Umntwana ukhawuleze ukuthambisa, ukukhwela phantsi kunye nezandla kunye nemilenze yasemhlabeni. Kwaye ufuna ukulala phantsi kweli lizwe - livela kwimfesane wena nomntwana, ukungancedi, ukuphelelwa lithemba kunye nehlazo (ukuba abantu bajongeka). Ngomzuzu onjalo, ukulungele ukwenza nantoni na: Ukuthembisa inzaliseko yawo onke iminqweno, ukunyanzelwa, isoyikisa, isoyikisa, ukuba kuphela iyayeka. Nangona enyanisweni kunokwenzeka ukuba ungathanda ukulala ngokulandelayo kwaye uzalise.
I-Hysterics yinto eqhelekileyoHayi ngengqondo ukuba iyimfuneko ukukhuthaza okanye ungazami ukuthintela. Kwaye ekubeni akukho mfuneko yokuba ube ziidemon kwaye uyoyike. Umntwana uthanda kakhulu ukuhambisa iimvakalelo neemvakalelo zayo, kubalulekile ukuba iviwe, yanikela ingqalelo kuye. Ukuba umntwana akaqatshelwa, akasayi kuphila. Kwaye ekubeni kungekuphela nje ngokwakha, kodwa nokuqonda iimvakalelo zakhe zomntwana azikwazi, uziveza ngendlela anakho. Kubandakanya i-hysterics.
I-Hysteria ihlala ingumyalezoRhoqo isizathu sokwenyani se-hysteria asilele apho siyifunayo. I-Hysteria inokubangela nantoni na-ukusuka kwinto engavangayo engakwenzi nto ngaphandle kokuchukumisa ilanga. Kodwa yintoni ebangela ukuba i-histeres ye-hysteger ayisoloko isoloko injalo. Umntwana unokulamba, umkhenkce, ongenakutyala-ongenakutyala-ongezozamizimba ze-hysterics ziqhelekileyo kunokuba ucinga. Zikhumbule xa ulambile-yonke into ejikeleze i-infrimons, andifuni kwanto, kwaye ukulungele ukubulala wonke umntu ongena ekutyeni. Nguwe kuphela ozinika ingxelo koko kwenzekayo, kwaye unokuzilawula. Kwaye umntwana akakho. Uziva ngathi ubi, kodwa akanakuqonda ukuba ayiyiyo. Ngenxa yoko, yonke into ayivumi kangako, ukungoneliseki kuqokelele kwaye kuyahamba ukuya kwi-hsterics.
Iimvakalelo ziyinkuni emfazweni etya i-bony yenbow. Ngaba ufuna ukumdlulisela enye isiqingatha seyure? Kulungile, qalisa ukukhwaza, ufunge, ukubhala isazela. Kwaye ngokuchaseneyo: Ukuba uyakwazi ukugcina ukuzola, i-hysterics iya kuyeka ngokukhawuleza.
Hayi ixesha lokukhulisaEwe, funda isimilo esibethayo ekutsaleni umntwana ungowona mbono ulungileyo. Ukuba kuphela kuba engakuvanga kwaye akaqaqa. Kuba ngoku, intetho yakho ithetha ukuba i-buzz ye-mosquito isekhona. Ngexesha le-hysteria, umntwana uphinda akwazi ukuthetha amagama, kodwa ngezenzo kunye neemvakalelo.
Ndikunike ukuba ukufutshaneMbonise umntwana osondele kwaye ulungele ukunceda. Akukho sidingo sokukhumbula ngokunyanzelekileyo ukuba umntwana uyaphuma. Ukusondela nje kufutshane ukuze ube kwinqanaba elifanayo nomntwana, kwaye ungaxhomekanga phezulu, kwaye mandiqonde ukuba xa wadibana neemvakalelo kwaye uyakulindela kuwe. Yithi izwi elizolileyo, elinamathele.
Kukunike ukuba iimvakalelo zakhe zibalulekilePhinda uthanda ukuba uqonde umsindo / ukona / umntwana onqamlezileyo ukuba unelungelo leemvakalelo zakhe ongayigwebi kwaye ufuna ukunceda. Nikezela kunye ukuba uza nesisombululo kwingxaki. Xa inqanaba le-hysteria liqhuba, umntwana uya kuba nakho ukuthatha inxaxheba kwingxoxo, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba uza kucinga ngokusombulula ingxaki kunye.
Yithembele kodwa ungabi nzimaUmsebenzi wakho kukunika umntwana umhla oqinileyo phantsi kwemilenze okwangoku xa zonke iimpawu zomhlaba zixubeka. Ke ngoko, nokuba awuqinisekanga ukuba uyacaphuka kwaye woyike, ukuba awuyazi into omele uyenze, ungayibonisi. Le yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu yomzali, kwaye kwimizuzwana ye-hysterics, ibonakalisa ngakumbi ngokuqaqambileyo. Ukuba awukwazi ukwanelisa iminqweno yomntwana, thetha ngayo ngokuthe ngqo, kodwa ngokuzolileyo. Hayi, asinakuthenga lo mchwephesha, iyabiza kakhulu. Hayi, ilanga aliyi kuhla livela ezulwini ukuze uyichukumise. Ukuba ufuna, phinda izihlandlo ezininzi, uze unike umntwana ukuba eze nenye into enokumkholisa.
Intshukumo ebukhali kunye nokukhala okukhulu kunokunceda kuphela ngexesha likaxakeka. Umzekelo, xa umntwana ebetha emihleni endleleni, kwaye imoto iyarhalela ngqo kuyo. Emva koko kwanele kwaye baleka, ukungachazi nto.
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