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Umsebenzisi wesizalo we-reddit ngegama lesidlaliso uZaszka ekupheleni kukaFebruwari wenza ukuba i-sarah yakhe. Ixesha elide badibana kwibhentshi yesikolo. Lo ndoda yayiqinisekile ukuba olu luthando lobomi bakhe. Ulwalamano lwabo lunokubizwa ngokuba lugqibelele, kodwa abazali bomyeni babengavumi ukuzikhethela kwakhe. Umama notata baqinisekile ukuba unokufumana ibhendi ngcono.
Lo mfo akathandeki ukuba abazali abayamkeli intombazana yakhe
Ukulungiselela umtshato, le ntombazana yabuza i-Groom kamama, ukupheka imihlobiso yeholo. Kwangelo xesha laloo xesha longeze ukuba lo ngumsebenzi wokuzithandela, kuba le nkqubo ngokwayo ixabisa kakhulu kwaye inzima. Nangona kunjalo, isicelo sentombazana yabangela ingqumbo yomkhwekazi wexesha elizayo.
Umama wasikhukulisa, wathi akukho nto iyenzayo. Ngapha koko, waqala wasingcikiva. Batsho ukuba asikhathali ngaye, ngenxa yoko ayikhathali indlela eya kudlula ngayo. USara wayecaphukile emva kwala mazwi.
Lo mfo, wayekhe wafunda oko kwenzekayo, ngoko nangoko wabizwa ngokuba nguMama. Wayenomsindo omkhulu waza wakhwaza. Kodwa umama akazange achebe kwaye atyhola umolokazana wento yokuba wamkhumbula xa efuna.
Njengoko bendingazami ukuthoba imeko yangoku kwaye ndibuze mama ukuba axolise kumtshakazi wam, wala ngokupheleleyo. Ke ngoko, ndamxelela ukuba akakwazi ukuza kumtshato konke konke.
Ndiyazibuza: indlela yokwenza abahlobo kunye nomkhwenyana: Iingcebiso ezintlanu eziluncedo zoMkhwekazi
Emva kwento eyenzeka kuZaszka, ndabhala ukuba kwenzeka utata wam, ukuba, ukuba uyafuna, anokuza kumtshato. Nangona kunjalo, umbono onjalo wawungekho.
Ewe, uSara wayiva inkxaso yam kwaye wayevuya kuba ndamkhusela. Kwelinye icala, ngoku ndaba lutshaba lwazo zonke izalamane.
Ngokutsho kwabasebenzisi benethiwekhi, uZaszka wangena ngokungachanekanga. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuwela umama kuluhlu lweendwendwe akwamkelekanga. Bakholelwa ukuba kusafuneka athethe naye kwaye afumane ukulalanisa. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, isengumtshato wonyana, hayi iholide eqhelekileyo.