Kutsha nje, inqaku livela kwijenali "snob" - kuyo i-PSCHOLOGISH "
"Ulonwabo: Imiyalelo yokusetyenziswa"
Ukuqiqa ngolonwabo. Endaweni yoko, kutheni uninzi lwamaqabane ethu lusoyika ukuhlala ngolonwabo kwaye bahlala befihla emva kohlobo oluthile lwedini lempikiswano (kufuneka banakekele abazali bakho, ukuba babeke abantwana bakho ngeenyawo, ukulungisa Yenza, tshintsha imoto ...) kwaye ke uqhubeka nokwaluphala onzulu.
Sihlala siphila umntu, ngegama lento, kodwa ungaze uzenzele.
Kuba siyazingca, akunjalo?
Sonke sasifunda ukususela ekubeni ubuntwana bokuba yayineentloni zokuziphilela ngokwazo: Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kufuneka ulandele umntwana, tyala umthi kwaye uzuze ubuntu. Kwaye yonke le nto iyinyani, kodwa kwaye awunakulibala ngawe.
Imithambo emininzi, kubandakanya nenkolo, isisuse ukuba iingxaki kunye nokubandezeleka kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Kwaye ootatomkhulu begalela ioli emlilweni, becacisa ukuba "namhlanje uyahleka, kwaye ngomso uyakhala."
Banoyolo kwaye banelisekile kwizinto ezininzi ezinxulunyaniswa nento engapheliyo, engaqhelekanga. Umjongile kwaye ucinga: Kulungile, sisekhona, masibone ukuba iya kuba njani.
Imeko "Imizamo kunye nokoyisa abazali" abalele kuthi: abangazicengeni oobawo nabantu bakhubekisa umama.
- Ngapha koko, yayikukuba: "Ewe, kunzima, kodwa kulungile!" Ubomi buphilayo, ukuba bangabi namanqatha, ukuze baphile "
Ukonwaba kubonakala kudane, kodwa akukho mntu wasifundisa amandla okuvuya.
- Khange usifundise amandla okuphumla ngaphandle kokuziva unetyala.
- Ukukwazi ukuba nombulelo ngento yokuba okuhle ikunika ubomi yonke imihla.
- Ukukwazi ukukhathalela ubuhle bakho kunye nomzimba wakho, nokuba kuya kufuneka wabele imali kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho.
- Akukho mntu usifundisayo ukuba sizithande. Ukuva ubunzima kwaye ubize yonke into, kodwa ukonwabela ubomi - iiyunithi.
I-Labkovsky iqinisekisa ukuba ulonwabo ngumkhwa. Ngokufanayo nobubi. Ukuba sele siqhele ukukhangela i-negative, sihlala sikhubekisa kwaye sikhalaza, emva koko unokufunda ngokuchasene nomfanekiso osisigxina kwaye ufunde indlela yokukhangela kwisizathu sokudakumba, kodwa ngenxa yovuyo.
Kulula ukubandezeleka: Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, xa ulixhoba leemeko, kukho ukungabikho kokusesikweni kunye nobubi obujikelezileyo, kubonakala ngathi luluphi uxanduva ebomini bakho. Kungenxa yoko le nto beme ityala ngayo yonke into, le yimeko ye-villain, embi, iliso elingendawo, umona omnye umntu ...
Ulonwabo ngumkhwaKe siphila imihla ngemihla, siwela emfanekisweni oqhelekileyo, akukho nto ikhubazeke, sineentloni zokuya kudibana namaphupha akho, khangela ulonwabo kunye nenqanaba elibalulekileyo ukuze wonwabe ...
Uthi, ngamagama kuvakala ngokulula, kwaye uzama ukuba nemihlali xa ezindlebeni zetyala, imali mboleko kunye nokoyika kwikamva labantwana?
Kwaye kwakhona uqinisekise ithiyori yaseLebkovsky: Uqhele ukugxila kwingxaki kuphela. Ewe, ukuba ujonge kwiimeko ezifanayo ukusuka kwimbono efanelekileyo?
Nangona usenkxalabo malunga nabantwana, kodwa ubuncinci banazo. " Kwaye yimalini ekukhanyeni kwabantu nabantu abangenamntwana nabangakhathali?
-Ngaba unemali mboleko, kodwa ubuncinci unomsebenzi ukuyihlawula. Uninzi lwabantu alunalo ithuba lokuthenga izinto ngezavelelo ...
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukunandipha ubomiEwe, njalo njalo, kudweliswe lonke uluhlu lweyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuba: entloko, umzimba osempilweni, umyeni, izihlobo, umbono, umbono, umbono, umbono ovela kwifestile ...
Ewe, ngaba awuyi kufumana ubuncinci izinto ezili-10 ezilungileyo ezenza ukuba ube ngumntu owonwabileyo? Izinto ekufuneka uzigxile kuzo kwaye, endaweni yezikhalazo nangamabango ngobomi, vuyisa.
Kwaye ayisiyonto malunga nokuphikisana kwaye unganikeli ingqalelo kwiimfuno zabanye. Kuyinto kuphela ukuba ibhalansi ifanele iqwalaselwe: kwaye abanye bathanda abanye, kwaye abayilibali malunga nawe ... kwaye kuyangqina ukuba abanye sizithanda ngaphezu kwakho, emva koko sibandezelekile.
Kwaye wena, abafundi abathandekayo, bayazi indlela yokuba bonwabe kwaye bonwabe, okanye into ethintela ulonwabo lwakho? Kuthekani ukuba akuyimfihlo?
Bhala izimvo!
Umthombo