Entwasahlobo, xa ilanga liqala ukufudumeza kwakhona, umnqweno ophakamayo ukuphakamisa, qala kwakhona kwakhona. Umntu ufumana ubhaliso kwiqela lezemidlalo, umntu - ifom entsha yeyoga. Aba bafazi benza yonke into elungileyo, kuba ngoku ixesha le-heyday yethu kwaye bebeka iinjongo ezintsha. Ixesha apho amandla avuke. Kwaye ndifuna la mandla ukuba abhekiswe kwiziqhamo eziza kuziswa ziziqhamo. Siza kuqonda indlela yokwenza. Phantse njengoko ndifumene uhlaziyo lwentwasahlobo kuwo onke amacala obomi bam.
Kudala ndixakekile sisihloko sokuzikhusela, ibhinqa, kubandakanya. Ndiyithanda ngokunyaniseka le nkqubo kwaye ngokuhambelana nenyani yokuba ndifundisa, ndihamba ikhosi yokuqeqesha kwezemali - ukudibanisa ubumoya bakho kwicandelo lobumoya kwintengiso kwaye ndikwazi ukudlulisela abantu abaninzi.
Kodwa yayingasoloko injalo. Ixesha elide bendingenakuqonda oko kunamandla kunye nento endiyenzayo. Ndizamile into enye, enye, kodwa ixesha elide andikwazi kuyeka nantoni na. Ngenxa yoku, baziva benesiphene. Kwaye ke bendifuna ukuba indlela ibe yeyam ngokupheleleyo! Ukuze ndabulela bonke ubomi bam kuyo, ndihlanganisa inkqubela ngokomoya kunye nobutyebi bezinto eziphathekayo emsebenzini.
Uninzi lwabathengi luza kum ngombuzo ofanayo: uqonde kwaye uze nesifundo, esiya kuthi senze ingqondo, uvuyo nobutyebi. Ngokwabuqu, amaxesha angevayo okwexesha elidlulileyo athatyathwa ngolu hlobo kule ndlela. Ndinobunzima obunzima ubunzima, ukulimala kakhulu, ndaphumelela kwangoko utata. Khange ndiqonde amandla am. Ndijonge kufutshane kakhulu kwisikhundla sabantwana - ndibeka iimbophelelo kuzo, abangakwaziyo ukubuthwala, bathetha uxanduva lwabo kubo. Uninzi lubaleka kangako-kunye nabo kunzima ukuziqonda, bona iNyaniso, hlukana kakhulu kwaye uqalise ukusebenza.
Kwimeko ephindaphindiweyo, ndanikwa ukuqonda ukuba andisafuni kuphila. Ndifuna ukutshintsha yonke into ngoku. Ekuqaleni ndifunda i-psychology, izamile iindlela ezahlukeneyo. Ekugqibeleni wafumana ingcali-kwingcebiso yomntu owenza umbono wengxaki kunye neengxaki. Ngale ngxilizi kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezinzulu, umsebenzi onzulu bendihlanganisene kumntu oqinileyo. Ukususela ngoku, ubomi bam buhamba ngokusondeleyo, ndizibeka zonke iinjongo eziphezulu kwaye ndizifikelela ngokulula. Ke ugqirha wengqondo sisigaba esibaluleke kakhulu kuphuhliso.
Ndibandakanyeke ekuqeqesheni, ndafumana iDiploma kwiYunivesithi yase-Ericksn. Olu lwazi lundinceda, kwaye ndibancoma wonke umntu oneenjongo zebhongo kwaye ufuna ukulungela ukuba kube nakuphi na ukujika kwilizwe eliguqukayo. Ukuqeqesha kukuvumela ukuba udibanise iindlela ezixabisekileyo ebomini bakho: Ukucwangcisa ukucinga, ukuqonde iinjongo zabo kunye neendlela zabo zokuzifezekisa. Ngayo, ukuzikhusela kunokuguqulwa kube yinto yokuzonwabisa. Kwaye emva koko qala ukunceda abanye ukuze bafezekise iinjongo ngokukhawuleza nangokulula.
Nam ndiza kuthetha okuninzi malunga nokucamngca. Ulonwabo lokuba le ntshukumo iyaqhubeka ithandwa. Ungumlinganiso womlingo, ethi yonke iphupha lokufihlakeleyo. Kodwa abaninzi abasweleyo uqeqesho (ngelize lilize) bayazisa kwinkqubo yabo yemini. Eminye imimangaliso bendiqhele iminyaka eli-13. Ndifumaneka kumandla anamandla kakhulu, kwaye ndiyaqonda ukuba kukuziphatha okunjalo okunika amathuba anjalo. Xa uqhelisela, ndingazalisa inqanaba lamandla kuye kakhulu, nokuba ayilali okanye igule. Ukuba ufuna ukucebisa into enye, kunjalo, ukucamngca. Yenye yanele, ngenguqulelo eqhubekayo, ukuzisa ubomi kwinqanaba elitsha.
Ndiza kukuxelela into eza kufumaneka kuwe kwinqanaba eliphezulu lamandla kunye nophuhliso oluqhubekayo. Okokuqala, unamandla amakhulu kakhulu. Yena, njenge-GPS ye-GPS, iyakukhokelela ekukhetheni imeko yokhetho ukuze inketho engcono, apho ufuna khona. Uyayeka ukukhuphisana kwi-rake efanayo. Into eya kuthi igcine amandla, i-nerve kunye nexesha elixabisekileyo.
Okwesibini, uya kuyifumana indlela yokusebenza amaphupha.
Okwesithathu, ubudlelwane kunye nabantu obathandayo bakhukulisekile, kuya kubakho iimeko ezikuzisayo kunye neentlungu zentsapho yakho. Ijika ibuyise amacala onke okuqaqamba kulwalamano. Okanye wakhe ubudlelwane obutsha buvela kuthando kunye nentlonipho, sele kwelinye inqanaba. Kwaye akuyi kuba yimfuneko ukuqokelela, njengoko kusenzeka rhoqo, ipuzzle kumaqabane ahlukeneyo: Xa kulunga nomhlobo (kwaye andifuni kuphulukana nayo), kunye nomthandi. Olu luphawu olukhulu kuphuhliso - xa kunokwenzeka ukuba uqhagamshele ukuchasana, okokuqala kubo bonke. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba uhlala kwimo yokwahlukaniswa nenxalenye, hayi ubuntu obunengxaki, ilahlekelwe ngamandla amaninzi, owona mthombo ubalulekileyo. Indoda esondeleyo kule meko ibonakaliswa nje ekunciphiseni kwakho. Kwaye ukuba uyaziqonda ukuba, phuma kwimeko yakudala, ke umntu osondeleyo uya kubonisa esinye isikhundla, uvisisane kwaye unomdla.
Ke ngoko, eyona ngcebiso yale ntwasahlobo yile: Beka injongo yokuba ekugqibeleni. Umntu okhululekileyo wasimahla, ezazi ngokwabo, iminqweno kunye neemfuno zayo. Kulo lonke uvavanyo, umsitho, amava, ukhangela into ekuxelela yona. Kwaye indlela yokwenza ukuba ilunge ngokwenene. Bona into onoxanduva kunye nento onokuyitshintsha. Ziphonononge, ubomi, ubuchule bakho. Ngenkalipho iyazivuma iimpazamo. Shiya ixesha elidlulileyo ngelithi lixesha lokuba uhambe-ngenxa yentlalo-ntle yekamva.
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