Rhoqo, abantu badityaniswa ngethamsanqa elibi. Njengobomi obunye, kwaye ndinomgubo. Bakhalaza ngekamva, baphulukane nokholo kuwe, kwikamva labo eliqaqambileyo kwaye bayeke ukuphupha. Wonke umntu unengxaki yokuphoxeka. Nangona kunjalo, ixesha eliphilisiweyo, kwaye kwakhona ngamaphupha amnandi amaphupha amnandi aphupha umoya aphupha.
Ungayichaza njani eyaneleyo iphupha lakho lokukrokra? Ungawenza njani umnqweno ukuze ucwangciselwe, endaweni yokuba uyenzele ubomi obulandelayo, kummelwane, unomhlobo, akunjalo?
Okokuqala, kuphephe ukudembisa. Njengasehlayo.
Nje ukuba umntu ovuthuzayo ahlala kwigumbi elinomama ongaboniyo, ixesha elide elithandaza kuThixo. Ekugqibeleni, wadalwa nguThixo wathi: Ewe, ndiza kukunceda, ndiza kumfumana umnqweno omnye. Umdinga, ungacingi: - Enkosi, Nkosi! Umnqweno wam kuphela kukuba umama wam ongathandekiyo abone ukuba umfazi wam obekwe entanyeni yendodakazi yam ethandekayo idayara yedayini epapa kwichibi lemihle enkulu kwisiqithi sakhe esomeleleyo esiqithini!Ke ayisebenzi. Nokuba luthando, okanye ubutyebi, okanye impilo, okanye ukuphunyezwa kokuyila. Khetha into enye ukuqala. Ukuphumla kuya kuqinisekisa. Njengoko besitsho, "uKogok wabambelela, intaka yonke yenyama."
Umgaqo wokuqala: Yakha umnqweno ngakumbi kakhulu.
Uxhonywa kangakanani kwigram? Ukuba unqwenela ukuphuculwa kwezempilo, ke uziva njani ukuba umnqweno wakho uzaliseke? Unyamalala entloko kwaye unqunyulwe esiswini, uyeke ukuthuthuzela i-Insomnia, uvuka yonke imihla kwimeko elungileyo, iyacaphukisa, ukwehla kuya kuthatha indawo yokuma kwamandla?
Luluphi uphuculo owenza omeleza i-psychoanalyst yakho, indalo, uMdali, ingelosi yase-Santa, i-Santa Claus okanye Domyanka Kuzka?
Nokuba ungatsalela ntoni na uncedo. Imisonto emsi, nokuba ngubani nento oyikholelwayo. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba umnqweno wakho wokwenziwa ngokungagungqiyo kwaye ukhokelwe ngokuthe chu.
Enye inqaku elibalulekileyo. Umnqweno wakho ufanele ukukhathazeka kuphela ngaphandle kokuphazamisa imida yabo. Oko kukuthi, endaweni yokugculela "endiyifunayo, le ntombi ide yatshata," kuya kuphinda usebenzele ukwenziwa oko: "Ndonwabile ngokuphumelela kwentombi yakho kunye nomtshato wakhe wonwabile."
Kwaye umgaqo wesibini: Umnqweno ungcono ukwenza ngokungathi sele uzalisekile. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo kwinyaniso yakhe.
Kuba kuphela into oyikholelwayo kwinto oyikholelwayo. Kholwa ngokuqinisekileyo. Ngemeko. I-100%.
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