Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, iibhloko ezininzi zeblogi zavela kwi-Intanethi, esithembisa ukubambisa ukubafundisa ukuba "ngabafazi bokwenene." Ngentlawulo yokomfuziselo "Guru yobudlelwane" zikulungele ukuxelisa indlela yokuziphatha, into oza kuyithetha nendlela yokunxiba kwaye ihlale ithandana nomntu kwaye ikhusele ikamva eliqinisekisiweyo. Nangona kunjalo, oogqirha bezengqondo bayakholelwa: Ukuzivocavoca ngamandla "amandla obhinqileyo," ngokuchasene noko, kutshabalalisa ubuntu kunye nokukhusela ityhefu yetyhefu eluntwini.
Thina kwi-ADME.ru sagqiba ekubeni sicinge ukuba akunjalo ngeza mpindezelo 'zobhiyori onyanisekileyo "kwaye kutheni abanye abaqeqeshayo ngamanye amaxesha bephethekalisa ngakumbi.
"Ndiyintombazana, andifuni kuthatha isigqibo nantoni na"
"Kutheni le nto ndimele ndigqibe kwelokuba ndikho umntu?" - Amakhulu "amantombazana okwenyani" ayacaphuka, eqinisekile ukuba uxanduva lokwamkela izigqibo ze-Persori ubulele kubameli besini esomeleleyo. Konke ukuba umfazi afanele enze kumfanekiso onjalo wehlabathi kukuhombisa nje umhlaba ngobukho balo. Ukufakwa okunjalo, ngokutsho kwezengqondo, kwenza umonakalo obalulekileyo kwimpilo yengqondo. Ngapha koko, umfazi uyaziqonda isidenge kwaye unika onke amandla ezandleni zomntu. Kodwa enyanisweni akukho zizathu zokuba umntu azokwenza umfazi angakwazi ukwamkela izigqibo ezinoxanduva. I-Sloging "Ndiyintombazana. Andifuni kusenza isigqibo. Ndifuna ukuphatha nokunxiba "kuvakala ngathi yinto ehlekisayo ngokungathi ibifana nendoda:" Ndingumntu. Andifuni kusenza isigqibo. Ndifuna ukuya kwigaraji kunye nokuloba. "
- Xa wayesebenza, kwakhankanywa ukuba umyeni uvila ukuba ancede endlwini. Umlingani olawulayo ucebise ukuba "ajike kwi-blonde": "Eyona nto iphambili, yaziswa nangakumbi ukuba bayazi nganto ngokwakhe." Ngorhatya, umyeni, ophulaphule ubuhlobo bakhe kunye nokungancedisi, ukuhlamba isicelo sezitya kunye no-Otskaya wathi: "Ukuba ufuna ntoni, uthi. Ngaba kungekuphela i-lebis yimkhulu kakhulu, emva koko ndinemvakalelo yokuba nditshatile umntwana wam. "
"Umfazi Wufanele abe yimfihlakalo"
Abalandeli be "fanney yenyani" bayazithemba: amantombazana athe nkqo kwaye amsulela akamthandi nabani na. Lo mfazi ufanele abe yimfihlakalo. Ukwazisa obu buchule, akunakuqaliswa kwaye, kunjalo, ungathethi malunga neengcinga zabo, iimvakalelo kunye neemfuno zabo. Ukohlwaya ngakumbi ukuthula kwesatellite yakho kwaye kuthathe ibande. Iqabane kufuneka liphenjelelwe kuphela ngoncedo lwamacebiso kunye nokugcoba, ewe ukuba yonke i-whimps kunye ne-whimples yomnye umntu wamkela iminqweno yakhe. Ngaba kufanelekile ukuthi ukucinezelwa kweemvakalelo kunye nobuqhetseba akuhlanganisi abantu, kodwa, ngokuchasene noko, zisuse kuphela. Kodwa, uqinisekile ukuba "ubufazi connoissemseshers", indoda enomfazi onjalo ayikaze zidinwe ngumfazi onjalo.
- Umntu osebenza naye wakhalaza ukuba yanesithukuthezi nendoda yakhe. Uhlala ngokuhlwa kwimidlalo, ukwi-Intanethi, akukho nto yokuthetha ngayo. Kwaye emva koko, ngandlela ithile uxela ukuba iqabane lakho lidlala ezemizi kwaye likhetha ukhuphiswano. Savuya ngenxa yakhe, sisithi: "Hambani ngenxa yegunqe, uya kuba mnandi!" Kwaye uyaphendula athi: "Hayi, andizukuhamba. Ndiya kuqeqesho "Indlela yokusindisa usapho". © Ilanga / Pikabu
"Umfazi kufuneka akhuthaze indoda kwimfumba"
Lo ngumba ophambili "ongumzekelo", onoko, ngokokuqeqesha, kufuneka asebenze nzima. Njengokuba kukho into engafakwanga kubudlelwane, emva koko iwayini iqale kuyo yonke ibhinqa, kuba yena, njengebhetri, kufuneka abize umntu ukuba aphumelele. Kwaye ukuba uyalele phambi kweTV, idlala itanki, ifumana ngaphantsi kwewaka leedola ngenyanga, okuthetha ukuba iphefumlelwe ngokwaneleyo, ishukunyiselwe kwaye iphefumlelwe. Ukuze iqabane live ngathi libhanti, umntu obhinqileyo kufuneka ayeke iinkamba kunye nobusuku bakhe ukuze agalele kwimfesane yendoda ngalo lonke ixesha evuka kwisofa. Ngaphantsi kwempembelelo yoqeqesho, umfazi uqala ukucinga ukuba ayilunganga ngokwaneleyo, kwaye iyayeka ukuvavanya ngokufanelekileyo le meko. Ukholelwa ngokunyaniseka ukuba, ukwenza ngathi ubuthathaka, kunokubangela indoda yomelele. Ngapha koko, utshintsho ngumsebenzi wangaphakathi ongumntu, kuphela owagqiba kwelokuba akhule ngokwabo unokuyenza, hayi umntu ovela ecaleni, nokuba usondele kakhulu.
- Intombi, ukufunda kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo zebhlog ezikhanyisiweyo, uthathe isigqibo sokukhuthaza umyeni wakhe ngengeniso ephezulu. Baphosa ibhulukhwe, bafunda "ukuphefumla isibeleko" kwaye "ukudala indawo yeqabane", beyeka emsebenzini. Xa imali yaqala ukubamba malunga nemali mboleko, umyeni, utitshala wesikolo, uye kwirhafu. Ukulala iiyure ezi-4 ngosuku, isilonda sakhulisa, sijongeka sibi. Kwaye intombi iyavuya, ithi le nto iyenza iphuma kwi "ndoda yokwenene yendoda."
"Umfazi ufanele ukuba mhle."
Ukuthengisa ngokuthula malunga "nokutsala ulonwabo lwabasetyhini", abaqeqeshi bahlala bexhaphakile. Abafazi abaninzi kwaye banoxinzelelo ngenxa yenyani yokuba abanakuhlangabezana nemilinganiselo yobuhle yobuhle ebekiweyo luluntu. Kwaye nantsi "umqeqeshi", oxela ukuba zonke iingxaki ezinobudlelwane bamadoda kuba amanenekazi azinxibile: ibhulukhwe inxibile, ingalali kwi-Pejamas, hayi kwi-Pebamas, hayi kwi-Pebamas, hayi kwi-Pebamas, hayi kwi-Pebamas, hayi kwi-Pebamas, hayi kwi-Pebamas, hayi kwi-Pebamas, hayi kwi-pigricect macernuar. Umntu ude ude ade anxibe i-skirt emzimbeni onqumlayo, ukuze angaphazamisi amandla omhlaba ukondla ubunyani bobufazi. Yonke le nto, ebaluleke kakhulu, yomeleza kuphela ukungakhuseleki komfazi ngaphakathi kwakhe, imenza afumane isakhelo esincinci sezizathu ezinobuhle kunye nomtsalane, ophulukana nobuntu bakhe.
Kutheni le nto "ibhinqa lokwenyani" ayisiyongcinga ilungileyo
UCikii, othembisa ukuba "uvusa isithixokazi kumthengi", amaxesha amaninzi engenamdla ngokwengqondo kwaye ulungisa kuphela ububi obunetyhefu. Ibhinqa elityelele ezi zifundo zifunda ngokwenene ukuba libe yinto yokukhula, umntu oxhomekekileyo. Kufuneka sinike indoda kuphela indima yomnini wobomi bomnye umntu kwaye ifanelekile kwi template evunywe nguMbutho we-storiarchal. Ukukhohlisa, ngokungathi ngoncedo lokuthobela kakubi, ukukhohlisa kunye nobuchule bomlingo, unokufumana ulonwabo kunye nothando, olonakeleyo. Ngelishwa, abafazi, hayi kwezona ndawo zixhaphakileyo ziwela kumgibe. Ukuxhasa ubudlelwane obungenampilo, osindileyo kwisithuba esinzima okanye unqwenela ukufumana ulonwabo lobuqu, bakulungele nayiphi na imali yokuthenga "ithebhulethi yomlingo", eya kubahlangula kwiingxaki. Kodwa akukho pilisi injalo.
Zeziphi iimpawu ezifunekayo ze "mfazi wokwenene" ekucaphukiseni, kwaye kusengqiqweni? Uziva njani malunga neekhosi zempompo zamandla obhinqileyo?