"Kutheni kwi-Gendergarte umntwana eziphatha kakuhle, kwaye esekhaya - kubi?" -Iziqwengana zeDadigogical

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Baqaphela ukuba abantwana babo baziphethe kakuhle kwi-kindergarten, kwaye ekhaya akukho nto. Kwi-Kindergarten Kidsgarten

, susa iithoyi emva kwakho, ukuze uzitye kwaye uzithumeze kwaye ungene kwiphupha lemihla ngemihla. Ekhaya, umntwana uthatha ingqalelo kuye, iincwadi, oonodoli kunye neemoto zisasazeke kuwo wonke indawo, kwaye i-kroch yakhwaza, ayikho. Ootitshala bathi abakhweli bangabasebenzi bajonga imida evumelekileyo. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana aqonde ukuba uMama noTata baya kumthanda, ngaphandle kokuziphatha, kwaye oku kuyinyani. Kodwa, kwangaxeshanye,

Ilungele ukwabelana ngamaqhinga ezesithoba ekhaya kwaye ekhaya umntwana aziphathe kakuhle.

Phuhlisa i-Autophuy emntwaneni

Abantwana abaneminyaka emi-3-4 ubudala, kunjalo, abanakwenza yonke into ngokuzimeleyo, ngoko badinga uncedo lwabantu abadala. Kodwa sele bekwazile ukuhlanganisa iithowu, zolula ibhulukhwe, bahlambe izandla kwaye batye ngokwabo. Abazali bafanele bancede ukukhula ukuzimela kude nomntwana, kwaye bangangxami ukwenza yonke into ngaxeshanye. Ukuba i-kroch ifuna ukuhlamba izitya, ungavumeli oko, ngaphandle kwento yokuba kuya kufuneka uhlambe imigangatho ekhitshini kwaye ipompo iipleyiti. Nika ithuba kumntwana ukubonisa inkululeko, indumiso ngoncedo, kwaye ke umntu omncinci akasayi kuze ahlale kwaye abonise ukuba abazali bamenzele.

Kholwa kubantwana bakho

"Akayi kusebenza ukuba angazikhupheli amaqhosha kwibhlawu, engcono ndiza kuyenza," ucinga ukuba umntwana uyeke ukwenza into yedwa. Abazali abakholelwa kubantwana babo, nangona kwi-kindergarten batshintsha iimpahla, bahlambe isithsaba ngesepha, galela amanzi abe yindebe. Ukuba umama okanye utata akakholelwa ukuba ii-crumbs ziya kuphumelela, awufuni ukuzama. Kwelinye icala, ukuba abazali baphakamisa ulindele, umntwana uyakufika ukuze angqinelane nayo. Kuyimfuneko kuphela ukuba nendumiso, iingcaciso, umonde. Akukho tyala alinakukwazi ukuthwala umntwana, ukugxeka nokufuna, kungenjalo akukho nto iya kusebenza.

Sukubuyisa abantwana

Ukuba umntwana ubeke iithoyi kwishesi ngokubona kwakhe, akufuneki ukuba ungxame ukuba alungelelanise ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ukuba umntwana waliginya izinto zayo, ungazeki njengoko kufuneka. Ngokuchasene noko, kuya kufuneka udumise umntwana ukuze azukise inkululeko kwaye ungabonisi ukuba wenza into engeyiyo endithanda ngayo. Ngokwemvelo, izitya ezihlanjwa ngumntwana, kuya kufuneka zishukume, kodwa kufuneka zenze ukuba umntwana akaqapheli. Ngaphandle koko, uya kukhetha nawuphi na umnqweno wokuzimela geqe.

Vumela ithuba lokuthatha isigqibo sakho

Umntwana uqokelela umyili, kwaye apha ukhawuleze ukunceda ukuba ufumane inqaba okanye indlu ngokukhawuleza. Sukwenza oku. Vumela i-krocke ngokwakhe ithathe isigqibo malunga nesakhiwo sakhe esiya kujonga kwiinkcukacha. Abazali bafuna yonke into ukuba isebenze ngokugqibeleleyo, ngokokubona kwabo. Kodwa umntwana ungumntu ozimeleyo, kwaye unelungelo lokuthatha isigqibo sakhe.

Umntwana makancedise endlwini

Makhe siyityumze ii-odolo zeziqhelo, umzekelo, ziya kunkcenkceshesa iintyatyambo, zisule uthuli, galela ukutya kwesilwanyana. Imisebenzi kuphela kufuneka ibe yinyani, kuba umntwana ubalulekile ukuba uziva uyimfuneko kwaye uluncedo. Masenze isabelo anokukwenza, emva koko uya kuzonwabisa.

Khuthaza intsebenziswano

Uninzi lwabazali luyadideka, njengoko utitshala unokuhlala phantsi abantwana abangama-20 etafileni, kwaye kwangaxeshanye bonke bazola ngohlobo oluthile lwendlela. Ukwenza oku, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukulungiselela abantwana kunye nokukhulisa imvakalelo yokusebenzisana kuzo. Ungayenza njani?

1. Khawuleza udumise. Abantwana kufuneka basoloko bedumisa, kodwa ngakumbi abo bangakuthandiyo ekunyanzelweni.
2. Namathela inkqubo yosuku. Kwi-Kindergarten, ipeyintiwe ngokucacileyo imini yonke, kwaye kuba abafundi kube lula ukuziqhelanisa neshedyuli kwaye bayenza. Ekhaya, ewe, akufanele ulandele ngqo kulawulo, kodwa kufuneka kubekho imigaqo ethile ukuba onke amalungu osapho awenziwa ngokungqongqo. Umzekelo, phambi kwesidlo sakusasa, zonke iibhedi zizaliswe kwaye zihlanjwe, iingalo zihlanjwe ngesepha, amazinyo ahlanjululwe ngaphambi kokulala, emva koko abazali bafunda ibali. Ukuba ulandela imigaqo emiselweyo, emva kwexesha elithile umntwana uya kubaqhuba ngaphandle kwe-whims kunye ne-hysterics.
3. Sebenzisa umdlalo. Naziphi na ii-odolo zeKroch ziya kwenziwa ngolonwabo ukuba usebenzisa ifom yomdlalo. Umzekelo, usana luyala ukunxiba egadini. Mnike ukuba adlale uluhlu lwetywina aze anyuke ngomfanekiso wefashoni.
4. Lumkisa ngezenzo zakho. Rhoqo abazali baqaphela ukuba umntwana efanekisela i-hysteria xa exelelwa ukuba lixesha lokucima iikhathuni kwaye ulale. Yenzeka ngenxa yokuba umntwana unophawu olubi. Awukhange ulumkisile kwangaphambili malunga nento eza kuyenza, kwaye i-corcha yayingakulungeli. Kwi-Kindergarten, ootitshala bayalumkiswa kwimizuzu embalwa ukuba kufuneka uyeke umdlalo kwaye uye kubuthongo. Ekhaya, kufuneka, kufuneka uthi ngemizuzu emi-5 ukuya kweli-10: "Usenalo ixesha lokugqiba umdlalo, kwaye ke siyakulunga ukulala." Ungaqala iwotshi yealam kangangemizuzu emi-5, kwaye xa ihluma, ixesha elibekiweyo.
5. Khuthaza kuphela ngayo nayiphi na impumelelo. Ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha ukuthenga into yokudlala okanye iilekese zento yokuba umntwana ehlambulula amazinyo akhe okanye aqokelele izinto zakhe, akayi kusiqonda isizathu sokuba enze ngokwenene. Sebenzisa uMvuzo kuphela xa umntwana ephulukene nento, umzekelo, wafunda ukubopha amabala.
6. Nika ukhetho. Xa i-crumb iyala isidlo sangokuhlwa, umnike ukhetho lwezitya ezininzi. Ukuba umntwana ngokwakhe wenza ukhetho, uya kuhlala etafileni, adle isitya esinyuliweyo. Umzekelo, umntwana akafuni kunxiba. Mnike ukuba akhethe ukhetho ezimbalwa lweempahla, kwaye inkqubo yokunxiba ikhawulezisiwe.
7. Fundisa ukuzidlalela. Awudingi usuku ixesha elide uhlale ecaleni komxhasi oPhakamileyo kwaye uyazonwabisa. Umntwana kufuneka abe nakho ukudlala ngokuzimeleyo. Nikeza ukhetho ezimbalwa: Ukusasaza i-plasticline, iipensile, i-albhamu, iipeyinti, iimoto, oonodoli. Ewe kunjalo, nabazali kufuneka bathathe inxaxheba kumdlalo womdlalo, kodwa akufuneki bakwenze. Ukuba umntwana uqala ukuphoswa, kuba umama ulungiselela isidlo sasemini kwaye akanakumnika ixesha, ngokwakhe uya kucinga ngokuzonwabisa.
8. Sukuthatha zonke iingxaki zomntwana. Ukuba ungquzulwano phakathi komntwana wakho kunye nomnye umntwana kukho imbambano phakathi komntwana wakho kunye nomnye umntwana, akuyomfuneko ukuba ungxame ukuya kuhlangulo. Nika ixesha lokuba abantwana baqonde ingxaki ngokuzimeleyo kwaye bafumane indlela yokuphuma kwingxabano.

Indlela Yokufundisa Uqeqesho

Awudingi ukubeka umntwana kwi-engile okanye uphakamise izwi lakho ukuba i-crumb ayimameli. Ootitshala abakwi-Endergartens bayakwazi ukufundisa ukuba uqeqesho ngaphandle kohlwaywa kakhulu. Bayenza njani?

1. Phazamisa. Umntwana ukrokrela iithoyi, ukunkcenkceshela ikati ukusuka ekunkcenkcesheni kungakwazi okanye ukutsiba ebhedini? Mnike ukuba adlale fihla aze afune, adanise okanye aphume phandle. Ukuba utshintsha ingqalelo yefihlakalo kumsebenzi onomdla ngakumbi, uvuyela uvuyo iqhenqa lakhe kwaye uza kuthatha into kwabanye.
2. Fumana ithuba lokulungisa iimpazamo. UCroha wapeyinta itafile yakhe ngemakisha? Endaweni yokukhwaza, mnike ezandleni zakhe, kwaye umntwana makeyicime imizobo yakhe. Ukuba, kwindawo yokudlala, unyana okanye intombi itshabalalisa iSantla Tyoker, ababezakhiwe abanye abantwana, banike umntwana wabo ukuba baphinde bakhe.
3. I-punch ngexesha lokungalunganga. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokumohlwaya umntwana, kwenze kwangoko kwakamsinya nje emva kokuba enze into. Akudingeki ukuba uhlehlise incoko engqongqo yexesha elingenammiselo, kuba abantwana balibaleka ngokukhawuleza malunga neziganeko kwaye banokungayiqondi. Umzekelo, uKroca ngokwakhe waziphathe ngoLwesithathu, kwaye urhoxisile iphulo kwi-cafe ngempelaveki. Umntwana akazukwenza izigqibo kwaye ukhathazeke kuphela.