Abazali bafuna kuphela abantwana babo. Kubalulekile ukuba loo nyana nentombi zilumke kakhulu, kufundiswe kwaye, kunjalo, kusempilweni. Xa i-crumb ikhula, kuyaphakama umbuzo, kwinto engcono ukuyinika yona. Ngapha koko, kubalulekile ukuba ngumnqweno wabazali, kodwa izilangazelelo zomntwana, kunye nomzimba, imeko yezempilo,
, indlela yokuphila yeimbaleki ezayo.
Leliphi ixesha elingcono lokuqhuba umntwana kwicandelo lezemidlalo
AMABHI ANTSHA EYINGCWELE NGAMANZI AMANZI AMALUNGISELELO. Kufuneka bahlale behamba: baleka, xhuma, phuma. Kungcono ukwalathisa la mandla kwi-tekwana elungileyo, ukuze i-crouung ibandakanyeka kwimidlalo enomdla kwaye iluncedo kwaye ayihambi ngendlela yakhe.
Ukwazisa umntwana emntwaneni kusekho kwiminyaka yobudala ephambili. Kumacandelo amaninzi emidlalo kukho amaqela apho babandakanyeka khona kwabantwana kwiminyaka emi-3-4. Kude kube lelo xesha, unokucwangcisa ikona yezemidlalo ekhaya. Apho, kroch unokuqhekeza kwizitepsi zeSweden, incoko kwi-ornment versing, jika amakhonkco, ukhwele intambo "cob". Ukuba umntwana uya kukhokelela kwindlela yokuphila esebenzayo ukusuka ebusaneni, izihlunu zakhe ziya kukhula, uyakufunda ukoyisa uloyiko kwaye afezekise iinjongo zakhe.
Amacandelo amaninzi emidlalo athatha iimbaleki ezincinci ukusukela kwiminyaka emi-3. Kule minyaka le, fundisa umntwana imihla ngemihla ukwenza ukubamba, kodwa funda ukuba kweli bantwana bacaphukisa ngokukhawuleza umsebenzi owonwabileyo. Umculo welanga uhlekisa ngesangqa, yenza ithambeka ezimbalwa nge-hull kumacala omabini, i-mahunder kunye nemilenze, xhuma.
Kwiminyaka emi-3-4, umntwana usenokuba wazisa abazali, luhlobo luni lomdlalo angathanda ukuzenza. Kweli xesha, kuyafuneka ukuba kuphuhliswe ngokudibeneyo, ukuze unike umntwana ukuba akhethe kula macandelo alandelayo: I-Gymnastics, i-Acrobatics, i-Teekwondo, Tennis.
Kwiminyaka emi-5-6 ungazama iiklasi kwisikolo se-ballet, kunye nebhola okanye i-hockey. Iluncedo impilo kunye nokudityaniswa kwemidlalo kukuqubha.
Ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-8, kuyimfuneko ukuqulunqa ngobuchule ubuchule kunye nokuphelisa emntwaneni, ngoko ke amacandelo emidlalo ngokuhamba ngebhayisikile, ukubiyela, ukupropha kugqibelele.
Kwiminyaka eli-10 ukuya kweli-18, isikolo esisesikolweni sinyamezele kakhulu. Ukuba ulawula inzala ngokubethekayo, ukudubula, iimbaleki, xhasa iimbaleki eziselula.
Akukho mntu uya kunika impendulo engalinganiyo, yeyiphi iminyaka ofuna ukuzama umntwana kwezemidlalo. Abanye abantwana sele betsibela kwiminyaka emi-4, kwaye umntu kunye neminyaka eli-10 ubudala kunzima ukuya emsebenzini. Abazali kufuneka bajonge unyamezelo lwenyama, umnqweno kunye neetalente zomntwana wabo. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukuzama ukunyanzela uluvo lwakho. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ihlala yenzeka ukuba uMama okanye utata aphukele ebuntwaneni ukuze azibandakanye nohlobo oluthile lomdlalo, kodwa akazange asebenze. Kwaye nanku utata watsala unyana wokuphumla kwibhola ekhatywayo ukuze abe ngumdlali webhola odumileyo, umama urekhoda intombi yakhe kwicandelo lokuzivocavoca, nangona ufuna ukuya kwiiklasi zekarati.
Ngaba abantwana bathatha ixesha elingakanani abantwana kumacandelo emidlalo ahlukeneyo?
Izikolo zezemidlalo kunye namacandelo anemithetho yawo. Abanye benza amaqela abantwana, abanye bafumana iimbaleki ezayo kwi-5-6 iminyaka. Ngayiphi na iminyaka idla ngokufumana kumacandelo emidlalo:- Ukususela kwiminyaka emi-4 ukuya kwengama-6, ungazama ukubandakanyeka kwi-skiating kunye ne-guynastics;
- Kwiminyaka eyi-7, umnike umntwana ukuba azame kubugcisa be-orial fartial, umdaniso wezemidlalo, i-probatics;
- Ukususela kwiminyaka engama-8 ubudala i-skuring eqeqeshiweyo, kunye nokuthatha abantwana kumacandelo ebhola;
- Iminyaka engama-9 ukuya kweli-10: Ukupakisha isantya, i-bibitlon, iembaleki, ukuhamba ngesikhephe;
- Iminyaka eli-10 ukuya kweli-18: uJudo, i-bhidi, iPentatlon, ngebhayisikile, ukudubula kwezemidlalo.
Ungayikhetha njani icandelo lezemidlalo, linikezwe umzimba womntwana
Ngaphambi kokuba enze unyana okanye intombi yokwenza uhlobo oluthile lwemidlalo, luxabise umzimba wayo. Oku kudlala indima ebalulekileyo, kuba idatha ethile yomzimba ibalulekile kwimidlalo eyahlukeneyo, umzekelo, kwiiklasi zeBhasikithi ekufuneka ube nokukhula okuphezulu. Ukuba i-crumb inesidima kakhulu, kufuneka ucoceke kakhulu xa ukhetha i-mug yezemidlalo, kuba umntwana unokukhulisa ubunzima bokungaphantsi ngenxa yenani labo. Umntwana womzimba omeleleyo akanakulindeleka ukuba afezekise iziphumo kwibhola yebhola okanye ngumlondolozi, kodwa uya kuba nakho ukuqonda ubuchule kunye neetalente zayo kwi-Orial Mfamivel Artical Adsm Rakial okanye i-hockey.
Umdlalo kunye nomsindo wabantwana
I-Singuine abantwana bayathanda ukuziva ngathi ziinkokeli, azinakufane noloyiko kwaye zithanda izinto ezinqabileyo. I-Sioyinics iya kuba yinto enjalo yemidlalo: ukuhamba, ukubiyela, ikarati, intaba.
Ikholeric ayikwazi ukuhlala kwindawo enye. Kwangelo xesha, babelana ngokulula ngolonwabo nabanye abathathi-nxaxheba, ke yimidlalo yeqela elifanelekileyo leqela. Kananjalo abantwana be-choler ngumlo okanye banqe, apho unokufuna ukuqhubeka.
I-flegmatics iya kufezekisa iziphumo ezithandekayo kwizemidlalo, enkosi ngokokuzimela kwabo kunye nomonde. Ungazama ukunika i-phulelo yomntwana kwicandelo leCess, kwi-AHVETE,
I-Melancholikov kulula ukwenza igama eliqinisekileyo. Iintsana ngohlobo olunjalo lomdaniso zichaziwe kwiqela lezemidlalo, ukuthanda idayisi yeMidlalo, ukukhwela ihashe, kwaye usenokubazama ukudubula okanye ukuhamba ngesikhephe.
IMidlalo nezeMpilo
Imidlalo kufuneka yomeleze umzimba, kodwa akukho tyala lempilo yentshatsheli encinci. Kucetyiswa ngaphambi kokuba soyise iOlimpiki yezeMidlalo, ukutyelela i-Pediatirian eya kuthi ifikelele kwimpilo yomntwana. Ugqirha onobuchule uya kunika iingcebiso, ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwemidlalo olungcono ukunika umntwana, zeziphi iingxaki eziza kubakho, kwaye amacandelo angaqwalaseli ukungakhathazeki impilo. Nika ingqalelo ukuba zeziphi imidlalo ezichasene nezifo ezithile, kwaye ezichasene noko, ziya kunceda ukujongana neengxaki ezikhoyo.
I-REGECMICS GOMONICS Iyenza i-imeyile intle, kwaye ikhuphe ifleti.
Ukuba umntwana unengxaki yombono, akanakukwazi ukuzibandakanya kwiVolleyball, ibhola, ibhola yebhasikithi. Kodwa le midlalo iphuhlisa inkqubo yeMusculoskeletal.
Iiklasi zokubhukuda zinceda ukomeleza imisipha yomzimba, zinefuthe eliyingenelo kwinkqubo ye-nervous. Ngezifo ezithile ezingapheliyo, akunakwenzeka ukubandakanyeka kwi-hockey, kodwa lo mdlalo unceda ekuphuhliseni izixhobo zokuphefumla.
Ukuba kukho iingxaki zenkqubo ye-nevarius, hambisa umntwana ukuba asebenze imidlalo ye-equastrian okanye aqubha echibini.
Iimbaleki ziyasomeleza intliziyo, kwaye ikhulisa inkqubo yokuphefumla kakuhle.
Umntwana one-mypiya kanzima akanakunikwa icandelo lokutyikitya.
Bathini abazali beembaleki ezincinci
UJulia, Umama Alice, iminyaka emi-4:
"Intombi yam ibandakanyekile kwimithambo yokuzivocavoca ukusukela kwiminyaka emi-3 ubudala, kodwa ngandlel 'ithile yabona intengiso malunga necandelo le-Taekwondo, kwaye lagqiba kwelokuba lizame. Ngokukhawuleza isigqibo sokuba andiyithandi intombi yam, ndibuyele ejimini. Kodwa uAlice uAlice ukrexesiwe, ubaleke ukuze asebenze, njengeholide. Kutshanje ugqibile uviwo kwibhanti emhlophe, yaneliseka kakhulu. Ndiyayibona indlela ubume bentombi ephucukileyo. Ihlala ibonisa ubugcisa obufundiswayo kuqeqesho. Ukuphuculwa konxibelelaniso, ubukholi, unyamezelo lwenyama. Ukuba uAlice ufuna ukubandakanya le midlalo yeOlimpiki, siya kuba nemihlali kuphela.UKarina, Umama Vitaly, uneminyaka emi-6:
"Unyana osusela ebuntwaneni akanakuhlala kuloo ndawo. Inike iminyaka emi-4 kwibhola. Ndiqale ndithanda, kodwa emva koko ndaqala ukubuza ekhaya, andifuni ukuya eSebenzayo. Kwintsimi nje yabaleka, akukho ziphumo zibonisiweyo. Ngenxa yoko, ibhola ephosakeleyo, ngoku siya kuqubha. I-Cuidik iyolile, iyavuya ukusebenza. Uthanda umqeqeshi, emamela, ezama ukubonisa oko kuyakwazi. Ndicinga ukuba umntwana kufuneka akhethe ngokwakhe ukuba kufanelekile, kuba akunakwenzeka ukwenza uhlobo lwemidlalo. " Iiklasi zemidlalo zinefuthe eliluncedo kwimeko yomzimba yomzimba, kwaye ziqeqeshe kwaye zifundise ukufezekisa iinjongo zabo. Abazali babalulekile ukuba bakhethe nabantwana ukuba umdlalo uza kuzisa uvuyo kumntwana, kuba kubalulekile ukuba ungasebenzi kuphela, kodwa uyakonwabela.