzima ukumelana. Kuba enye into enkulu iza, impumelelo yomntwana.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana into, kunjalo ... uyabetha. Kwaye ikhonkco, kwaye iyakholisa, kwaye igcwalisa imikhosi. Kwaye ukulungele ukuqengqa iintaba ukuze uzive ukuqhayisa kwakhona. Ngumntwana wam, kwaye upholile! Kwaye ndipholile, kuba ndinomntwana onjalo.
Kutshanje, xa ndibona umntwana onetalente, ndihlala ndimjonga emva kwam - ngubani ongemva kwakhe? Ngubani owenza ngaye, onceda abo banceda, bakhokelela? Kwaye xa ndithe ndandixelela - uhlobo lomntwana olwenzileyo, yonke into iphelelwe lixesha, ndithi, "- Hayi, linda, kwandula ke kwakwenziwe ngumama. Kwaye nangona kunjalo, okokuqala, kwenziwe kakuhle, kuba wamnceda, wamnceda, ephefumlelwe, esenza umsebenzi wakhe wasekhaya ... wenza kakuhle. Kuqala yena emva komntwana.
Ngokucacileyo, andikhuli, kodwa ndiyakhubekisa ezi moms. Ngenxa yokuba umsebenzi wabo awubonakali, kuba inyani yokuba bakhetha umntwana endaweni yabo, okanye ngenxa yokuba banexesha kwaye umntwana uya kuqhuba kuyo yonke indawo, kwaye aphile ezabo izilangazelelo. Kwaye akukho mntu ubeka ilitye lobomi ngale nto.
Ndifuna wonke umama ukuba abe nethuba lokufumana ixesha kum. E-Engerction nguMbutho, umthetho, usapho, izalamane-ngabo bonke. Ukuzalwa komntwana kwaye utshintsha ubomi bonke, kwaye rhoqo ukugcina inxenye yeentolo zabo kunye nezinto onomdla kuzo, ufuna uncedo okanye ukuphazamiseka. Hayi ngamazwi, kodwa ngesenzo. Isenokuba, kwaye akuyi kufuneka utyale imali emntwaneni.