Ungathetha njani ngokuzithemba esidlangalaleni: Iindlela ezi-6

Umqeqeshi, unjingalwazi kunye nombhali we-melody ye-golody fiction uqinisekanga ukuba ungazinzisi ukoyika iintetho, kodwa uyayamkela kwaye wenze ngokufanelekileyo

Uya kufumana intlanganiso entsha emsebenzini, kwaye yona ithe yakrwada kuwe. Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuya phambili, kubalulekile ukuba sithembele esidlangalaleni.

Injongo enjalo yayimiswe ngomnye wabathengi bam, eLanison, xa saqala ukusebenza naye. Uze kum nombuzo: "Kutheni le nto ndinoloyiko phambi kwentetho?"

U-Ellison wayeyingcali enamava kwicandelo lokukhuseleka kwe-cyber, kwaye amava akhe ayexatyiswa kakhulu kangangokuba wakhuliswa eofisinisweni.

Isikhundla esitsha sasibangela umdla kwaye savulwa amathuba amakhulu omsebenzi wakhe. Kodwa oko wayenako ukuhlala enembonakalo ngakumbi, kwabangela ukuba nenkxalabo engathethekiyo. Uloyiko lokudlala kwiConcurations luyeyona nto. Xa wayefuna ukuthetha into, eLllison Chapel, ecinga impendulo yakudala kwaye ekugqibeleni wancuma umntu ongangqinelani.

Emva koko, waziqhekeza waziva ungumntu ongumntu ongumntu ongabasebenzi, akakwazi ukuzalisekisa umsebenzi wakhe. Wayefuna kakhulu ukuba neentembelo ezizithemba ngakumbi kwaye angaphantsi kweentlanganiso kwaye emsebenzini uphela.

Ngaba uyalazi ibali lika-Elson? Ukuba kunjalo, awuwedwa.

Abasebenzi abanobuthathaka ezintlanganisweni

Ubunzima obuthathaka bangabasebenzi abasebenza kakuhle kakhulu abakhathazekileyo kwaye baziva yonke into yonke. Abantu abanjalo bamalunga ne-15-20%. Iimeko eziqhelekileyo zomsebenzi ezibangela uxinzelelo oluphakathi kumntu ophakathi unokusilela ukusebenza, ngakumbi xa ulayishwa ngaphezulu. Ukukwazi ukwenza inkqubo ngononophelo ulwazi luveza amathuba amaninzi kunye neetalente. Kodwa ikwanokwanda kokufumana uxinzelelo kunye notyekelo lokuphendula ngokweemvakalelo, ngakumbi xa kunxulunyaniswa nezigwebo okanye uqikelelo kwabanye abantu (umzekelo, kwintlanganiso okanye ngexesha lokufowuna kwenkomfa okanye ngexesha lokufowuna kwenkomfa okanye ngexesha lokufowuna kwenkomfa okanye ngexesha lokufowuna kwenkomfa.

Unovelwano kangakanani?

Unokubangelwa ziindlela ezibuthathaka, ukuba uyavumelana nazo uninzi lwezi ngxelo zilandelayo:

• Ndiziva ndinemvakalelo ezinzulu nezinobunkunkqele
• Ndinomnqweno oqinileyo wokuba "ndigqithe ukulindela" kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bam
• Ndinomgxeki wangaphakathi osebenza ngaphandle kweentsuku
• Ndinobubele, ndinemfesane kwaye ndinovelwano nabanye
• Ndihlala ndibeka iimfuno zabanye abantu ngaphezulu kwakho
• Ndinika ngokulula uxinzelelo
• Andikwazi "ukukhubaza" ingqondo, kuba ihlala izaliswe ziingcinga
• Ndifumana impendulo eqinileyo yeemvakalelo
• Ndiziva ndikhathazekile xa ndifumanisa ukuba ukumangala okanye ndiyayazi into oyibukeleyo okanye ndiphonononge
• Ndibambelela kwimigangatho ephezulu kwaye ndizigxeka ngokungqongqo ukuba ndenze iimpazamo
• Ndihlala ndiqinisekile kwaye ndikhulula ngokungacingi
• Ndiyamkela ingxelo kunye nokugxekwa kwentliziyo

Ubunzima obuthathaka akunzima ukufumana iintlanganiso, kuba:

• Uthanda ukumamela ezinye izimvo zabantu
• Ukhetha ukujonga kwaye uqonde ukuba kwenzeka ntoni ngaphambi kokuchaza uluvo lwakho.
• Unoxanduva oluphakamileyo loxanduva, ukuze ubonise imbeko kwaye uqonde ezinkokeli
• Unomdla wokuthintela, okuthetha ukuba oogxa bobuchule obunokwenzeka banokulawula ingxoxo
• Ulahlekile ngokulula kwaye unganikela phantsi phantsi koxinzelelo.
• Uyakwazi ukucinga nzulu kwaye ubone onke amacala emo meko ngamanye amaxesha ngamanye amaxesha antywilise kwimifanekiso enzulu kakhulu
• Unobuthathaka kwaye unexhala lokuba abanye bacinga ntoni ngawe.

Izicwangciso zentetho ngokuzithemba ezintlanganisweni

I-fean kunye ne-stipor ngexesha lentlanganiso elandelayo ziimvakalelo ezimbi. Zithathe ngesandla-akufuneki ukuba njalo. Ungathatha yonke into ephantsi kolawulo kwaye unike umkhwa wokuhlala uthule.

Ukuba sengqondweni emsebenzini kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ufuna ukuphakanyiswa kwemisebenzi. Usebenza kakhulu, kwaye unemibono ebalaseleyo- ke kufuneka ubenempembelelo ngakumbi kwaye uwufanelekile ukwamkelwa.

Ekugqibeleni ndiziqhelanisa kancinci, uya kuziva ndililungu leqela elibalulekileyo (yintoni esele uyiyo).

1. Thatha imincili

Izandla zis shaky. Esiswini sisifa. Ngequbuliso uqala ukuthandabuza ukuba igama lomthengi libhaliwe ngokuchanekileyo kwi-ajenda. Oku kuyimincili eqhelekileyo ngapha kwentlanganiso. Olu luxinzelelo oluqhelekileyo lokulindela xa ucinga ukuba ihlanganisiweyo iya kuvavanya ubukrelekrele bakho okanye igalelo lakho emsebenzini.

I-Psychologist evela eStanford Kelly Mctonyoniiga ayikuthathelanga uloyiko olunjalo ngomqondiso wokuba awonelanga okanye ungahlangabezana nalo msebenzi. Ucebisa ukuba enze abahlobo ngendlela asabela ngayo kuxinzelelo, aphayisela kwaye ayibone kuyo ukuba uzimisele ukwenza nokwenza umzamo omkhulu.

Kubalulekile ukunciphisa inqanaba elisisiseko lokukhuthaza ngaphambi kwentlanganiso. I-Ellison, umthengi, endandixelela ngaphambili, wasebenzisa indlela yokuphefumla yokuphefumla ukuze uzole.

2. Glolisa ngokutyibilikayo

Kukho isilingo esiza kanye ekuqaleni kwentlanganiso ukubonisa ukuba ukhawulezile, okanye uphephe ukuncokola kakubi. Kodwa imvakalelo yokungxama okanye ukungabikho kwexesha kuya kwandisa uxinzelelo olukhoyo olwalukhoyo.

Endaweni yoko, yakha i-buffer: ishedyuli yokuntywiliselwa kwintlanganiso de iqale. Ziyekelele kwiholo. Ukuba le yi-telekranse ebonakalayo, ngaphambi kolawulo lwe-webinaar kwangaphambili, cwangcisa i-microphone kunye newebhu yewebhu.

Njengoko kuvela oogxa bakhe, bathetha nomnye okanye ezimbini kuzo, eziluncedo ngokubanzi kwaye zinceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo. Kuyimfuneko ukutsho intetho yentshayelelo ekuqaleni kwentlanganiso, emva koko incoko iya kuya kwi-ajenda. Oku kuya kunceda ukunciphisa ixhala kunye nokwenza unxibelelwano lusebenza ngakumbi.

3. Thetha ngokukhawuleza

Kwenzekile kuwe ukuba uza kwintlanganiso enezimvo kunye nesicwangciso sento ofuna ukuyithetha, emva koko uye waqonda ukuba lonke ixesha besithule? Ukuthula kukonela ngenkonzo yebhere. Ixesha elide intlanganiso lihlala, ihlala iba nzima ukujoyina incoko. Ukulindela okulindeleyo, okuqinileyo inkxalabo yakho iyakhula.

Rhoqo, ukukhula kwenzeka ngenxa yokungonwabi, kwanyanzeleka ukuba uthethe kwangoko. Beka umsebenzi olula: thetha into kwiMizuzu yokuqala ye-10-15 - ukubulisa abathathi-nxaxheba, yenza umbono ophambili, buza umbuzo okanye uvakalise uluvo kwisivakalisi esitsha seshishini. Le yindlela eqinisekileyo yokuhlala ngaphezulu kwengxoxo.

4. Sebenzisa amandla akho

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe yindoda enkulu entlanganisweni. Nditsho nokuthetha ngokuthula abasebenzi abathetha ngokuzolileyo banokuphembelela, ukuxhasa uluvo loLogshana ibinzana elilula: "Umbono omkhulu! Ndicinga ukuba isebenza ngokwenene. "

Unokugxila ekumiseleni imibuzo ebalulekileyo. Abasebenzi abanobuthathaka bajongiwe kakhulu, abaxelela imibuzo ebukhali engekafiki koogxa bakhe.

Enye indlela esebenzayo yokuqinisa ifuthe kwanasemva kokuba intlanganiso igqityiwe - thumela i-imeyile kumphathi, nokuba ushwankathela, ungcono, unike iprojekthi entsha ebangelwa yingxoxo. Uya kufumana igama njengoMntu oBonelayo, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhumbule xa kuphakama umbuzo. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, uya kufumana ukuzithemba.

Yiloo nto i-Elson kwiveki yokuqala emva kokuqala komsebenzi. Ephethe izixhobo ezitsha kunye nesibindi, awayeyifumana ngokubulela, unokusithi: "Ndinebhongo malunga nokuba nentembelo kwaye enobuqili-nkolo bam. Kodwa, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ndiyazibulela. "

5. Yiba ngowokuqala ukuza kwenza

Ngaba umbono ofuna uphando olongezelelekileyo lwavela ngexesha lentlanganiso? Yenzele intlanganiso elandelayo. Iya kubonisa inyathelo lakho kunye nomdla. Kwaye oku kukuvumela ukuba uzityhalele kwihambo efunekayo. Uzinikezele ngokwakho- ngoku uya kuba nenkuthazo engaphezulu.

6. Cela umngeni kwiinkolelo zakho

Imveli yobunkokeli abantu abaninzi ayinakukhula ngokufanelekileyo ebuntwaneni, kwaye ukungaqiniseki ngokungathandabuzekiyo kunokukhupha ekuziphatheni kwethu ngexesha lokwenza izinto. Ungayenza njani imeko ekhutshiweyo enokuthintela ukuba ungazithembi? Kuya kufuneka uziqonde kakhulu izimvo zakho ngokuzithemba kunye neentetho.

Yintoni owevayo ebuntwaneni ngabantu abavela phakathi kwabanye? Ngaba abazali bakho, ootitshala kunye noluntu batsho ukuba unokuba ngubani, okanye ngaba ukhe wafunda ukuba "abantu abazithandiyo ngexhala"?

Ukuba awunanto okanye ucinge ngempendulo engalunganga malunga nezimvo zakho, cinga ngendlela onokubuya ngayo xa uzithemba kwakho kuxhomekeke kwizimvo zabanye (ngakumbi abagunyazisiweyo) abantu.

Xa unento oyithethayo, kodwa uphakamisa amathandabuzo angaphakathi, enkosi ukugxekwa kwam kwangaphakathi ukuzama ukwenza umsebenzi kwaye ukukukhusela. Uloyiko lunokubonisa ukuba uthetha into ebalulekileyo. Sebenzisa umzuzu. Yekani ukudlala kakuhle. Khumbula ukuba uthatha indawo yakho kuba ufanelekile, uyasebenza kwaye ubalulekile.

Ubunzima obuthathaka bunokucebisa abanye. Lixesha lokuba uxelele ngayo wonke umntu.