Ungasisebenzisa njani uthungelwano lwezentlalo ukomeleza ubudlelwane nabantwana kwaye ungayidluli intonga-ungayidlali kwi "yebhodi yakho" kwaye ungabinamntu? Ixesha liye labonisa lo mbandela kwaye wafumana impendulo emfutshane kuye: ngothando kunye nomdla.
Uninzi lwabazali luqinisekile ukuba bayabazi kakuhle abantwana babo, kodwa bahlala belahlekelwa ngaxeshanye ukukhohlisa ngaxeshanye ngokufika kwamaphepha omntwana kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo. Kwi-Intanethi, umntwana wasekhaya ozolileyo ubonakala eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Yithi, Itshantliziyo. Okanye umculo ocacileyo kakhulu. Okanye ... Ngokubanzi, umntu omdala ahlela ukuba akalunganga ngomsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya-kodwa uluntu kuphela ukuba ufunde kwaye ngandlela ngandlela ngandlel 'ithile unokunxibelelana naye.
Ndiya kuhlala ndichasene!Kukho udidi lwabazali abangalungelanga ukunyamezela le nto. Kubo, ingxaki iba kukungangqinelani kwemifanekiso: 'Ichanekile ", kwaye enye ayiphenduli kumbono wawo womntwana ogqibeleleyo. "Ilungisa" imeko yeyona ndlela isetyenziswayo ngohlobo lwezithintelo ezingqongqo, imiyalelo, izithintelo-yintoni engabaphazamisi ubomi babo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kwingxabano.
Yintoni omele uyenze umzali ojonge kwinethiwekhi yentlalo ye-chad kwaye wayefuna ukunkqonkqoza inqindi etafileni? Okokuqala, yeka ngokukhawuleza ukufunda i-akhawunti yomntwana, ukuze ingaphumi ngakumbi. Emva koko thatha ikhefu lokubonisana nogqirha wezengqondo okanye ukucingisisa ezizimeleyo ngesihloko "Yintoni kanye kanye ndinomsindo wokuba kutheni ndingakwazi ukuyithatha." Kwaye emva koko ubuyela kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo. Ngentloko ebandayo kunye nokuqonda: Ewe, imifanekiso mibini - kodwa lo ngulowo mntu, umntwana wam. Akanyanzelekanga ukuba andithande kuzo zonke iimeko zobomi, kodwa ndiyamthanda.
Umntu omdala, owayebambelele kwimibhalo yeWatchward Walld kwiminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu eyadlulayo ("Besingabikho ngaphambili! Ndinento yokwenza ngayo? "). Oku akuthethi ukuba abazali kufuneka bakhawuleze baye kwelinye icala, ukuqala ngaphandle kwemeko yokwahlula umdla womcharho kwaye babalandele-i-avtoeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeling ukumamela i-DOPECE.
Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana avakalelwe njengezalamane zokhuseleko- kwaye le ngxelo ilungele ubomi benene kwaye kwi-intanethi.
Awunakho ukukhathalela: Ungabakhusela njani abantwana kwi-Intanethi kwaye ungayigqithisi
Eyona nto iphambili kwimvakalelo yokhuseleko ilele ngokungathamshanga kwabazali ngabazali - kwaye ukuthembana okunye kuzelwe apha. Oko ke kukuqinisekisa ukuba kuyo nayiphi na imeko engeyiyo, umntwana ngoncedo kunye nenkxaso iya kubhenela kwizihlobo.
Ungubani?Umzali, okwazi ukuthatha iimbonakalo zomntu wakhe kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo, unokwenza inyathelo elikhulu elilandelayo: Zama ukuthandabuza ukubuza umntwana ngezi zinto. Kuyinto efuna ukwazi ukuba icinyiwe ngumnqweno onyanisekileyo wokuqonda ingcinga kunye nenkuthazo yomntwana.
Isicelo esinobuchule esinobuhlobo bokuxela, zeziphi iimpawu ezitsala umntwana umntwana kwi-blogger yakhe okanye umculi wakhe: Ukuba umntwana wabona ukuba, ngokuzithandela wabelana ngokujonga kwakhe oku. Kwaye kwangaxeshanye sixela ukuba yintoni "crue", "ingozi", "isitayile", kwaye indlela eyahluke ngayo ukuba iqondakale isinxibelelanisi sakudala (i-spoiler). Ngenxa yoko, umntu omdala uya kuba lucace gca kwaye "onokuthi jikelele", kwaye iWorldvelive Yokuqaqamba komntwana, kunye neengxoxo zakhe nabahlobo babo abajongile kubahlobo.
Ixabiso lenkcubeko kunye nentlalontle ye-phenomena ayinakulinganiswa ngumgca othile wenjongo yomlingo. Ngaba uyafuna? Kodwa unokuba nemihlali ngomntwana ukuba kukho into esemhlabeni eyenza bonwabe.
Ngubani umntu ofuna ukuba ngubani? Imisebenzi emi-5 yeminyaka enokwenziwa esikolweni
Umdla ..."Ukuhamba ezithendeni" kumntwana obhaliselwe kwiiwebhusayithi zentlalo (bhaliso lokufunda, jonga iiprofayili zabahlobo, abadlali abanomdla njalo njalo) ngokungathi kunjalo Wonke umntwana onomdla uya kuba nesabelo kuye. Ukuba ufuna. Abazali bangcono bachitha ixesha lokufumana into eyonwabisayo kumnatha.
I-Twitter kunye ne-Instagram zibonakala ngathi zininzi zabantu abadala abavela kuma-35 nabedala, kunye nezi ndawo, yonke into, ngokubanzi, ziyaqondakala. ETiktok, isimo sengqondo sihlaziya ngakumbi - ekuqaleni kubonakala ngathi kukho kuphela umdaniso ongaqhelekanga.
Ngapha koko, ukongeza kumxholo wokuzonwabisa kwi-tiktok, egcwele iirandi zentlalo kunye neevidiyo zemfundo (umzekelo, iindlela zokupheka ngamanyathelo), kwaye iminyaka emininzi incinci.
Kungangcono ukuba izifundo zenziwe: Iintombi ezi-5 kunzima ukwamkela abazali
Kwilizwi, nika ithuba le-ticookha! Yifake kwaye ulungiselele iintsuku ezimbalwa ukucinezela "ukungakhathali" kwi-rollers ongayithandiyo (leyo, ekuqaleni i-algorithm ijongile kakhulu Ukujonga i-tiktok ngovuyo olunyanisekileyo.
Ukudibana okunoxolo kuyo nayiphi na inethiwekhi yoluntu ivumela imeko eyongezelelweyo jikelele ukuze ufumane umntu omdala nomntwana. Ulwazi ngemigaqo kunye nemithetho yesicelo yenza ukuba kwenzeke ukuba bakwazi ukwabelana ngomxholo onomdla ngaphandle kwemiyalelo eyongezelelweyo. Iyenza lula ukunxibelelana kwaye ikhumbele!
Awukhathali? .."Andifuni ukufotwa!" "Yiza, wena, wena, ixesha elinye, cofa-Nanko umakhulu uya konwaba! Ewe, uncume! " Isakhelo senziwe, umntwana uxinezelekile sisibakala sokuba akazange aviwe ("Andibalulekanga!"), Utat'omkhulu unexhala lokuba umzukulwana okanye umzukulwana ajongeka. Le yeyona meko yesiqhelo ibonisa indlela ebonisa ukuba abantu abadala bafika njani kwimida yomntwana kwaye ababoni kwanto ekhethekileyo ngayo.
Kwi-Intanethi, eli bali lifumana ukuqhubeka. Uninzi lwabazali, ukuhlala ixesha elide kwinethiwekhi yoluntu njenge "vkontakte", facebook, i-facebook, i-Instagram ihlala ithumela iifoto zabantwana babo kwiprofayili. Kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu ocela abantwana bayavuma. "Ukwenzela ntoni? Mntwana wam yile ndiyifunayo, ndiyayenza! " -Ingcinga iyaqondakala, kodwa ...
Ungazama ngenye indlela: ungathathi imifanekiso yomntwana, ukuba uyala, mcele imvume yokupapasha imizobo kwaye inokuthi ilungelelaniswe kwimifanekiso ethile. Ukuba uyaziqhelanisa nobudala, umntwana unawo amathuba amaninzi ukukhula enemida esempilweni neyomeleleyo. Kodwa akuphela ixesha lokuqalisa ukwenza njalo u-10, kwaye nge-15, nangama-25, nangama-30.
Imibuzo enjalo ayisiyonkcitho yexesha, kodwa isiginali: Kubalulekile kum ukuba uziva, kwaye ndifuna ukuba ukhululeke. Kunye nezitena ezongezelelweyo ukomeleza ubudlelwane.
Badiniwe: Ngaba luhlobo luni lomntwana otyhafileyo kunye nendlela yokujongana naye
Kuyilo lwenqaku lalisetyenziswa iifoto ezivela kwifovisi yendawo.