Umntu olahlekileyo ngumntu okanye ungayi-ukusombulula kuphela. Zonke iintlobo zabanye ziyimbono yazo kuphela. Ewe kunjalo, kukho iindlela zentlalo.
Umzekelo, xa simazi kakuhle umntu, inqanaba layo, italente kunye nokuqalisa amandla. Ndiyabathanda nangesikolo, eyunivesithi. Silindele impumelelo ephezulu, siyayonwabela ecaleni, emva koko sidibana ... Umthwalo kwidatha yemifuno okanye umqhubi weeteksi. Kuyavela, ubukrelekrele, ubuchule, inqanaba lamabango alifumananga luphuma. Into eqingqiweyo, ihambe kakuhle ...
Ungajonga iintlobo ezintathu zabantu abanjalo.
1. Ngokufanelekileyo hubele ngokwendalo, "thanda oo thixo", ungatsho. Indibaniselwano yengqondo, umtsalane, ubukhali bengqondo. Ukuphakama kweetalente. Usapho ngezixhobo zokuphuhlisa umntwana. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, ilungiselelwe umsebenzi oqaqambileyo, ulonwabo lobuqu, ukuhlamba kubunewunewu.
Nantsi impazamo! Yonke into inikwa umntu onjalo ngaphandle kobunzima, njenge-wand yomlingo, uhlala usentweni yonke. Akasebenzi umgudu, akabhubhisanga izandla zamatye elibizwa ngokuba "yi-Peak Yoyisa", ayiwunyamezele umgubo wobuso. " Kodwa, njengoko uyazi, abazali abanabuntu. Kunye nezixhobo eziqokelelweyo zazo. Ishiywe yedwa, umntu onjalo ufumana amandla ayo anqongopheleyo.
Intlanganiso, ngoku enye yenye, imiqobo yokwenyani, iyaphula ngokukhawuleza. Okanye ubuyele umva: "Nantsi into, bubomi bokwenyani!" Konke oku kukuphela kokuthathwa kwenqanaba eliphantsi lentlalontle. Intsalela yemikhwa yokuqonda ngokuthe ngcembe ngokuthe ngcembe iyenzeka, kwaye sinokujonga kubudala beflethi kwiimvavanyo zomntu, kunye nobuncwane bokunganyaniseki ukunxibelelana nendawo abava ngayo ngoku bavalelwa ngonaphakade.
2. Ubukrelekrele nobuchule bungaphezulu kakhulu kunendalo, "ubuhlakani obuncinci" kusapho lwePygmeys. Kukufumanisa i-gifold yayo, ukubandezeleka ekubeni yinto engenakwenzeka ukuba iphumelele okanye ubuncinci ikhule kwinqanaba eliyimfuneko. Ngelishwa, akukho mntu omnye onokulixabisa ubuchule obuqaqambileyo bomntwana kwaye umncede ekutshintsheni imeko. Rhoqo abazali bawuthande "ukrelekrele", bahlekisa, ngokungathi bakhulise ubuhlwempu bakhe.
Ke, phakathi kwezigulana zam kwakukho umfana onamalungu amaBala oMangeko, awayenabazali abamthiyayo, engavumelekanga ukuba asebenze njenge-janitor yenkqubo yezindlu (i-80s yenkulungwane yokugqibela). Ngenxa yoko, uxinzelelo, ukutshata kwabanxilisayo, utyekelo lokuzibulala.
Ngokutyhubela iminyaka, abantu abanjalo banomsindo kwaye benomona, bezama ukuthobela bonke abo bakwazi ukuziqonda. Bayakuqonda okuninzi ngenxa yobukrelekrele babo, kodwa ngenxa yokwaphuka akusenakuphakama.
3. Abantu abangaphumelelanga ngenxa yobubi bomnye umntu. Rhoqo abantu abalumkileyo, abancinci abanobuchule banesidanga esifanelekileyo, bangamanqindi kwaye babona inyani. Ezi zinamava ngakumbi oogxa babo, iinkokheli, kwaneezalamane. Iboniswa kunye nomfana ongumfana ofunekayo "kwityala elifunekayo": ukuphuculwa kwesayensi, ityhubhu yeyunivesithi yeNkundla, nceda iqela lenkampani. "Ngubani, ukuba akunjalo?".
Iminyaka ibanjelwe, kodwa umsebenzi onetalente usesasebenza njengo "veletom yemibono", ethi abanye bafumane inzuzo enzima, okanye umncedisi ongumfundi, okanye umncedisi wasimahla "utitshala wakhe." Akukho ntlalo, ingcali, yokukhula kwemali.
Emva kwexesha elithile, isidingo sokunyamalala esele sisesikhulileyo "italente", kwaye iyadilizwa 'kubasebenzi abaqhelekileyo. " Ukuqala into kade, kwaye phantse akukho zibonelelo. Ngaba iyayazi into esetyenziswayo ngokungenakuthelekiswa nanto, kwaye yaphoswa njengengafunekiyo, intlekele yesikhundla sakhe? Ewe kunjalo.
Inye kuphela into enokucetyiswa: Ukubona okungenani italente, ukubona ubuchule bam, bukhulu kakhulu kwabo bakuontanga, buqalisa ukubaphatha ngononophelo, siziqwebela phantsi oko bakufumana njengesipho sikaThixo. Kwaye, ewe, funda ukubakhusela-kubacebisi "abacebisi", isihlwele esinomdla, izimvo zabo.
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