Ngakumbi, ngakumbi nangakumbi, yonke into isebenza, ndifumana lo mbuzo kunye nempendulo "i-Naniza, siya kudlula."
Ngakumbi, ngakumbi nangakumbi, yonke into isebenza, ndifumana lo mbuzo kunye nempendulo "i-Naniza, siya kudlula." Kucacile ukuba oomama abangazange bahlale bodwa kufuneka bazikhusele kwimbono yokuba umntwana wabo akasayi kuba nomzali wesibini. Ngaphezu koko, xa umama ucinga ukuba unesiphene ngaphandle kwendoda nangomfazi, kwaye njengonina, kwaye oku kukukaluhlobo lwentlekele, kwaye oku akuloncedo emntwaneni. Ukongeza, uninzi lwabafundisi bebhayoloji lwayo luye lwavuka ngaphandle kotata, okanye kuphela ngokubonakalayo, kwaye besela, ngenxa yoko abanakuhlala becinga ngezinto abanokuzenza.
Uninzi lwabathengi bam, kunye nendoda elungileyo nje, ungayiqondi indlela abanokuba ngootata abanokuzinikezela, kutheni befuna umntwana kwaye kutheni bedinga umntwana. Kumbuzo wokuba kutheni ufuna umntwana ndibhale kakhulu kwaye ngokweenkcukacha kwi-jernali yentombi yam. Esi sisidalwa esimangalisayo esijongeka ngathi - kwaye ngokugqibeleleyo ngokungapheliyo, senza into eninzi, sikhula, siyayithanda kwaye ihle kakhulu kwaye ixabiseke kakhulu kwaye ixabiseke kakhulu kwaye iyabiza kakhulu.
Kutheni efuna utata? Ndiza kukuxelela ukuba ibona njani kwisiseko sento endiyaziyo kumava ka-Psychoupic. Kwaye-kumntwana.
AmavaUmntwana uza kwihlabathi kwaye ufunda ukuhlala kuyo. Akazi ukuba amadoda ahluke ngokupheleleyo kubafazi, kutheni kufuneka ufunde ukuba yintoni enomdla ngakumbi - ibali okanye i-chemistry, indlela onokuthi udlale ngayo amakhadi, njengoko unokuphendula kuye isithuko. Kwaye iseti yezinto engenamsebenzi.
Umama, ugogo mhle. Kodwa bangabafazi. Kwaye bajonga kwihlabathi labasetyhini, nokuba ezi mvelo zahluke kakhulu. Utata unika omnye ujonge emhlabeni - oyindoda. Kwaye uthetha malunga nehlabathi lamadoda, njengoko elungiselela ukuba kuxabiseke oko kuthathwa njengengabalulekanga. Into enomdla, kwaye ayikho. Kwaye oko wahluke kwahluka kwabanye, kwaye oko akubabukelayo njengabo.
Iluncedo kakhulu kwaye inkwenkwe, nentombazana. Eyona nto ilula kukuba utata wenkwenkwe unokuthetha indlela yokuyilawula intombazana, le ntombazana - oko kufanele ukuba yoyike. Ngamava am, utata wayehlala ephuma ngokulula kwaye echaneka ngakumbi kunomama.
Ewe, kwaye le ntombazana ibaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuba kukho amadoda alungileyo emhlabeni oya kunyamekela usapho lwabo okanye umntwana wabo. Kwaye xa abanye abantu basetyhini bamxelelayo "Ewe, bonke batshintsha, abadingi kubantwana kubo bonke," uya kuphikisana. Kuba unomntwana omthandayo, ekhathalele, engaze akhathazeke ingozi (ukuba akangomntu omangalisayo ozama ukumenzakalisa okanye usapho). Kwaye inkwenkwe iya kuba phambi kwamehlo umntu ongoyiki ukukhulisa abantwana kwaye akawugqali umthwalo. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu - baya kukhula, bakwazi ngehlabathi elingamadoda nale lihluke ngokupheleleyo kwibhinqa.
InzalaNdithathela ingqalelo kumntwana wam into ebaluleke kakhulu kunothando. Kuba ungamthanda umntwana wakho kwaye ungazi nto ngayo. "Wenza ntoni?", "Kutheni?", "Kutheni le nto iibhola eziphuzi zibhetele kunelo luhlaza?", "Kutheni ingonyama ifihla phantsi komvundla? Kwaye, umvundla ixesha elide? " - Ilizwe lomntwana lizaliswe ziingxaki, ezifunyenweyo, iimfuno kunye neendaba. Banokubonakala bengaqhelekanga, kodwa ukuba uyabamanga- umntwana uya kubavula.
Kwaye utata wakhe unokumxelela umntwana ngento enomdla kuye. Kwaye umntwana uya kwazi ngakumbi ngayo kwaye mhlawumbi uya kuqhagamshelane nobomi bakhe kunye nayo.
Andikasebenzisi amandla okubiza umpu, amanqaku e-carridges kwaye ujonge iinxalenye zehlathi elinekhephu. Kodwa ndiyawuthanda njengobuntwana. Kwaye ngaphezulu ndikuthandile ukuya kwihlathi entle eligutyungelwe ngutata wam, ndimamele amabali akhe malunga nezilwanyana kunye ne-fry kwisoseji okanye ngesosi. Kwaye sikhwela kuye, ukuba sisebenze, kwigaraji yegaraji ehambise ipetroli. Kuba lilimini katata, ayithandayo. Ke, unomdla onyanisekileyo.
Mhlawumbi ukuzingela kwinkampani enentombazana eneminyaka emithandathu engazi ukuba iqhuba njani ukukhukuliseka kwesanti akuyi kusebenza ngokuphumelelayo ngokobungqina. Kodwa inyani yokuba intombazana eneminyaka emithandathu ubudala iya kwamkelwa kwaye utata wakhe ukuveza ehlathini ebomini, ngokoluvo lwam, kufanelekile. Into ephambili ayikuphumelelanga intonga kwaye ibukele kubo bobabini. Ukutsala umntu nxamnye nentando yakhe kwihlathi ngeshumi elinantathu, ukuthatha isigqibo sokudlala, ekugqibeleni, kutata-usenokuba njalo, endaweni yoko, ukusilela.
UthandoUthando lwamadoda lwahlukile kwibhinqa. Ewe kunjalo, yonke into iyonto, kodwa uBawo wandivumela ukuba ndibe. Ngamanye amaxesha wayendoyikisa, kuba umlinganiswa wokufikisa yayiyingxaki nje, kwaye ngoku ndiyindawo yam, njengengelosi ezolileyo. Kodwa bonke ubuntwana bam bendisazi ukuba utata uyandithanda kanye le ndim. Hayi kwi-hihlanu ephezulu (nangona babenebhongo ngabo), hayi ukuncedisa ikhaya (bendihlala ndilivila), kodwa ngenxa yokuba beneluthi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba benenkani, bajonga kakhulu emqhingangeni kunye noluvo lwam. Ndaziva ndimvume kuye ukuba ndibem. Nolwazi njengam, ndiyakwazi ukuthanda.
Umakhulu kunye notata wawuphileka kakhulu. Ngamanye amaxesha umama wazibandakanya nabo. Babedla ngokufunda intetho ngesihloko esithi "Gircy". Kodwa bendisazi ukuba utata ulungile.
Xa waswelekayo, ndafumana ebhegini yaseBrigadier, eyandiyanisa kum, ikona encinci yenqwelomoya, awayiphosa umama xa wayesesibhedlele. Yabhalwa apho ukuba lindilindile mna kunye noMama, kwaye ndisithanda kakhulu. Andisokuze ndikholelwe ukuba ukwenza ezo zinto zibuthathaka. Le yenye yezona zinto zixabisekileyo kum. Kum, le kwikona ibiza kakhulu kunendawo yokuhlala, endandinceda ngayo bathenga abazali bam. Utsho esithi-Utata wam wayefuna ukuba ndizalwe.
Xa intombi yam ikhula, ndiza kumbonisa umbongo endawumthumayo uyise eSMS xa ndandikwisibhedlele sokwamama, kunye nemifanekiso awayichukumisayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwam. Kwaye uya kwazi-sam simlindile. Besifuna ukuba yiyo. Ngemvelaphi enje yokuhlalana kwihlabathi ibe lula kakhulu. Kwaye kube lula kakhulu ukubaxolela abazali ngenkunkuma abayenzayo kamva. Kwaye ungangenzi inkunkuma abangenako kwaphela.
InkxasoUmama notata ngabantu abohlukileyo. Bafumana izinto ezahlukeneyo ngempumelelo eyahlukileyo. Kukho iingxaki eziza kuthatha isigqibo ngakumbi kunoTata. Kukho into eguqukayo ngcono. Ukukhula kwam, ndandisazi ukuba imali, umzekelo, kwincwadi, kulula ukuphindaphinda utata. Kuba ukuze ufumane umama-into efana ne-chocolate ye-chcowich. Kwaye uBawo, yonke incwadi endiyifundileyo yayinekratshi. Ndandisazi ukuba ngamava amthanda amava amthanda, uTata akayi kundigweba, kodwa weva kwaye exelela eyakhe. Indincedile kakhulu.
Wayenexhala apho ndihlala khona. Ndisithi kwihostele isiqingatha sesiqulatho semali, kunye nesiqingatha-iibhanki ezine-biviar ebomvu, iipasile ezineentlanzi kunye nexhama, ndiqinisekile ukuba ziyithenga imali engxamisekileyo nefanelekileyo.
ImbekoLe yenye into ebalulekileyo- kukuhlonipha umntwana. Umzimba wakhe. Ixesha. Umdla. Isibakala sokuba uyayixabisa kwaye uyathanda, nokuba isasazeke kwi-dilution yokugqibela yebhere.
Utata wandidumisa. Kodwa xa edunyisa, ndandisazi ukuba inyani. Wayesazi ukuba zikho izinto ezibalulekileyo kum, kwaye ndingazami ukubatshabalalise. Xa ndifunda kade, akafunga, wayesazi ukuba kusasa bendiyokuma esikolweni. Uye wasiphathe ngokuzolileyo into yokuba ndinxiba ndiphulaphule, nokuba akayithandi kakhulu, akazange alahle iikhasethi zam, kodwa wacela ukuyenza. Kwaye ndenze umabonwakude othuleyo, nokuba kukho ibhola kuye, ukuba bendizifundile egumbini lam ndamcela ukuba anciphise ivolumu. Kwaye ubukeke kakhulu kwisivumelwano.
Ndiyambulela utata wakhe, ndiyazi ukuba kukho amadoda anomdla kumfazi onesilumko obonakale ngathi yimbonakalo eqhelekileyo kunokuba ubuhle obungenanto. Yintoni amadoda angasokuze akhulise umfazi. Abangabutshintshe umfazi wabo, kuba bayamhlonela yena nothando. Ikwanamagama anje. Kukho abantu abathanda kwaye bayazi ukuba kungekuphela nje ekuphekeni, kodwa baphinde bazihlambe izitya kwaye bayokuthenga iimveliso. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, banzima, kwaye umama wakho akanakuba nzima ukuphakamisa. " Kwaye inqabile impahla yangaphantsi, kuba le nto ufuna amandla emzimbeni.
Kwangelo xesha, wayengelilo indoda eyoyikisayo kwiplanethi. Ayibanga nethontsi lobufazi. Ugqibile iiklasi ezisibhozo, izifundo ze-mason kunye nezifundo zomqhubi. Wayekhonza emkhosini. Ubomi bam bonke basebenza njengomqhubi, kwaye ixesha elide-kwiingoma ezinzima. Ndiqhube imibhobho, ndaqhuba "inqaba", yazisa ipetroli. Ubhale ngeempazamo zegrama ezihlekisayo kakhulu kwaye akazange afune nabanye ootata kwisixeko sethu. Ndinxibe ihempe ye-flannel ye-flannel kunye ne-jean, kwaye yayingakhathali ngokupheleleyo koko yayiyimibala. Oku kubizwa ngokuba "ngumsebenzi osebenza ngokulula". Waqhekeza kwaye waqengqeleka kakhulu i-hysteria amaxesha ngamaxesha, unokuwa eluxineni. Wayeneziphoso ezininzi kunye nokucekiseka uYise, kwaye kunzima kakhulu kubuntwana, apho wayengafuneki. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kwakunzima kum, kodwa ndandisazi ukuphakama emphefumlweni, kwanakwelona xesha linzima landithanda.
Kwaye ndikhokele kwimizekelo yolwalamano lwethu naye ukuze ndicace: Inokwenza umntwana ngamnye ukuba afumane umntwana. Oku akukho lula, kodwa mhlawumbi. Kufuneka sifune nje.