UYA KUFANELE UKUZE NDIFUNA UKUTHINYA ...
Ininzi into endingafuniyo ukuyidlulisela umntwana wam. Inokuba sisihloko sipheleleyo esinezithuba ezininzi. Umzekelo, andifuni ukudlulisela umntwana ukuba abonakalise umntu omelwe ziingxaki. Ndifuna intombi ukuba ingayazi ezi ngxoxo nantoni na malunga nokuba ngubani na otyholayo, wayengazi malunga nala mazwi ambi "ngokwam kufanelekile."
Ndifuna ukujongana nengxaki, intombi yam ayizange icinge ukuba ngubani oza kubembelela kuye, kodwa ngoko nangoko wayecinga indlela yokusombulula ngayo. Ukuze umbuzo awuvakali 'ngubani obekek' ityala? ", Kwaye" ngenxa yento eyenzekileyo, kwaye wenza ntoni ukuba kwenzeke? "
Kwaye ngokubanzi andiqondi ukuba zithini iinzuzo zolu chonga. Kwaye oku ngokucacileyo luhlobo lwebali elizuzwe njengelifa lethu. Kwaye indlela yokuphatha ngayo, andazi.
Kuba andiboni nakuphi na oko kucekeceke. Yintoni isibonelelo sento esiyifumanisayo ukuba ngubani obekek 'ityala? Kufuneka siqwalasele ukuba yintoni enetyala ukwenza mntu. Ewe, ewe, nayiphi na imeko inokuvulwa ukuze umntu ofuna ukugxeka uya kuba netyala ukuba akhane netyala "ofuna ukutya ..."
Kwaye ngantoni? Yintoni? Ngokunyaniseka uzikele?
Luthini olu lwazi 'lubeki tyala'?
Nje ukuba ndibekeke ityala, oko kuthetha ukuba awukwazi ukunceda? Ungazisoli? Ke ngoko uphilile, ngaba awunatyala, ngokungafaniyo nabanye? Ukuba omnye umntu unetyala, ungasusa uxanduva kwaye ungakhathazeki ukuba kukho into engazange ikhathazeke?
Nangona kusenokwenzeka ukuba kukho iimeko xa wazi ukuba ngubani obekek 'ityala, uya kunceda abasombulule ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa okwangoku, ukuba kufuneka ahambelane njani la mazwi, indlela yokuzisebenzisa ngononophelo!
Kwaye ewe, ngamanye amaxesha ukuqhubela phambili, kufuneka uvume ukuba kunqabile, kodwa oku kuya kwenziwa ngokwakho. Kum, xa lifikile ixesha. Kwaye la mazwi evela kwabanye kuya kubangela ukwaliwa. Yandisa kuphela le ndlela.
Ke ngoko, ndifuna intombi ukuba icinge la magama ngowona mncinci. Kwaye xa kufuneka abavakalise ukuba bajamelane nengxaki, kwakulula ukuba ubathethe kwaye uhambe ngakumbi. Kulula - kuba la magama aya kuba nqaba ebomini bakhe kwaye akayi kupeyinta iwayini kwaye ukhubekise.