"Umntwana usaphela, luyintoni uhlobo lwakho lobuntu": 5 funa ukuba abazali bafumane izinto

Indawo yakho? Khohlwa!

Iimpompo zaziwa ukuba ziluncedo, kodwa i-Extrovert kuselula ukuba ngabazali. Ubuncinci kunye nenyani yokuba iintshukumo zihlala zedwa ekufuneka zikwazi ukuzalisa izixhobo, kwaye nabantwana, ngakumbi iintsana, phantse ayinakwenzeka.

Intsapho yonke inqabile ihlonitshwe ilungelo labazali-intsebenzo yokuba nesizungu, eso sizathu sokuba ihlale inesithukuthezi kunye nokuzisola. Kwaye xa umntwana esiya eKindergarte naseSikolweni, imeko inzima.

Zeziphi izinto ezinokubangela ukuba abazali babe nohlobo oluthile lomntu?

Unxibelelwano olunyanzelweyo

Ngobudala, abantwana banxibelelana noontanga, kwaye baqala ukuya kwi-kindergarten, kwisikolo, kwii-mugs kunye namacandelo. Oku kuthetha ukuba abazali abanomdla kubo banxibelelane rhoqo nabantu abohluke kakhulu - abahlobo babantwana, abazali, abafundisi, ootitshala, abantu abakwindawo yokudlala. Kwaye yintoni embi, ukuba ujoyine iingxoxo zomzali. Akukho nxibelelwano lusesikweni kwangaxeshanye-abazali kufuneka bazikhusele iimfuno zabantwana babo, baxoxe ngeengxaki zabo, ukwakha abafowunelwa njalo njalo.

Isicelo soncedo

Ukuba umntu ophelileyo ubambe wonke umntu ukuba anxibe ukuba afezekise isicelo sakhe, emva koko i-inrovent inzima ukucela uncedo kwaba bantu basondeleyo. Ubudlelwane bezihlobo kunye nabahlobo banokumangalisa. Ingxaki yahlukile-i-introversis ivale kakhulu.

Ngenxa yoko, oomama nootata kufuneka baziqwebele ukufunda indlela yokucela uncedo.

Imiba yokusombulula ngokukhawuleza

Iintshumayelo zithanda ukuthoba ngononophelo kwaye zicinga ngobuchule imibuzo kwaye zisombulule imisebenzi kwisantya sabo. Kodwa imeko kunye nosapho ihlala ifuna ukuphendula kwangoko. Oyena mkhulu kwintsapho, imisebenzi encinci yemihla ngemihla ifuna isisombululo esikhawulezayo.

Ukulwa nemvakalelo yokuziva unetyala

I-Mama-i-intspoet ihlala iphantsi kootata, kunokwenzeka ukuba uchithe ixesha yedwa. Kwaye xa idlwengulo yokuphumla elihlelwe, emva koko imvakalelo yetyala ayibonwa. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umntwana kwenye indawo ifuna umama wakhe!

Ngamanye amaxesha ukujikeleza iqalile ukumangalela abazali-ngaphakathi kwe-egosses kwi-egos, kunye nengcinga engathandekiyo yokuba ubi, umzali owoyikekayo nisondezelwe ngokuqinileyo. Kodwa ukuphumla kuyafuneka ngoomama, kunye nootata. Kwaye abazali abanomdla kubo bonke banyanzelekile ukuba inqwenela ukuba nenqweno yabo yokuhlala ihlonitshwe.

Ubomi ngentsapho enengxolo

Usapho olukhulu olunobuhlobo lulungile, kuphela izintlu ezingavunyelwanga ngengxolo engapheliyo, iGamas kunye nesiphazamiso sendawo yakho. Umntwana akakhathali nokuba luhlobo lwakho lobuntu. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana abanike abazali ukuba bathathe umhlala-phantsi nakwindlu yangasese, luhlobo luni lwendawo yokuhlala esinokuncokola? Kwaye le yeyona ngxaki inkulu yentshumayelo yomzali.

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