Ukuba kubudlelwane nomntu, intombazana ihlala ifuna ukwazi ukuba ucinga ntoni ngaye, nto leyo ivakalayo, njengasekho. Ngamanye amaxesha sibaleka phambili kwaye sikhuphe i-ow oyifunayo, ngenxa yoko sikhathazeka nentlungu yengqondo kwinkohliso. Kubonakala ngathi: "Waya eluthandweni," ngoku yonke into izakulunga. Kodwa akunjalo, asiqondi ukuba umntu othandayo kunye nendoda ethanda izinto ezahlukeneyo. Masicinge kunye kwaye siqonde indlela akuthanda ngayo ukukuqonda, okanye eluthandweni.
Iimpawu zendoda ethandekayo
Ngamanye amaxesha, asifuni kupapasha into, kodwa imizimba yethu kunye nezenzo ezingazi nto zihlala zikhutshwa kakhulu. Ukuqonda ukuba umntu okhethiweyo uyathandana nawe, kufuneka uhlalutye ngononophelo indlela aziphatha ngayo. Eluthando yimvakalelo enamandla kangangokuba indoda ivakalelwa kwaye ayizukuba nzima ukuyiqonda. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba uyathandana, unokuqhubeka nokukhulisa ubudlelwane ukuze le mvakalelo iguqulwe ibe yimvakalelo yokwenene.
- Okokuqala, umntu endimthandayo uzama ukunyoba uvelwano. Uyakunceda ngezipho. Ukuzisa iintyatyambo kunye nezinto ezahlukeneyo zothando oluthandayo. Ukuqhuba kwi-cafe okanye kwiresityu.
- Ndikulungele ukwenza into endingayi kutsho, ukuba ayidingi kwaye ingamdla, kuphela ukuze ibe nawe kwaye nceda. Ke ngoko, khumbula ukuba inkwenkwe yakho ithe yaqhubeka nomdla wakho ngenxa yakho. Ngaba kukulungele ukuhamba nawe kwiimovie kwaye ubukele uHleyayo, nangona ndingathanda ukubukela i-galler. Kwi-cafe oda nge-sushi, kodwa uyazi ukuba akabathandi kwaye athanda inyama. Qhuba kunye nawe apho ingakhululekanga. Ukuncama ixesha ukuba ixakeke kwaye icinyiwe izicwangciso zalo ngenxa yakho.
3. Xa lo mfo unothando, ufuna ukuba, kufutshane nawe. Hayi, ayisiyonto yokutyumlwa kwendawo yakho. Kodwa uya kuhlala engazi ecaleni kwakho. Naphi na apho ukhoyo, ukuba umgama ophakathi kwelokuba wolula isandla sakho unokuchukunyiswa ngaphambi koko, kuthetha ukuba nomdla kakhulu kuwe.
4. Indoda ihlala ithetha ngowakhe yangaphambili, ukuba bekungalunganga, oko kuthetha ukuba uyakuthelekisa naye. Okanye konke ukuzama ukukuphazamisa. Ethetha ukuba kubi - unethemba lokuba uza kuzama kuye kwaye uziphathe ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Indoda ethandekayo ayinakuze ikuthelekise nabani na. Ugxininisa kuwe, nkqu nengqondo ayizukuxoxa nawe nawaphi na amantombazana.
5. Ukuthetha ngaye kuzo zonke iindlela ezizama ukuzibonakalisa kokukhanya okuhle. Uya kuthetha ngempumelelo yakho emsebenzini. Veza ukwaneliseka kwakho kwemali. Impumelelo yeMidlalo ephezulu. Thetha malunga nezicwangciso zakho, afuna ukuzifezekisa, ukoyisa. Yiyo yonke le nto ukuba unomdla kuye kwaye uyaqonda ukuba yeyona ilungileyo.
6. Indoda emangalisayo, nokuba izama njani ukuzama ukujonga phambi kwakho, kwaye inesibindi, nokuba yeyokuncinana kube yintloni. Ukuba ujonga ngokusondeleyo, ungaphawula ukungakhuseleki ngokulula, kuba ihlala ithandabuza ukuba ichanekile ukuba ukonwabele.
Iimpawu zendoda enothando
Ngothando, saphoswa. Oku kukhanya, kodwa ngelishwa, hayi imvakalelo ende evelayo emntwini, unokuziza zombini, kwaye ihambe. Kodwa inokujika ibe yimvakalelo yokwenene. Makhe sijonge imiqondiso yendoda engathandani nje nomfazi, kwaye imthanda ngokwenene.
- Indoda enothando yindoda eya ngokuzithandela yazazela yacela ukuba ikhethe. Ke ngoko, ihlabathi labasetyhini liqhelekile. Iba yinxalenye yenyani yakhe, inxalenye yakhe. Akasafuni, fumana nje into kuye, kwaye ayikho ngokwesondo, kwaye kunokubakho ingqalelo kunye novelwano. Unqwenela ukunika, ukulungele ukwabelana naye ngobomi bakhe. Ifuna ukwenza yonke into ukuze wonwabe kuye wonwabe.
- Ukuba umfo uyathandwa ngokwenene, ukulungele ukuthatha uxanduva kuwe. Nokuba ibonakala njani. Kubalulekile ukuba zonke iingxaki zakho azigqala, kwaye kufuneka zithathe isigqibo.
- Uvakalisa amalungelo akhe. Ayoyiki ukubhengeza wonke umntu- ngumbulali wam. Ndazisa kwihlabathi lakho, wabelani abazali bam, abahlobo kunye nezihlobo. Oku kubonisa ukuba uneqhayiya ngawe kwaye naluphi na uluvo malunga nawe uzakuyeka.
- Izama ukukukhusela. Ihlawula ibaluleke kakhulu kukhuseleko lwakho. Ukuzama ukukulawula. Ixhala malunga nokutya okutyayo, ukhululekile kwaye kunxibe iimpahla ezikumgangatho ophezulu. Bukela impilo yakho.
- Ngenxa yoko, ekuqondeni kwakhe - ukuba ufuna ukuba intanda yonke ihamba kakuhle, kuya kufuneka akunike yonke into eyimfuneko. Ke ngoko, indoda enothando iya kufumana iqhekeza lamathuba eyokufumana, kwaye linike umfazi wakhe imfuneko. Akasoze azisole ngemali ukuya kwi-salon yobuhle, ejimini. Ayizukukhangela isizathu kwaye ikhala.
- Izicwangciso kwaye zikukuquka kwizicwangciso zakho. Ke ngoko, yonke into ayenzayo, kungekuphela, ndiya kuyenza, ndiya kuya apho, ndiya kuya, "kwaye siya kuphumla, siya kuya kwindawo yokutyela."
- Ibonisa ukukhathalela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ukuzama ukhathalela ukhetho lwakho kuwo onke amabakala obomi. Icebisa ukuba yenze ngcono. Ngamanye amaxesha asithandi ukuba indoda ikhulule kuwo wonke ishishini lethu, kodwa luyinto nje yothando. Naxa eqala ukukuchaka, ithi impazamo yakhe icaphukile kwaye ayifuni, ukuze wenze kwakhona.
Egcinwe
Ndiyathemba ukuba ngoku ungayiqonda le ndoda iyakuthanda, okanye xa uthandana nawe, ngoko ke ubudlelwane bufanele bube nophuhliso. Okanye umntu okufuphi, usebenzisa nje, kuba okwangoku akanawo ilungele efanelekileyo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungaphazamisi kuyo. Ukuze ungakhathazeki kwintlungu entliziyweni eyaphukileyo. Kwaye ndikunqwenelela ulonwabo, kwaye ufumane umntu okuthanda ngokwenene.
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