Bavela phi abantwana kwaye bakoyikisa njani?
Uxinzelelo olungapheliyo yingxaki yabazali abaninzi. Kodwa izifundo zibonisile ukuba abantwana bajamelana nale ngxaki rhoqo njengabantu abadala, ngakumbi ngexesha elinzima, njengangoku.
Ingxelo yeZiko loPhando lwaseMelika leMpilo yaBantwana ichaza uxinzelelo olungapheliyo luhlangabezana neepesenti ezili-10 zabantwana abaneminyaka emi-3 ukuya kweli-17. Iingxaki zempilo ezinxulumene noxinzelelo ziyaqwalaselwa kwiipesenti ezingama-35 zabantwana eUnited States. Izikhombisi zikhule ngokubonakalayo kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo.
Uxinzelelo olungapheliyo
Esona sizathu siphambili soxinzelelo olungapheliyo ebantwaneni yimeko yosapho. Kwangelo xesha, abazali bahlala bengakrokrela ukuba abantwana babo badlula kwiimvavanyo ezibi ngengqondo.
Esinye isizathu kukulimala koontanga, ngakumbi nge-cyberbling. Ukuba ngexesha apho unxibelelwano lwe-Intanethi aluzange luphuhliswe ngamandla, abantwana banokuphumla kwasekhaya ekhaya, ngoku akazange ayeke. Umntwana uhlala unexesha elide, kuba nangaliphi na ixesha umntu anokubhala ingxelo engathandekiyo ngaye kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo okanye ukuthumelela ifoto ngefoto yakhe.
Ukwanda komthwalo wokufunda kukwazi nokukhokelela ekubonakalisweni koxinzelelo. Abantu besikolo bahlangabezana ngenxa yeemviwo, ulawulo, ukwamkelwa kwiiyunivesithi nakwiikholeji.
Uxinzelelo olungapheliyo luvakalisa ukuncipha, ukuphazamiseka, ukubekwa ngequbuliso, isivusi esihlala sihleli okanye ukubonakaliswa komzimba, njenge-headbues kunye nentlungu yemisipha.
Ungamnceda njani umntwana wakho?
Ukuba uxinzelelo emntwaneni uthathe umlinganiswa obalulekileyo, ke kufanelekile ukubonisana nogqirha. Ingcali kuphela yengcali inokubeka isifo esichanekileyo. Ukuba umntwana, masithi, hayi uxinzelelo, kwaye uxinzelelo, ngoko asiyi kunceda ngengcebiso, kuba xa uxinzelelo, umntu ugqibile iinkqubo ze-bichemical.
Abazali banokumnceda umntwana akwazi ukujamelana noxinzelelo oluncinci ngeendlela ezilula. Yibukele ukuxhathisa ngokwaneleyo kwaye uyondliwe. Sika naye ixesha elingakumbi kwiiklasi ezidibeneyo kwaye uqiniseke ukuba uyaqonda ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Cacisela umntwana indlela yokuhlangabezana noxinzelelo. Ukuba umntwana mncinci, uyakufunda iincwadi zabantwana kwesi sihloko kwaye uxoxe kunye naye indlela yokujongana neemvakalelo ezingalunganga, umzekelo wamagorha oncwadi. Mncede aphuhlise izinto zoxinzelelo ngokwayo.
Okokugqibela, ungalibali ukubonisa uthando lwakho ngomntwana wakho. Mazise-nantoni na eyenzekayo, uMama noTata baya kuhlala bexhasa.
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