YINTONI I-MABINTON? Le yinto engacacanga, ibonakala emva kokuzalwa komntwana kwaye indinyanzele ukuba ndenze yonke into esemandleni kamama, ukuba umntwana wakhe kuphela onwabile. Kodwa kukho iimeko xa ngenxa yeso sizathu le mvakalelo kamama ayiveli kwaye umfazi uyala umntwana wakhe. Esi siganeko esinye senzekile ngoJulia omncinci, umama wakhe wamnika inkedama kwisizathu esingacacanga. Ngokutsho kukamama, intombazana yayimbi.
U-INna, umama kaJulia akazange acwangciswe kwaye ixesha elide wayecinga ngokukhupha isisu. Kodwa izihlobo kunye nabahlobo zacinezelwa, umntwana kaNye ashiye. Intombazana yayineminyaka engama-23 ubudala. Akukho ndoda, kwaye utata womntwana wanyamalala kwindawo ethe tyaba. Ukukhulelwa kuya kwaye kancinci intombazana yaqalisa ukukhathazeka ngengcinga yokuba uza kuba ngumama. Ndide ndaqala ukukhangela kwaye ndithenge impahla yabantwana.
Umntwana wazalwa ngexesha. Yayiyintombazana. Kodwa wajonga kuye, i-INna yayingavumi ukonwaba. Ngokoluvo lwayo, kukho into eyayiphosakele emntwaneni. Umlomo wawubonakala mnandi, kwaye wonke ubuso babubhangisiwe kwaye banxunguphele kancinci. Iidemon zomntwana zazingaphazamisi kwaye umama, owoyikisayo ukuba le ntombazana inesiphene ingenakuphela ngaphandle, kodwa neyokwayiwa.
Nantso indlela, uJulia omncinci (ogama lingu-Obsteric ngokwazo) ngokungakhange abonakale ekukhanyeni, kodwa ahlala eyedwa. Kwaye oku kuyinyani ukuba umama wakhe ukwisixeko esinye kwaye unokudluliswa yonke imihla.
Uninzi lungxamiseko lokugweba umama, abanye bayalela. Mhlawumbi oku kungenxa yokuba sonke sigweba? Kodwa bambalwa abantu abanokujonga kumphefumlo womntu owenza ezo zigqibo.Ngaphandle koko, nabani na kuthi unokugweba, umzekelo, i-fumbers, ngokungakhweli elalini eli nkqo. Kodwa le yingoma yonke. Yintoni eyayine-julia encinci?
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Intombazana yahlala kwinkedaya inkedamini ixesha elide, kwaye ichanekile, malunga neenyanga ezisi-8. Ngeli xesha, akasayi kufezekisi isikhundla sabo, njengoko isemncinci kakhulu. Lo mntwana wasungula isibini esitshatileyo esasinabantwana babo ababini bodwa. Ngombuzo, malunga nokubonakala kwentombazana, umama notata, waphendula ngelizwi elinye: "Ingaba yintoni ingxaki yakhe? Sonke sahlukile kwaye njengomntu, kwaye umntu akayo. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba isempilweni, kwaye siya kuzama konke okusemandleni ethu ukwenza ukuba umntwana avele. "
Ngoku intombazana 11 kunye nabazali abatsha bakwazile ukweyisela ukuba ngenkangeleko yakhe ayisiyiyo yonke into ngolungelelwano, kodwa ngokubanzi yahlukile. Ngoku umntwana ovela kwiziphene ezibonakalayo, i-squint encinci kuphela, abazali abaceba ukususa xa sele ekhulile.
Zininzi ezinye izinto kwiinkedama kwiinkedami kwakukho abantwana abashiyiweyo, kodwa umsebenzi wethu awuzukugweba oomams abanqandayo abantwana babo, kodwa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba abantwana bashiyiweyo bonwabile.