Xa umntwana oneminyaka emithathu ubudala uya kwi-kindergarte, yonke loo ntsapho ifumana. Kodwa kunzima ngakumbi ukunika i-nursery enye ye-crumb yonyaka.
Eyona nto inokwenzeka, umama kunye nomntwana akazange ahlukane ngeli xesha ngaphezulu kweeyure ezimbalwa, apho amanye amalungu osapho anyamekela ngokugqibeleleyo umntwana, awabazi ngokugqibeleleyo umntwana. Ngoku uya kuya kwindawo entsha awaziyo engamaziyo nabani na.
Umsebenzi wabazali kukunceda umntwana azilungiselele. Kuyimfuneko ukuba usebenze kule nto kwangaphambili - ubuncinci kwiinyanga ezi-2-3 ngaphambi kosuku lokuqala kwindawo yokutyela. Inqanaba lokuqala ayisiyo ingqalelo yomntwana kwiimvakalelo, kodwa umama.
Amava eMamina, uloyiko kunye netyala
Bona: Kutheni musani ukugwetywa uMama, ojika kwikhathuni yomntwana
Ngakumbi, imfuneko yokuba umkhubeki ayenzeki nje. Abafazi abaninzi ekuqaleni bakhathalela ukhathalelo lomntwana unyaka onesiqingatha. Basenokungakwazi ukuba kwi-Kite ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu. Kukho omnye, akukho sizathu sibalulekileyo. Sithetha ngokungakhathali. Kwiintsapho zale mihla, apho ibhinqa lilolwa ngumntwana oneendonga ezine, oko akuqhelekanga.
Ngaphandle kwezizathu ezinzima zokunika unyana okanye intombi yasendlini, umama ngokwakhe unzima kakhulu ukuyitshintsha. Kunzima ukuba ahlukane nomntwana, owazalwa nje izolo. Ke, uMama kufuneka alungiselele kakuhle.
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Kunqweneleka, ngexesha lokuqalwa kwexesha leNasalnaya, okanye ngokupheleleyo ukuncancisa, okanye ishiye kuphela ukulala ebusuku. Ukuze umntwana angabufuni ubukho bukamama kule mizuzwana xa kuqinisekisiwe ayifumaneki.
Lo mfazi kufuneka aqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba uyayifuna, hayi umntwana. Iqela labantwana ayisiyomfuneko unyaka onesiqingatha. Lo mama lixesha lokuqalisa ukwenza ezinye izinto.
Kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba wenze kwesi sizathu sokubandezeleka kunye nokuziva unetyala. Ngokuchasene noko, uMama kufuneka aqiniseke kwaye azolile. Unokwenza into encinci. Bhala kwincwadana enemifanekiso kwelinye icala amacala aqinisekileyo ngokwenyani yokuba wayenazo iiyure zasimahla, kwaye kwenye-goone.
Kodwa kufuneka ibe zizinto ezithile ezinoxanduva lombuzo wokuba zinokuchaphazela njani onke amalungu osapho. Umzekelo, ukulunga, kokubini koomama, nakwabo bashiya ikhefu ukuze banyamekele umntwana izicwangciso zako ngokukhawuleza:
- Buyela kumsebenzi;
- Umvuzo;
- ukuziqonda;
- ithuba lokunxibelelana;
- ukukwazi ukutyelela umthambo;
- Ixesha lokuhamba ugqirha (oomama abancinci bahlala belibala ukulandela impilo yabo);
- ithuba lokulala kancinane;
- Ithuba lokuchitha ixesha nomyeni wakhe yedwa;
- Ixesha lokupheka nokucoca.
Olu luhlu lusezantsi. Kumacala amabi, ungabhala:
- ukunciphisa ixesha elichithwe nomntwana;
- Buyela kumsebenzi ongafunekiyo;
- ukwanda kwenani lomsebenzi wasekhaya;
- Isidingo sokuhlaziya ikhabeji efunyenweyo ukufikelela kwindawo yokusebenza, kwaye le inkcitho;
- Isidingo sokuphinda sikhokele ubomi bentlalontle (ayinguye wonke umntu ofuna ukunxibelelana nabantu osebenza nabo);
- Ukuphakamisa kwasekuqaleni ukubamba endlini nursery;
- Uhambo kwizithuthi zikawonke-wonke.
Funda kwakhona: Imidlalo elula kunye nomntwana weminyaka emibini endleleni
Umntu ngamnye uya kuba noluhlu lwayo. Kukuthetha ngokupheleleyo kuzo zonke izinto ezilungileyo kuphela kwaye unina oselula uya kuba nakho ukwenza isigqibo. Mhlawumbi intsapho iyonke iya kuba yinzuzo ukuba ihlala ikhefu ukuze inyamekele umntwana wakho.
Ukuba impumelelo yenzuzo kwaye igqibe kwelokuba i-nursery ifuneka, ke akufuneki ukuba uzikhuphe. Umntwana ufuna ukuba uve ukuzithemba okukhutshwe ngunina, hayi amathandabuzo angenasiphelo. Nje ukuba iyimfuneko, oko kuthetha ukuba iyimfuneko.
Ungayikhetha njani i-nursery kunye notitshala
Umsebenzi kamama olandelayo ungumbutho. Umfazi ngamnye unelungelo lokukhetha umbutho nabantu abaya kumnika umntwana wakhe. Kungcono ukuthintela onke amaziko aseTychool, ukuze aqhelane nabo bonke ootitshala kwaye, enze isigqibo, ukufezekisa indawo ethile. Kakhulu kuxhomekeke ekuzimiseleni kukamama kule nto.
Kubalulekile ukuba ufumane umntu okhathalelayo. Le ndoda iya kuba yeyabantwana ngegunya lesigaba sabazali. Kulungile ukuba mama:
- Ndaye ndaya kwiqela ngomntwana wosuku lokuvavanywa;
- Ndonelisiwe ngabafundisi-ntsapho, i-Decor, bantwana;
- waqinisekiswa ukuba izimvo zakhe zezehlo zecalulo zanikwe kwiqela;
- Ukuvumelana notitshala malunga nonxibelelwano rhoqo ngonxibelelwano.
Inomdla: abantwana baseRussia bantwana, efana kakhulu nootata babo
Kuphela kunomama oqinisekileyo kaKroch uya kukwazi ukufunda ukuthembana indawo entsha nabantu. Ngendlela, ayizukubakho kakhulu ukuba ndithethe izihlandlo ezininzi umntwana ahambe, olinde apho kwaye uza kuyithini imini, ukuzama ukumxelela kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Uhlengahlengiso oluthambileyo
Emva koko uhlengahlengiso luqala ngokuthe ngqo. Kuyavakala ukuba ukhetha iziko apho izinga lenziwa khona ekuthambekeni kwenkqubo.
Ukwenza oku, umama wakho kufuneka abeke ixesha elaneleyo. Bonke abantwana bahlukile: umntu kwiveki ehamba ngenkuthalo kwiqela ngaphandle kwabazali, kwaye umntu kwaye emva kweenyanga ezintathu engakwazi ukuhlala kwindawo yokutyela. Eli nqanaba losana linelungelo lokudlulisa ngenkxaso yezalamane kunye nabasebenzi beziziko, bechitha ixesha elininzi njengoko efuna.
Ukulungelelaniswa okuthambileyo kuyadlula phambi koomama kwiqela. Ekuqaleni uthatha inxaxheba kuzo zonke iintshukumo, kwaye emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa kuyayeka - ihleli nje kwikona. Umntwana uyambona kwaye afike nangaliphi na ixesha. Emva koko uzama ukushiya kuqala okwethutyana. Emva koko, ukunyuka kwesithuba. Xa umntwana esetyenziselwa, umama unokuzama ukuyizisa kwaye ihambe. Ukulungelelanisa le nkqubo ukuba utitshala kuya kufuneka aphumelele kwintengo yamalungu amatsha eqela.Iziko eliluncedo
Ukunika umntwana kwindawo yokutyela, abazali bafanele bazame ukwenza ixesha abalichitha naye njengomgangatho ophezulu kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kuya kufuneka uthathe umgaqo-ubuncinci isiqingatha seyure kunye neyure nganye yosuku umama ngowomntwana ongenamntwana. Ifowuni ngeli xesha ilunge ngakumbi ukuba ihlehlise kwaye yenza i-kroch ifuna ntoni.
Kuba umntwana akanakukhetha-ukuya kwi-nursery okanye hayi, kweminye imicimbi inokunikwa inkululeko. Umzekelo, vumela ukuba ukhethe iimpahla zakho kunye nendlela ukuya kwiziko ukuba ikwinyathelo lokufikelela.
Ukuze umntwana angaphoswa kakhulu, umama unokwazisa amasiko ezithile. Elinye lalichaziwe kwincwadi ye-Audrey Penn "Kiss eLadoshi". Nangona kukho intetho malunga nesikolo, kodwa inokutshintshwa ngokulula yindlwana. Umgca ongezantsi kukuncanca umntwana entendeni ukuze uve uthando lukamama yonke imini. Ungaza nezithethe zakho. Emva koko uMama, kwaye umntwana wakhe uya kuba lula ukusinda.