Uthando, intlonipho, ukuqonda okuthe ngqo-yonke le nto kwaye ziyaqondakala, ngaphandle kwazo kunokwenzeka ngokomgaqo ukungathethi malunga nobudlelwane. Asiyi kuyeka imithetho eyaziwayo necacileyo. Makhe sijonge ukuba ayisiyiyo yonke le nto ukwazi malunga nento ekungekho lula kakhulu ukuba uqaphele kumphezulu.
Ndityhila imithetho yakho emi-3 esisiseko sobudlelwane obufanelekileyo,
1) Ubudlelwane kufuneka bubandakanyeke. Ukuba uyakholelwa ukuba wonke umntu wanele ukudibana "nomntu" wakhe, kwaye zonke ezona zizwe zinobudlelwane obugqibeleleyo kunye nobomi bosapho, ke kufuneka ndikuphoxe. Hayi, akukho lula. Le nto ibandakanya ukhathalelo, ingqalelo, uthando kunye nenkxaso, umdla kwiqabane lakhe kunye nokungabikho ngokupheleleyo kokungakhathalelwa. Ukunyathela i-kitten okanye ukuthenga isityalo sasekhaya, uyaqonda ukuba kufuneka unakekele le nto impilo. Funa ukufumana umsebenzi olungileyo, yenza umsebenzi-kufuneka ufunde kakhulu, uphuhlise, unxibelelane nomntu onomdla ebantwini, njl. Ndifuna ubudlelwane obugcwele kwaye bunobungqineka- kufuneka sakhe unxibelelwano neqabane lakho ukuze kungabikho nto ingamkelekanga, imangalise, ukungaqondi, ukungcungcutheka.
2) Akufanelanga ukuba kubekho ubundlobongela kubudlelwane obunempilo. Ubundlobongela bungabi kuphela komzimba kuphela, olona hlobo luyingozi. Ulawulo, umnqweno wokuphikisa umntu-le yindlela yobundlobongela. Xa udibana nomntu kwaye ubone into engakulungelanga, ngelixa uvumela ukwakha ubudlelwane naye, ngokuxhomekeka ekubeni la maxesha oya kulungelelanisa kuyo, kwasekuqaleni i-Utopio. Okokuqala, akunakwenzeka ukutshintsha uhlobo lomntu. Okwesibini, uya kuhlala uhlala kwisaphulelo, umsindo, ukuphoxeka kwiqabane elinjalo, kuba ukutshintsha ubuntu bakhe kuwe. Kwaye okwesithathu, uya kubonisa ugonyamelo kwiqabane lakho ukuba kuyacaca kubudlelwane obunempilo.
Iifom zobundlobongela zisebenza ngokugxeka. Ukugxeka iqabane livumelekile kuphela kwifom engenabundlobongela kunye nemvume yakhe. Ukukhwaza, ukuthuka, ukukhetha, ukusetyenziswa kwamagama abunjiweyo kwidilesi yeqabane kuthathwa njengento ebonakalayo yobundlobongela. Iingcikivo kukuba iqabane lifumana kancinci okanye lichitha kakhulu, oloyikisayo kwicandelo "awusayi kuphinda ufumane imali," "andikuvumeli ukuba uthenge ifowuni entsha", njl. Jonga ubundlobongela bezemali. Kulwalamano olusempilweni, akafanele abe ziindawo. Kumaxesha anjalo, sibuyela kumhlathi woku-1 kwaye sakhe unxibelelwano kunye neqabane ngaphandle kokungaqondani kunye nokubizi. Kufanelekile ukuba ibonise ngokucacileyo ukuba kutheni ufuna imali, indlela yokunyusa ingeniso, njengoko unokufumana igalelo kwinto yokuba iqabane liba lifumana umvuzo. Unxibelelwano kwisibini - sonke.
Isalathisi sobudlelwane apho kukho ubundlobongela bunokwenza njengemvakalelo yehlazo, ukuziva unetyala, uloyiko, ukuba lilolo kwelinye lamaqabane.
3) Ibhalansi phakathi kwam Ezona ziqondakalayo kwaye ezinzima zokuphumeza umgaqo. Rhoqo kubonakala ngathi ukuba sizinike bonke ngokwam, kwaye ngembuyekezo sifumana intlekele. Kule meko, kufuneka wazise i-ORT yakho. Cinga kwaye unobunzima. Ndiza kumnika umzekelo olula. Emva komhla, iqabane lakho lithumele imiyalezo emi-2 kunye nomxholo awakuvuyela ukuchitha ixesha nawe. Yiphendule malunga nefomathi efanayo kunye nenani lemiyalezo. Musa ukuntywila umntu kwisaqhwithi sazo zonke iimvakalelo onazo. Okanye ukuba uyinto engenamsebenzi, kwaye iqabane lakho ngandlela zonke lubonisa iimvakalelo zalo, libonisa umdla walo, libonisa umdla walo, libonisa umdla, zama ukuzibonakalisa ngakumbi. Ukuba, kunjalo, unomdla wokuphuhlisa olu lwalamano.
Ngomhla wabo bonke abathandi, ndifuna ukunqwenelela wonke umntu onobudlelwane, umtshato, unosapho, onesidima, usempilweni nolonwabo kunye nolonwabo. Nakubo bonke abaseziintabeni zabo, khawuleza bakufumane. Khumbula ukuba singabalumkeli bolonwabo lwethu. Yenza ubudlelwane babo, bahlakulele kwaye ungalibali ukuba nobabini niya kufumana ulonwabo kubo.
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