Ubomi kwiSikolo sokuBekisha kunye nendlu yabantwana ayiyosi. Kodwa kuyavela, uninzi lwethu alukwazi nokuba kunzima kangakanani na. Kwaye lo mbuzo awukho kwimeko entle - ukungabikho kwabazali, kodwa kwindlela ababaphatha ngayo abantwana abakumandla angenasiphelo kootitshala, ootitshala. Ukuba namandla anjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kuya kuba nzima ukugcina imbonakalo efihlakeleyo yokuziphatha, enokuthi abantu bale misebenzi kufuneka bahlulele.
Namhlanje uya kuva izinto ezininzi ezenza iyelenqe. Ezinye iindawo ezixelela i-heroine ye-gonoine yeliqede sele ivaliwe, ezinye ziyasebenza. Uninzi lwabantu "ababambeleyo" okanye bayeke. Kwaye eli bali alikho elinye okanye indalo iphela - iziganeko ezenziwa ngumnxibelelanisi, ezenzeka kwixesha ukusuka ngo-2000 ukuya ku-2014.
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Kubazali besithathiwe xa ndandimncinci kakhulu. Njengoko umntakwethu uxelele, owayemdala kunam unyaka, oomamma kunye nopopu bephantse babe nendlu. Rhoqo besisezantsi kuphela, mna kunye nodadewethu omncinci. Umzalwana uhlala ekhangelwa ngefestile ukubuza umntu wokutya. Silala yonke ihule yonke into ukuze sifudumeze, kwikona yegumbi ekubethweni kwempahla yakudala. Abazali abanakuba yiveki. Umzalwana ukhunjulwe ukuba ngelo xesha wasondla udade obisi olunomgubo kunye neembumbulu. Kweli bali, kunjalo, akukho nto ilungileyo. Ke ndiyavuya kuba sahlala siphila. Ndiyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ogqirha bacaciswa ngudadewethu rahit. Kuyabonakala ukuba omnye wabamelwane akazange athule. Sonke sibathathu sasiwa kwi-onyphanage enye. Udade wayeqala kwiqela elinye nam, emva koko wasikhulula. Iinkumbulo zokuqala zekhaya leenkedama-ndiyandenza nditye. Khange ndibone uninzi lokutya, ngakumbi inyama, yagula kwaoko. Ndikhumbula ukuba xa silila, sabelwa nje kwishawari kwaye saxhoma amanzi abandayo. Njengokuvalela, onayo i-hysteria apha, inyuse ekusebenzeni. Kwikhaya leenkedama esingakwaziyo. Iincwadi, iithoyi - yonke into yonke yayiqhelekile. Naxa ufumene isipho, wayengengakho, uyakuqonda. Umzekelo, abantu baseMelika basiza kuthi kunyaka omtsha kwaye banika abantwana abantwana abakwibhokisi enkulu entle ngeethoyi kunye nezidlo. Ubonile le bhokisi kwaye emva koko unokulibala ngayo. Abaxhasi bebengazi ukuba konke kusinxibo.
Ukufika kwethu kwikhaya leenkedama, thina kunye nodadewethu sineenwele ezinde. Abaxhasi banika i-gum eqhelekileyo ukuba bawagibise, kodwa yonke le gum ithathe. Sasebenzisa ii-lels ze-elastic ezivela kwiibhola ezinokutsha. Ndikhumbula ukuba ekupheleni kweveki le gum yakhutshwa ngeenwele. Ndikhumbula enye umzuzu ongathandekiyo. Rhoqo, ekuphumeleleni ihlafu lakho, utitshala wanika abantwana bakhe: ofuna - thatha. Mhlawumbi bendikuphela komntwana ekwenzeniyo. Abanye basaba ngovuyo kwaye bathabatha. Ndikhumbula amaxesha ambalwa ambalwa kwikhaya leenkedama. Sasinomongikazi onobubele onento ende, sasimthanda kakhulu. Kodwa ngokucacileyo, akazange akwazi ukuma lo msasazi wabantwana abancinci ohlala ehamba kuye, kwaye wagqiba kwelokuba ahambe. Utitshala kunzima kakhulu ukusebenza kwinkqubo, apho kufuneka ube nobungakanani obukhulu ukuba unokucenga kancinci phantsi komntwana, ukuzama ukubana naye. Kukholelwa ukuba umntwana uya kuhlala entanyeni. Injongo yabantu abaninzi ootitshala kwikhaya leenkedama kukuphelisa ixesha lokugqibela. Mhlawumbi ebantwaneni, basusa izikhalazo zabo ngobomi apho kukho into engasebenziyo. Ndanikwa ukuba ndingene kuvavanyo, banika imifanekiso, kwakufuneka bathambekele ngolungelelwano oluchanekileyo: indawo engenanto, emva koko i-bunny iyeza, yakha i-snowman kwaye inamafutha kunye nempumlo. Ndabekwa ngenye indlela: Kwakukho i-snowman, kuza i-bunny, yayitshabalalisa, ndatya i-carrot. Kum, ke yayiluphuhliso ngokupheleleyo lweziganeko. Ngalo lonke ixesha, xa ndandikwiinyawo zekhaya, kwakungekho thuba lokunxibelelana nodadewethu okanye umntakwethu. Ndikhumbula abazali beza kutyelela, banokonga utywala kubo. Bafunga, yintoni eza kundithatha, bathe besithandwa kakhulu. Ndayijonga yonke le nto njengokungcatsha. Ndikhumbula indlela endihlala ngayo ndilinde abazali bam, kodwa kungenxa yokuba ndibathandile kakhulu, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ndiqonda: aba kuphela kwabantu abasondeleyo endinabo.
Xa ndandineminyaka emithandathu ubudala, nditshintshelwe kwisikolo sokubhoda. Saziswa apho iimpahla zesikolo seParade, sibanike amanye amaqhosha kunye neepensile endleleni. Ndavuya kakhulu. Ndacinga: Ekugqibeleni ndiza kufunda, ndifumanise into entsha! Kodwa kwavela ukuba le bholo yayiyenzelwe abantwana ababuyiselweyo ngengqondo. Ndathunyelwa apho emva koko uvavanyo olugqithayo ludlule, lubaliwe ukuba ndibuyise ingqondo. Isikolo sokukhwela sasilungiselela abantwana ababehlala kuwo, ukuqinisekisa ukuba baya kuqhubeka bekhathazeka kwiifama ezihlangeneyo. Ke ngoko, safundiswa ukumba kwaye kunjalo, kodwa sifunde, sibhale kwaye siyigqale ibuthathaka kakhulu. Bonke abantwana abafikayo kwisikolo sokubhoda bade bakufutshane kakhulu. Kunye namakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana. Yantoni? Saxelelwa: ukuba kwakungekho zintwala. Ukuba bavele, akukho nto imbi kakhulu-mqolo kwakhona. Xa ndasiwa kwintsapho yase-Itali ehlotyeni, umama wam wase-Italiya weza ekhwankqisiwe, ebona "iNqanali". Wamangaliswa yindlela ekwanokwenzeka ukuba ingathobeli umntu. Ukubuya kwam kwelinye ilizwe, ootitshala bayithabatha yonke into eyayikwiimpawu zetyesi, zonke iimpahla zangaphandle. Ndikhumbula, saba nolwabiwo-mali lwabantwana - "bonisa uMody". Ndiphuculwe mna phesheya, iimpahla zanika enye, intombazana eguquguqukayo. Ndanxiba kwisikolo sokubhoda - uBhilahon. Kuyikhathaza kakhulu, ndazama ukubuza izinto zam, utitshala wandixelela: uya kuya-uza kuthenga nentsha. Ezo zinto zethu, ezivela phesheya, ootitshala babenendlela enjalo: sosaphule, kwaye intombi yam iya kuma ixesha elide. Omnye wabafundisi-ntsapho uhlala emkile kuthi ekhokeleni iithole - iibhere kwaye wazaliswa kwakhona ngengqokelela yentombi yakhe. Sasiphila ngolu hlobo: Yonke into ilungile - e-Itali, apha kufuneka uthobele, ithobele kwaye iphile. Ukubuyela umva, abantwana babengenakukwazi ukuziqhelanisa ixesha elide. Ndithethe ngesiTaliyane ngaphezulu kwesiRashiya. Ndiza kuthetha ngakumbi: andizange ndiqonde isiRashiya, ndandingenamdla kum. Andizange ndibizwe - i-Italian. Kwaye kwakunzima kakhulu ukuba aqhele ukutya. Ukubala nokubhala, ndafunda ukuba kwenye isikolo sokubhada, kwibakala lesithathu. Nditshintshelwe apho, xa kwakucacile ukuba kufuneka ndifunde kwisikolo esiqhelekileyo.
Sasihlala simamele kakhulu ngokuziphatha malunga nokuba abazali bethu bangamancinci, i-alkashi, iziyobisi kunye nonongogo, kwaye singabantwana babo, sahlukile. Ootishala bathi: "Abantwana bam abakhulayo bentlupheko, kwaye wondliwa, unxibe, uhambahamba esikhangele. Sasihlala sikhunjuzwa ukuba urhulumente usinika yonke into, kwaye asisayi koyisi loo nto. Ezo "ntetho" zinokuhlala imizuzu engama-40, iyure ... Ndiyaqonda ukuba utitshala owathi utitshala wakhubekisa umntu. Wayefuna okona kwabantwana bakhe kwaye akazange abone amathemba kuthi. Ndandihlala ndilila, i-psycholocrent, inkqonkqoza, iyahlukana noko kwenzeka. Ndavalwa kwigumbi elimnyama - ukuzola. NguAunti kuphela Oksana, owakhokelayo sathi, wambona umntu kum. Waqala ukundibuyisela ekhayeni lakhe, kwaye ndothuka xa ndiqonda ukuba kukho abantu abalungileyo emhlabeni. Xa ndikhutshwe esikolweni, ndaziva ndikhululekile: Ndabona ukuba ndinokwazi, yonke into, yonke into, akukho mntu wam uya kukhetha oko kwakhiwe phambi kwabaxhasi abafuna ukuncuma kwaye bathi yonke into yile kakhulu. Ndaye ndafumanisa ukuba phambi kwenkululeko, ngoku ungalawula ubomi bakho kwaye uthethe inyani. Umama wakhonza entolongweni ngenxa yokuhlawula intlawulo ye-alisison, utshatile kwaye wazala omnye umntwana. Ndayeka ukunxibelelana nezihlobo-mama nomninawa. Udade wabaleka e-Itali, wagxila. Ngayo, ngamanye amaxesha siyasixhasa umfowunelwa. Ngoku ndihlala eMinsk nomntwana wam omncinci. Ndinomsebenzi ozinzileyo, kodwa ndisekufumaneni - ndicinga ngendlela yokufumana ngaphezulu. Kwixesha elizayo, ndingathanda ukuvula iziko lemfundo ukufundisa abantwana abavela kwizikolo eziklasi ezinokubanceda ebomini.
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