Ukuba ucinga ukuba onke amadoda atshintsha, ke, uphosile. Banabafazi abanjalo abafazi abangahambi kuwo, bayayifuna. Abazukutshintsha iqabane labo kuye nabani na apho, kuba ineempawu ezimangalisayo!
Hayi, ulungiselela kwaye ususe indlu, kodwa akaguqukeli kwisicaka, akenze ukumkani kwindoda yakhe. Akayi kudibana nentanda yakhe yekhaya elingenakuqondakala impahla yam ngogonyamelo, eyabonakala ngenxa yokuba wayediniwe phakathi kwesacupan kunye ne-ragus. Usebenza ngokulula kubomi bemihla ngemihla, kwaye akakhathazeki yonke into ukusuka kwintloko ukuya kwiinyawo.
Uyamthanda, uyabuxabisa, uhlonipha, kodwa akayibeki ngaphezulu kwako konke ukuphumla. Unomsebenzi, kukho abahlobo, umdlalo ozonwabisayo, ufunda kakhulu, ubukele iimovie. Indoda ayiyonjongo yobomi bodwa.
Kwaye ayisiyonto yokuba ufuna ukubetha indoda yakhe nge-boung kunye ne-chic. Ubonakala emnandi, kwabanye. Amadoda axabiseke ngakumbi abafazi abanikela ingqalelo kwabanye.
Ayisoze iphendule kakubi malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe, uphawu kunye nembonakalo. Unobuso obuhle, oye waqulunqa ngesiseko soloyiso lwayo kunye nempumelelo. Akazami ukreqile ngenxa yomntu apho, kuquka nokuhlawula umntu oyithandayo. Kwaye akakhuphisani naye, angayinyanzeli. Uyazithemba kakuhle, ngenxa yoko wakhetha umntu ofanelekileyo, nakwintsapho yakhe ubudlelwane bakhe.
Umgangatho obaluleke kakhulu kumfazi onceda impembelelo entle ekuzithobeni kwamadoda. Kukho iintsapho apho amadoda ahlala efumana imali, kodwa abafazi abayithandi. Kwaye iqabane lifuna ukubulela-ngomsebenzi wakhe, ngezaqatha, ingqalelo, uncedo. Makade enze inkunkuma, ngamanye amaxesha ahlambe izitya, kodwa angamchasi ngale nto.
Hayi ngenkani. Lo ngumphetho wolwalamano xa umntu ehamba. Ayikho malunga nomonde omkhulu kunye noxolelo olupheleleyo, kodwa malunga nokusebenza kwi-psycho-gestration yophuhliso lweemvakalelo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, i-quararels iyenzeka kuzo zonke iintsapho, kodwa kukulinda ukuba yonke into ihamba iyodwa isisidenge. Kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukuxolela, ukufuna ukubekwa ecaleni, iingxaki ngokwazo aziyi kunyamalala.
Unembono yakheLe ndoda, ewe, inokuba ingabakheli umbuzo omnye, kodwa umfazi kufuneka asoloko enendawo yawo. Akafanele enze rhoqo into ethethwa ngumntu. Hayi, uya kummamela, uya kuthathela ingqalelo umbono wakhe, kodwa uya kuhlala eyifumene eyakhe! Uyazi, unomdla kwindoda, kuba kukho ithuba lokukholisa iqabane, lamrhoxisa ecaleni kwakhe. Oku kongeza umnqweno kunye nomdla kubudlelwane.
Sinezinto ezincinci ezinazo. Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukuba ziqale ngokukhetha iqabane, kuba ubudlelwane kunye nekhawuntare yokuqala abayi kuzisa nantoni na elungileyo. Abafazi abaninzi abanokuzithemba okuphantsi boyika ukuhlala bodwa, ke bavula iintliziyo zabo kuye "njengokungcangcazela" ngokulandelayo.
Indoda, njengomfazi - abantu bokwenene. Banokuba nezimvo zabo ngobomi, ukungafezeki. Kwaye ngoko, phambi kokuxhuma ubomi bakhe nomntu, oko kufaneleka ukuba bafunde kuye, kanye ubomi naye, jonga kwi ukuba aqonde enoba isiphelo okanye ukuba kudlula nje "zothutho".
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