I-moms ezininzi kususela ekuzalweni komntwana wokulala. Kodwa oyena mdala
Ihlala ikrokrela xa umfazi ecinezelela umntwana ephupheni, ekhokelela kwiziphumo ezibuhlungu. Kodwa intle kakhulu kwaye
: Akukho sidingo sokuvuka ebusuku ukondla isifuba somntwana, thusa nanini na lomntwana ohlawula. Zeziphi iinyanga kunye nooms bathetha nge
Ngesi sihlandlo, uya kufunda kwinqaku lethu.
Uthini ugqirha
Oosihlo bethu balala nabantwana ukuba babakhusele kwaye bangafa kubanda. Kodwa oomama banamhlanje bayoyika ukubeka iintsana ezikufuphi, kuba amatyala xa amabhinqa ephupheni emi ngobunzima bazo. Iingcali ezivela kwi-American Academy ye-Peediatrics ikwacebisa ukuba ukulala okudibeneyo kunye nomntwana omncinci kunokuthwala ingozi ebomini bomntwana. Kodwa abalandeli bebango lokulala ngokudibeneyo lokuba indawo enjalo inxulunyaniswa nokungakwazi ukukhangela iimeko zokuhlala kwintsapho nganye, ubomi babo bemihla ngemihla, ngenxa yoko kulula ukuthintela ngaphandle kokukhangela ngaphandle kokukhangela ngaphandle kokukhangela ngaphandle kokukhangela.Abantu baseRussia bathetha ngaphandle kwabelana. Bayakoyikisa amabali amancinci amancinci xa abafazi balele ecaleni komntwana, bavuke benomntwana ongahlala naye. Ngokwemvelo, umama ngamnye uphulaphula loo mxholo kwaye uya kwenza yonke into anokuthetha ugqirha onamava.
Funda kwakhona: 8 Iimpawu zomzimba eziya kubakho njengengcebiso
Kuyingozi kangakanani umama kunye nomntwana odibeneyo
Abafazi abasusela ekuzalwaneni babeka iintsana ecaleni kwabo, buphikisa ukuba ingozi ayiphuphi ngokudibeneyo, kodwa kwindlela yokuphila yabazali. Ukuba umama uthatha iiarhente ezomeleleyo ezomeleleyo, ukuwa phantsi ngokuhlwa, kuba akukho mntu uncedayo ukukhathalela umntwana, kwaye esebenzisa utywala okanye iziyobisi, ngokwemvelo ayakwazi ukulawula imeko. Inqaku elibalulekileyo liyinqanaba lokuthamba kwebhedi, nokuba amanye amalungu osapho okanye izilwanyana zilele kuwo. Yonke le nto mayiqwalaselwe xa usenza isigqibo kwiphupha elidibeneyo nomntwana.
Kodwa kukho necala elingasemva lembasa. Umama nomntwana bamiliselwe "omnye komnye. Umntwana uyazola xa ivumba liziva kufutshane nevumba kunye nomzimba kamama. Abafazi abahle kwiphupha baziva umoya womntwana, ke into enomngcipheko incinci. Imijikelezo yokulala inombhalo oselula onesifo kunye nomntwana oguqulelayo, ngoko ke lo mfazi uyaphendula nakuluphi na utshintsho kwimeko yomntwana. Kwisigaba sokulala esingagungqi, umama unokuva i-chips yentliziyo okanye yondla ngamabele. Akukho mfuneko yokuba uvuke izihlandlo ezininzi ebusuku, kwaye oku kubaluleke kakhulu kubungakanani bokudideka, ofunekayo ukuze uphumle.
Funda kwakhona: 10 Wibhakov, enceda ukuyeka ukwabelana
Oomama abancinci baxela
UNina, Mama Mama oneminyaka emibini ubudala uKsyushasha:
"Xa kwazalwa intombi yam, bendisoyika ukuthatha izandla, ndincinci. Kodwa uKSyushasha walala ngobusuku, kwaye kwafuneka asuse elinye icala lebhedi ukuba ayibeke kufutshane ebhedini yethu. Kulungele kakhulu ukuba woyika loo monakalo into umntwana. Kwiinyanga ezi-4, ndalala noKsyushasha kunye, kwaye intle kakhulu, ipholile - yiva indoda encinci ekufutshane. Kubonakala kum ukuba ngokwemvelo emfazinile kangangokuba ulele kakhulu enovelwano kakhulu kwaye uva umntwana wakhe. "Oksana, Mama uNyaka oMdala Vladika:
"Ugqirha wezonyango kwikliniki yabantwana esoyika ukuba umfazi unokumphulisa umntwana ukuba iinyanga zokuqala ziya kulala kunye. Kodwa emva koko ndathetha ngeeforamu zaseMummy, kwaye zininzi, phuma, ubeke abantwana ecaleni kwabo. Ewe, xa le ntokazi idiniwe kakhulu, inesifo sokudakumba esihlangeneyo, ithatha iipilisi zokulala, ayifanelekanga ukukhohlisa. Kodwa kwezinye iimeko, ndicinga ukuba, wonke umama uyaliva umntwana wakhe ephupheni, kuba sinengqondo kakhulu kunyaka wokuqala kwaye wavuka kwi-rustle kunye nepisch. "
UAlexandra, Umama 6-nyanga uArina:
"Intombi ilala ngokuzalwa. Ubusuku bokuqala buzama ukumfaka eCrib, kodwa yayisisihogo sokwenene. Wakhwaza, akalalanga, kwaye kwafuneka nditshintshe. Andizisoli, kuba abantwana bakhula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye abanalo ixesha lokunandipha la maxesha xa umntwana ethe cwaka. "Sofia, uMama Mama Arseny (15):
"Kwiinyanga ezintathu umnyango wemanzi wafika kuthi. Kwaye ngoku walibala ibali awayeza kwenza ukuba izenzele i-massage kwintsapho enye. Kwabo bazali bonyana olizibulo, umama watyholwa ephupheni. Ndidiniwe kakhulu, andizange ndiphulukani, kwaye nantsi isiphumo. Ndachukunyiswa kakhulu libali endandisombululanga ngokwam - akukho maphupha adibeneyo. Nangona ngaphambi kokuba le arseny ilele ngokwahlukileyo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kusasa ndiyishiyile ebhedini yam. Ngelishwa, umngcipheko wokwenzakalisa umntwana ukhoyo, ngoko ke sagqiba kwelokuba singabeki mngcipheko. " Ehlabathini lonke, imizila ye-MMS ngokudibeneyo kwaye ufumana ulonwabo kuyo. Abantwana babekwe kufutshane nomntu obaluleke kakhulu kwaye baziva bekhuselekile. Kwaye umama omncinci onobuthathaka unokuphumla ngokupheleleyo, ngelixa engakhathaleli impilo kunye nobomi boMpu ongobuziyo. Kodwa abazali ngokwabo kufuneka bathathe isigqibo, bebumba zonke "ze" "kunye" nokulala ".