I-Irina ithandwayo kwii-Nineties zenkulungwane yamashumi amabini, igqityiwe
Iminyaka eli-13 nje ne-13 kwiYunivesithi yaseMoscow State. Umsebenzi wakhe waphumelela kakhulu, kodwa impilo yengqondo ishiye lukhulu.
Ayifani nomnye wonke umntu
Okwesihlandlo sokuqala, babhala nge "iphephandaba labafundisi" xa uIrina wayeneminyaka elishumi. Isibini semigangatho emifutshane kwi-TV idutyulwe. Emva koko bayeka ukukhankanya malunga nayo kumajelo eendaba, kwaye banamathele kwintombazana yengqondo. Kodwa yenziwa ukuze kuhlolwe ngcono u-Iru, kwaye ungamncedisanga ukuba ahlangabene nobunzima bakhe. Kodwa i-Academy yeSayensi inoncedo lwayo ngenguqu ukuya esikolweni ngcono.
Irina Pocalakova eneminyaka emihlanu yokufunda i-26 yejule. Esi sesinye sezibakala ezinomdla kakhulu kwimbali yakhe. Intombazana yathetha kakuhle ukusuka kwiminyaka eyi-1.5 ubudala kwaye malunga nobudala obufanayo.
I-Irina Pocalakova ayiphenduli kubuntwana bakhe, njengoko into inomsindo kwaye inesithukuthezi. Yayinguye kuphela umntwana entsatsheni. Umama wakhe wayexakekile ngombono wokwenza intombi ye-WunderIeke kwaye iphuhlise le mdibaniselwano yeendlela zayo, ezingahoyiki iimvavanyo ezahlukeneyo. Zonke izicwangciso zakhe ezikude, wafuna ukuzisebenzisa ngoncedo lomntwana wakhe.
Irina yaya kwenye yezikolo ziqhelekileyo ngaphandle kwe-moscow. Kodwa emva kweminyaka embalwa, wancomela ngamandla ukuba aguqulele kwindawo yokuzivocavoca.
Utitshala weklasi ophambili wawungawuthandi i-IRINA ixesha elide, kuba uhlala elungisa iimpazamo ezithile emva kwakhe. Ukuze intombazana yenze izixa ezikhulu zemisebenzi kwilinge lakhe, utitshala wayekhe wabeka ezimbini kwaye enyanzelwa ukuba abhale kwakhona yonke incwadana. Irina yakhala kwaye iphinde yabhalwa kwakhona ubusuku bonke. Wayesabile ngentliziyo. Emva kweli tyala, umama wayiguqulela eklasini, apho wayefundisa khona, kodwa kuphela amaHoligans nabantwana bafunda khona. Umama walumkisa intombazana kuye nabani na kubo ukuba aphathe iphazamisa kwaye athule wenza imisebenzi yakhe.
Kwiinyanga ezintandathu, le ntombazana ifikelela ngokupheleleyo inkqubo yeklasi yesithathu, emva koko kwiiveki ezimbalwa kunye nenkqubo yesine. Kwenzeka ukuba ngexesha elifutshane, uIrina wayefunda inkqubo iminyaka emithathu.
Ubudlelwane kunye nabantu ofunda nabo kwi-Irina Pocalakova bangenakuhlanganisa kwaphela. Utitshala ubemile kwimvelaphi ngokubanzi, ebiza ezinye "iitshoks ngamehlo." Emva kweli tyala, ofunda nabo balawula ubuso bakhe. Le ntombazana yayingazi ukuba ikhusela njani isikhundla sayo phambi kwabanye, kwaye abazali bakhe abazange bakuqwalasele ubuchule obufunekayo. Ukungabikho koluntu kudlale indima.
Kwelinye isikolo, ubudlelwane kunye nabantu ofunda nabo baba ngcono, kodwa kancinci. I-Irina ayizange izenze ubuhlobo nabo, ngaphandle kwento yokuba wayezama kubo. Ngenxa yoko, wayesele eqaqanjelwa. Uphononongo luye luzonwabisa olunye lwentombazana kunye nendawo yokusabela. Ekufundisiseni irina yamkela ulonwabo, kuba yayiyidunyiselwa ngayo.
Ukusuka kwicala labantwana ofunda nabo kwakukho iziqhulo nangamancinci amdaka.
Intombazana ivele ixesha elide kulawulo kwaye ikhule kakhulu kubazali. Ngexesha lobomi bomfundi onomdla, baqhubeka nokuqhuba isiphatho sakhe kwiingcango zeDyunivesithi. Kwakhona ebomini bakhe bekukho izithintelo zemibala yeenwele, utyelelo kunye neentsuku zokuzalwa.
I-Irina eyunivesithi yaseMoscow kwakufuneka ifihle iminyaka yobudala bayo ukuze abanye babe bengazi ukuba wayene-welded. Kwavulwa inyaniso emva koko le ntombazana sele ibonakale izihlobo, kwasekwa isangqa sonxibelelwano. Kodwa abazali baqhubeka nokumbeka kulawulo lwabo. Ekuphela kwento awayefuna ukubaleka ngunina notata ngokukhawuleza.
Ngo-18 uyakwazi ukuyenza. Uye wasinda waza wahlala naye nomnye umntu owayefunda naye kwindlu esusiweyo. Abazali bavakalise imbandezelo yabo. Ngasihlandlo, le ntombazana yayiyeka ukunxibelelana nabo. Kodwa ngenxa yesi sifo, uTata kwafuneka aqhubeke nobudlelwane.
Ukuphila nabazali kubi kunaye, ngaphandle kwento yokuba ubomi bokuzimela kunzima. Irina kwakufuneka ifihle intengo yemoto yakhe. Kodwa kwakuza kufuneka ndixelele ngayo kamva. Abazali baziqonda kakuhle le ntsuku.
Kwiminyaka engama-20, i-Irina yaya eCanada. Apho waba nebali lothando kakhulu. Ngaye xa wayetshata, kodwa akazange aphume. Ewe kunjalo, ithuba lokuhlala kwelinye ilizwe. Kodwa le ntombazana ayizange iqaphele ukuba ithemba liyinto enomdla. ESwitzerland, waphumelela kakhulu kunendoda yakhe yangaphambili eyayisebenza eCanada.
Kukho umbono "ukwanda kobugcisa babazali." Yiloo nto eyayibonakaliswa ngabazali bakaIrina. Ngenxa yoko, le ntombazana yayingenabuntwana obuqhelekileyo apho wayefuna khona. Xa i-nundul ikhula, banendlela ezimbini zophuhliso. Abanye bahlala kwimpumelelo yabo, bakhululekile ukuba bengama-Mega, bangabi ngabahlobo nabo - kwaye kulungile, akukho mntu uyadinge. Ngokwesiphumo, banokuba nesithukuthezi kwaye bangonwabanga. Abanye bazama ukutshintsha into, kodwa bayaqhubeka nokukhathalela.
Irina Pocalakova ibangela ubundlobongela basekhaya kumava akhe. Apha sithetha ngamadoda akhe ngaphambili. Kwakukho ezimbini zazo. Okwangoku, uIrina uqhawule umtshato, kodwa nangona kunjalo, unebudlelwane.
Imeko enomphambili wayo ayizange iphucule ixesha elide, kuba abazali baphefumlele abazali ukuba i-Irina ilungile kuphela esikolweni, kwaye nayiphi na inzame yokuqalisa ubudlelwane buza kuphela. Oku kukhokelele kwisibakala sokuba ukhethe amadoda angakhululekanga abangamhloneliyo, kodwa basinyamezela esi simo sengqondo. Iimfuneko zamadoda anoIrina kubo bonke ubomi babo baphantsi kakhulu. Kuyenzeka ukuba ulungise kuphela ngenxa yomsebenzi omde kuye.I-Irina inonyana oneminyaka eli-13 ubudala. Kwaye ungumntwana oqhelekileyo. Into kuphela edidekayo umama wakhe yingqondo eyahlukileyo. Ukuba une-Mathematics, ke uNyana ungumntu ongoncedo.
Ubudlelwane bukaIrina nonina onotshintsho. Emva kokunyanga ukuhamba kwengqondo, kwalula kakhulu kuye ukwakha imida yakho kwaye uyeke nayiphi na imizamo yokuqhekeza kunye noxinzelelo.
Ngoku i-Irina isebenze njenge-ntengiso yentengiso kunye nentloko eRussia kunye ne-qnet cis.