Ewe Ewe. Kulungile, ndihlala ndikwicala labantwana, hayi kuphela ...
Ewe Ewe. Kulungile, ndihlala ndikwicala labantwana, hayi eyakho yedwa. Xa ndisiva kubantu abadala: "Lo mfana usisidenge", ndifuna kakhulu ukubaphendula ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
Ndiyakholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba umntwana unelungelo lokufumana impazamo engathandekiyo, kwaye umntu omdala (ngokubhekisele kubantwana) - hayi. Yonke into ilula: Abantu abadala sele beba nabantwana, kodwa abantwana basekhulile. Umntwana uya kwazi kuphela eli lizwe: uyayiva, uyayibona kwaye ikopi yokuziphatha kwabadala. Intsapho yakhe kunye nendawo engqongileyo kwaye kukho imizekelo apho athatha khona umzekelo ngqo.
Ukuba umntwana ufunga, izilwanyana ezithathiweyo, ephosa inkunkuma edlula i-gen - ngubani obekek 'ityala?
Ukuba umntwana ubiza oontanga bakhe, uphose umnwe wakhe ngokupheleleyo, ushukumile ujike uye kwi-minibus- ngubani obekek 'ityala?
Ukuba intombazana ithathelatheka, yoyika ukunxibelelana nabahlobo bakhe, ngeenyembezi kuyahamba iinyembezi, ngubani obekek 'ityala?
Ukuba inkwenkwe ikholelwa ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo iya kudlula, ukuba 'yindoda' kwaye ingabi 'nguBaba "- ngubani obekek' ityala?
Ngokwemvelo, zonke iiwayini zilungile kwaye zilulele ngokupheleleyo kubazali bakhe okanye ngokupheleleyo ngabantu abanoxanduva lwempilo nokuphakamisa kwakhe. Thina, thina bantudala, sizenze zonke ezi meko zingentla, kwaye ke ngoko simangalisiwe kukungazi nokuba krwada.
Zijonge! Kwaye ngoku cinga kwaye uphendule umbuzo othi: "Ngaba ungaziveze?" Nokuba awuthethi nangabathandekayo bakho, ukuba awuchazi umnwe kwi "Iinkomo ezinamafutha", musa ukushenxisa ibhasi ngamazwi athi "ndishiywe apha", ukuba ifowuni ayiphoswanga yifowuni, ishwankathela Intshukumo yakho "Kulungile, uya kusola" ... ...
Abantwana bathabatha yonke into esuka kwihlabathi labantu abadala, yonke into ngaphandle kokuphumla. Bangathandeki, bayathemba kwaye bakwindalo elungileyo. Kwaye aba badala, bezenze ngolu hlobo, babeka inkohlakalo, ukungathembani kunye nobubi. Aba bantu badala, mabavumele ukuba bazame eli lizwe ukuzama, ukumisela isenzo sabo ngoluntu oludumileyo kunye nokungena kwinyani. Sithumela oonyana bethu emkhosini, ukukholelwa ngokunyaniseka ukuba baya kubafundisa apho ... Senza ukhetho lwabo kwaye samkela ezinye izigqibo ezingalunganga.
Uyabona, ihlabathi liphela alikho. Sonke sahlukile. Sonke sahlukile. Ndilusizi kakhulu kwaye ndithuka xa ndingenakungenakungenakucaphukiswa kunye nokungakhathali komlondolozana wabantu abadala kunye nonyana kukhokelela kwiintlekele zokwenene. Emva kwayo yonke into, akukho nto yenzeka ngequbuliso, akukho sikhuhla senkunkuma ngephanyazo. Itotali iyonke kukho ikota kwaye inezizathu.
Kodwa kuthi, abadala, kulula ukulungela wonke umgangatho phantsi komgangatho omnye, kulula ukucacisa ukungakwazi ukunxibelelana kwabo kunokuba bakwazi ukufumanisa into. Asazi ukuba singakwazi kangakanani, asizange sifundise. Ngapha koko, sonke sasihlala sinabantwana, kodwa badala badala ixesha ngalinye.