Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka uphumle, nangona kunzima
Ukuba unyana wam akalali, uhlala etsiba, kuba yonke into inamathimba, ethambile, eyomileyo. Uqhelekile? Nanku umzekelo wendlela umama omnye ahlangabezana ngayo nokukholisa noNyana wakhe.
Ndifuna ukumthoba. Kodwa ukufunda "iHarry Potter" ngobusuku, ethi, njengoko bendinethemba, kumnceda ukuba alale, engasebenzi. UFeliks wayengafuni ukulunga. Wandibonisa iesile. Ndathi: "Ndikhula." Emva koko bahamba: "Ukuba awuyeki ukuqhekeza, thuke kwaye awuyi kumamela ngokuzolileyo, andizukuyifunda ngakumbi" ... "Ngubani igama lekati?" - I, mna, unyana wehla phantsi kwengubo. "Logli" -ukuva impendulo eguqulweyo.
Okokugqibela, i-Caster, ndayibetha le ncwadi, ngelixa unyana wam evele ingubo, esenza ngathi ngumhlaba. Intloko yakhe iqaqambisa ngaphandle kwentshukumo yeqhekeza lesibini, kwaye uyabuza- elinye iphepha, nceda, nceda. Ndicela isishwankathelo sezinto esizifundileyo, kwaye uNyana unditsalele umnxeba ngqo kuzo zonke izithako ze-harry edidekile. Ewe, ndiguqula iphepha, unyana ndiphinde ndawela phantsi kwengubo. Ubuncinci omnye wethu udiniwe.
Ukuhamba kunye neengcinga kunyana wam zihlala zihamba kunye.
Umzekelo, ukutya kunye nokuhamba okanye intshukumo kunye nokumamela. Olona mzuzu kuphela xa engakutsisi, kukubukela "iimfazwe" okanye uhambo oluya emotweni ngebhanti lesihlalo. Nditsho neengalo ezingenayo emnzini wakhe kunye ne-elbow phantsi kweembambo. Ngalo lonke ixesha sitya, uhlala kwisitulo nje ngababingeleli kuphela, unyawo olunye phantsi, belungiselela ukwahlukana nendlela yokuqala enokwenzeka ...
I-CAT idlule, uyadida kakhulu umpu otyhafileyo okanye abonakalise ukuba uyayazi indlela yokwenza ngeminwe yakhe. UFeliks uhlala ehamba ngeminyango eminyango kwaye undibuza ukuba ndikhawuleze phantsi kwayo, ukuba sele sisiba sisizathu esiqhelekileyo sokuxhasa incoko.
Nangona ndibukele ngokuxhalabele iimvavanyo zakhe zomzimba, andizami ukulibala ukuba ndikhe ndakhwela kwimithi emihle etywiniweyo, ndibambelele esifubeni ndayihlambela entlokweni yam.
Funda indlela yokuziphatha ukuba ulahlekelwa ngumhlaba phantsi kweenyawo zakho - inkulu kwaye ibalulekile, kodwa kweli xesha lobudala kunzima ukuvumela ukuba abantwana babe semngciphekweni. Ndihlala ndizikhumbuza ngayo, nangona kunzima.
Kufuneka siyeke rhoqo ukubeka iliso kubantwana kwaye kufuneka sikhunjuzwe ukuba ubuncwane kunye nengxabano ayisoloko injalo. Le yinzondelelo yabo eyoyikisayo - kwenye indawo inyuka, xhuma, tyhala, run-kanye njengokuba kunjalo, njengama-endle. Kufuneka sibanike ilungelo lokuba nenxaxheba, sibathembise kwaye sibe ngumngcipheko-wamkelekile kwiNkqubo-sikhokelo yoBomi.
Kwaye nabantwana bethu yonke into izakulunga.
Ukugobe uFeliks, sele ndibona kwangaphambili i-chin. Kwaye ndiphupha ndinikele kwezi moya ixesha elide. Ithuba lokungena kwimpumlo evela kunyana ongenamali kuthetha into enye - unyana usafuna ukuba kufutshane nam.
Ukanti ndiyavuma, itheko ngomhla othe tyhumi-mtshato wandikhupha ngaphandle. Iklabhu yokuzivocavoca yayingamashumi alishumi elinesithandathu abantwana. Yonke into yayilungile ngexesha lokuqeqeshwa, kodwa isiqingatha seyure, eyayilandela oku, nge-pizza nekhekhe, kwabonakala ngathi ziiyure ezingamashumi amathathu. Abantwana baguqukela ekubeni bade bade banyibilikiswe ngesixa esinye se-squeebed, esasihamba ngokuqhubekayo ngathi ngamashumi amane. Ndiye ndahlala esitulweni, ndiphantse ndaziinye, ndakhwaza: Hlala phantsi ngokukhawuleza! Endleleni egodukayo, emotweni, ndaqhubeka nokutyibilika, andisenakuphinda ndikwazi.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba kuyathandeka njani ukukhumbula iinyanga kamva?
Into ayihamba kakuhle? Ngokucacileyo, kwabonakala kum ukuba ndingathatha la makhwenkwe kwaye ndilungiselele yonke kwigumbi elincinci. Ukuba ndayishiya le nqaba esitratweni, ndathi ukubuyela etafileni, xa le khefu, ndiza kucinga: bachitha ixesha elininzi.
Mhlawumbi kufuneka siyeke apho kwaye sikholelwe ukuba kuya kuba ngcono.
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